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OsideGirl -> RE: MASTER"S SELF CONTROL (11/15/2005 8:08:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LordODiscipline Now that a pretty good list is made, this comes down to - Why dominants? Why not anyone who is a potential partner in no matter what type of relationship someone desires? I find it interesting that we (as a sub-culture and perverts in general) tend to believe that this is something that a "dominant" should be capable of doing.. Why not the submissive? Why not anyone involved in a vanilla relationship? One of the problems I have with the lists that people make about us (those romantic self serving "A Dominant/Submissive must..." lists) is that that are traits that anyone would like to see in their partner - not to mention ourselves. We are definitvely not 'magical' and the people who decide they desire to be part and parcel of WIITWD are not suddenly imbued with any miraculous epiphany of character that cures them of their ills and/or makes them better people. That takes work on their part first. ~J Exactly! And the bladder control issue is important no matter who they are!

Webmaster60 -> RE: MASTER"S SELF CONTROL (11/15/2005 9:09:53 AM)
I would only add that there need be a mention of self control vs. self discipline. All of the aforementioned things SHOULD be within the character of ALL free men.. dom, nilla, and Master. See pussification thread on Gorean Lifestyles.. But control is one thing.. Its the ability to, or not, to react to some external stimuli. Bit discipline enables that control.. Not to regulate how you react, but to actually view life differently. Until you can actually change the way you FEEL, and view things in life, you can never hope to control them. That and the wisdom what only comes with age, to accept those things you simply can't change. A Master does not have the luxury of bratty moments, or emtional outbursts that lead to unacceptable behavior. I see so MANY bratty men, doms, wannabe's that expect a slave to have ABSOLUTE control over herself.. but miserably fail when held to the same standard. girl. If your potential Master does not embody the leadership, strength, courage, and mental capacity that you would want your son to grow up with.. leave him to the wayside to be eaten later.

candystripper -> RE: MASTER"S SELF CONTROL (11/16/2005 4:32:10 PM)
quote: We are definitvely not 'magical' and the people who decide they desire to be part and parcel of WIITWD are not suddenly imbued with any miraculous epiphany of character that cures them of their ills and/or makes them better people. That takes work on their part first. ~J/LordofDiscipline Sir, i agree with You apart from two types of men. First, men who've no real interest in BDSM but think "kinky" women are easy; or can be abused with impunity, etc. Second, the Man my age who stil has not mastered His own life's essentials. And i further agree that submission is an act of strength, and requires one to be acting from a position of stability, etc., not sending up an S-O-S to all comers. candystripper

RiotGirl -> RE: MASTER"S SELF CONTROL (11/16/2005 6:25:48 PM)
Maybe they control others because they cant control themselves?

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