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MaamJay -> RE: Munch etiquette for subs/slaves (7/18/2008 8:21:39 AM)
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Well, you should contact those who run the munch you will be attending for specific details on how to find the group and what the rules are. However, generally, munches are simply social occasions in a restaurant or a bar, so the emphasis is on wearing ordinary clothes (basic black is always a safe option), nothing too obviously "fetish" (some will allow people to wear collars, others no), and conducting yourself discreetly as you would at any venue open to the general public. The group is likely to resemble an extended family or a bunch of workmates out for a good time! There's no need to Sir and Ma'am everyone, people will be introduced to you or introduce themselves by the name or nickname they prefer. Generally most stick to just a first name for a bit of safety and privacy, and asking people what they do for a job or specifically where they live is not the done thing. Simply be polite and generally respectful of others, you can ask them whether they are Dom/sub/switch etc and just enjoy the freedom of actually meeting likeminded people in the flesh! If you are talking about bdsm, change the topic if restaurant staff approach, it may make them drop your dinner if they hear the word "buttplug" at the wrong moment [:D]
Maam Jay aka violet[A]
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