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RE: teaching your sub to be responsible? - 11/15/2005 8:08:19 AM

HeavenlyCeleste

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If it does end upin court...leave out the fact that you bought the pot!

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RE: teaching your sub to be responsible? - 11/15/2005 1:48:39 PM

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Thanks Ms Francine and Ms K for your kinds words and support, you gave me a lot to think about and thanks to everyone else for your advise. Not sure what i am going to do yet, probibly give it a little time and hope he makes good on his word. Not holding my breath though lol

Who knows what tomorrow may bring.

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RE: teaching your sub to be responsible? - 11/15/2005 1:49:26 PM

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lol....i never smoke pot....i'm an angel

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RE: teaching your sub to be responsible? - 11/15/2005 2:05:50 PM

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quote:

My question is...isn't a Domme supposed to guide her submissive to be honorable....isn't she supposed to encourage him to do the right thing and take care of his responsibilites?

I would think so....and it is what i would want in a D/s relationship.
I don't think i could respect another who would encourage me to behave in a dishonarble fashion.

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RE: teaching your sub to be responsible? - 11/15/2005 4:08:21 PM

onceburned

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quote:

ORIGINAL: orfunboi
My question is...isn't a Domme supposed to guide her submissive to be honorable....isn't she supposed to encourage him to do the right thing and take care of his responsibilites?

I think that is an admirable position, but she isn't responsible for totally reworking his personality. If he is such a deadbeat, she will soon learn so... regardless of what he has been telling her.

She will have to decide if she wants to undertake a rehabilitation project. I am guessing most women do not pick a sub as a Pygmalion experiment. So I expect that she will release this fellow.

But at any rate, I wouldn't count on a BDSM conversion suddenly making the guy responsible. I am sorry that you lost so much.

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