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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:29:16 AM   
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I don't think I'm expressing myself well enough here, but quite frankly, if SS told you not to marry, and that really stopped you.......well I pity your girl.

In any event, the point is as DA so eloquently pointed out............one household costs less than two.  There are common-law legalities, that one may tend to avoid while just "shacking" up, however, I like to think those are working people paying taxes, as opposed to "hey, let's combine my SSI with your SSD and watch the morons head off to work, and it doesn't cost me a cent" kinda mentality.  At some point in your life, you have to be honest about something...........or who can you trust? 

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 1:42:18 AM   
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Be moral or immoral, the morality of this issue still does not change the legality of the situation. The couples actions are still legal regardless of the intentions. However, if SS told me directly to my face not to get married, I couldn't see myself feeling bad about my actions.   


I would absolutely NOT bet on the legality of it.... It also bears mention that the advice of an underpaid beurocrat in any govt office should not be construed as "legal advice" or "an endorsement" or any type of assurance whatsoever that you will not find yourself in alligators up to your asshole down the road.

In both miltary and civilian life, I have been advised to do things that I knew to be illegal. I wont get into where, it wasnt Houston, but I once had an FAA Aviation Safety Inspector tell us that it would be easier to sign off the inspection before we flew the aircraft back, than to go through the paperwork to get the permit to fly the legally unairworthy aircraft back to a place where the inspection can be done... Essentially he advised us to pencil whip the log books on an unsafe aircraft so that he could avoid paperwork!  I have asked a Navy Flight Surgeon about a particular medication I was given in an ER only to be told "well dont get killed the only way they will find it is in a tox screen at autopsy and then it wont matter".  Lots of low level beurocrats say incredibly stupid things - try to get them to put it in writing if its so legal!

Remember, when you get busted it wont be the clerk at the social security office investigating the fraud case... Its also highly probable that the "helpful rep" will forget the advice he or she gave you. I know god damn well had I pencil whipped those logs and had a mishap, the boys at the FAA headquarters wouldnt say "Oh yeah, one of our ASI's told you to do it so its ok.... Hell its not like its a big deal!"

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 6:13:46 AM   
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What the Hell, why don't they take it one step more.  She can have children with him, then collect that money also, plus if she is willing to lie a little more she can say she does not know who the father is and he will not be stuck with any child support.  The rest of us will.

Yea, sounds like a great relationship for everybody.  What the fuck, I only work my ass off to support my family, what's a few free loaders added to that.

You nailed it DA.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 6:40:18 AM   
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Take this from someone who was a Representative Payee for an SSI recipient for Years, Fangs - what you're advising them is not only Not Legal, it'll get them into so much deep shit when someone calls and reports then that they'll never dig out of it.  Even when you do everything absolutely By The Book where SSI/SSD are concerned - you can easily get into trouble with just one missed or mismarked checkbox on an annual report.  At which time you're told to start paying back the overpayment.  And if you don't Voluntarily surrender the amount In Full within 30 days, you find that they arbitrarily cut benefits by a certain amount each month to "repay the overpayment" - even if you can prove there was No overpayment.
 
OP - tell your "friends" to suck it up, be Ethical and Honest, and either forget their plans to have a life Together or to acknowledge to themselves that things ARE GOING TO CHANGE when they get married.  Marriage, in and of itself, Causes Changes.  That is a fact of life - just like moving in together causes changes, or even being in a relationship causes changes.  The amount of Individual benefits they recieve, for the two of them both living off the public tit, is simply one of those Changes that's going to happen.  Personally, I find it impossible to muster up any sort of respect - in fact anything other than contempt and loathing - for people whom I know are unethical and dishonest. 

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 7:10:54 AM   
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Some of you people really make me laugh. I mean really.

How many of you would be just as angry if these people weren't living off SSI, but let's say two corporate CEOs trying to do something similar but get out of paying taxes? The sums of money involved would be much greater than what I would assume you get paid for on SSI.

And like none of you get any benefits from all these taxes and stuff you pay? 'I work my ass off to pay tax' - great, what a wonderful achievement, give yourselves a round of applause. Maybe when you retire you might get a medal or a pretty looking carriage clock.

Here in the UK it would be illegal. But you know the law isn't quite the same as morality and to me morally it shouldn't really make a difference, which I assume is the motivation behind what is described in the OP. It's not as if they're trying to get more money out of the system than what they would have been entitled to if the rules were fairer.

Can any of you actually prove what you are saying that your taxes are actually supporting someone on SSI? Or is this just something you've all assumed? More to the point, how many of you know why the people in question are actually on SSI, or is it just your assumption, yet again, that these people are lazy? How do you know for example that these people aren't disabled, seriously ill, or unable to get work?

The thing is what you do in this case, i.e. work and the fact that you pay tax doesn't make a difference. From what I can gather from the OP these people are on SSI, therefore this isn't anybody else's money but their's, it's money which they're entitled to based on the decision of an authority for whatever reason, and actually what they do with this money isn't any of your business.

Please don't save me a place on your bandwagon of moral outrage. I don't do hypocrisy. Nor do I reserve my outrage for people worse off than me. I wonder how many of you pay unfair bank charges without a whimper of protest, for example.

It cuts both ways, it really does. I don't support people cheating the system any more than anyone else, but I accept that there's a shade of difference between bending the rules and fraud.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 7:25:19 AM   
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has anyone here tried living on govt assistance? not enough to pay rent. never mind also paying for food and utilities. yes some do abuse the system. but for the most part a lot have to decide what will be payed this month and what can wait til the shut off notice comes. the paper work is a nightmare at times and the workers who are supposed to help act like you are scum.
my ex is on ssi. not because he doesnt want to work but because he really cant. i was on welfare not because i wanted but because i had small ones and a handicapped SO. still went through school and now i'm a nurse.
he is still handicapped, still unable to work. having to live on 6oo a month. can anyone here that has a job be able to budget housing food utilities( no cable  phone internet, cant afford those) , transportation to and from drs on 6oo a month?


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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 7:53:00 AM   
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has anyone here tried living on govt assistance? not enough to pay rent. never mind also paying for food and utilities. yes some do abuse the system. but for the most part a lot have to decide what will be payed this month and what can wait til the shut off notice comes. the paper work is a nightmare at times and the workers who are supposed to help act like you are scum.
my ex is on ssi. not because he doesnt want to work but because he really cant. i was on welfare not because i wanted but because i had small ones and a handicapped SO. still went through school and now i'm a nurse.
he is still handicapped, still unable to work. having to live on 6oo a month. can anyone here that has a job be able to budget housing food utilities( no cable  phone internet, cant afford those) , transportation to and from drs on 6oo a month?



No Ive never lived on public assistance and I never will either. As for it "not being enough to pay rent" sure it is... Just not at Brittany Bay or Clear Lake Shores... Ill be happy to budget his $600....

Rent on a trailer in a park on the wrong side of the tracks - $300
Electric / Water / Prepaid Cell Phone - $100
Food $50 per week. = $200
Monthly Total - $600 - note there is nothing left over for cigarettes, strip clubs, lotto tickets or bottles of Mad Dog 20-20.

Works out just fine... Of course you neglected to menition that the $600doesnt include the taxi / ambulette transfers to the medical appointments via medicaid, the govt cheese blocks, the home meal delivery, the Home Energy Assistance Program, the food stamps, etc...

Not a bad racket they got because if I want some god damn cheese I have to go to the deli counter to buy it. If I want a hot meal delivered to my home I have to call a local pizzaria, chineese resteraunt, or bbq joint. I had to make sure that my step kids had breakfast BEFORE they left the house cause they didnt get it at school. Im just the dumb fuck who pays the band...

Not my standard of living as my electric bill alone is more than $600 a month. However, I earn my living and choose to spend that much. Cable TV, Internet, those aren't necessities of life those are luxuries for those who can afford them.  The purpose of social services is to keep you alive not to provide a free ride high on the hog. Poverty sucks, thats why I break my ass to make sure Im not in it....

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 8:06:46 AM   
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         Once again, Stella, as with your experience with our immigration services, you seem to be confusing your notions of how things out to be, with how our laws actually work. 

          The CEO example is utter nonsense, apples and axle grease.  That is their money (but a nice attempt to distract the conversation into class warfare).

         Forget the taxpaying aspect for a moment, this is MY money they wish to steal.  Social Security is an entitlement program, a safety net for the elderly, the disabled, widows and orphans.  There is only so much money in the pot.  The people mentioned by the OP are trying to get more of it than they are entitled to.  If something horrible should happen in my life this week, the money they are stealing would be money I could not get.

       Also, making a leap of assumption from the tubes in the OP's profile pic nose, she would do well to understand that her posting of this thread could easily be taken as part of a conspiracy to commit fraud, tossing her off any assistance as well.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 8:11:31 AM   
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This seems to be the week for posters to rise up and suggest committing fraud of all types.  If I were in the business of committing fraud I don't think I'd out myself on a message board.  

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 8:26:01 AM   
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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 8:35:51 AM   
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...  can anyone here that has a job be able to budget housing food utilities( no cable  phone internet, cant afford those) , transportation to and from drs on 6oo a month?


Yes, I can.  There have been times when I raised a family on five for less than that, and I never looked to the government to "assist" me.  Minimum wage income, after taxes and insurance, amounts to little more than that, and a great many people manage.

Sure, they may not live in the lap of luxury, but as DomAviator said, "the purpose of social services is to keep you alive not to provide a free ride high on the hog."  SSI stands for "Supplemental Security Income"... note the word "supplemental".  

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 8:40:44 AM   
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Hey, DA, just wanted to comment that you overspent.

Renting a room can be cheaper than $300/month. And $50/week for food...


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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 8:57:52 AM   
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Once again, Stella, as with your experience with our immigration services, you seem to be confusing your notions of how things out to be, with how our laws actually work.



Okay, so bringing up your unrelated point to my failed attempt to enter the US last year you are confusing visiting the country with emigrating there. Yes I was arguing on the basis of principle, a moral principle as opposed to what is written in the letter of the law and the rules.

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ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

The CEO example is utter nonsense, apples and axle grease. That is their money (but a nice attempt to distract the conversation into class warfare).



You have your opinion. I have mine. These opinions differ. Trying to obtain more money than you are entitled to off welfare is fraud. Trying to get out of paying tax which you are legally liable for is also fraud. My argument wasn't based on the legality, my actual opinion is that if you're on welfare you stay within the rules. However it was clear that they were wanting to find a way round the rules where they could keep the same income but still be together.

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Forget the taxpaying aspect for a moment, this is MY money they wish to steal. Social Security is an entitlement program, a safety net for the elderly, the disabled, widows and orphans. There is only so much money in the pot. The people mentioned by the OP are trying to get more of it than they are entitled to. If something horrible should happen in my life this week, the money they are stealing would be money I could not get.



So you're trying to tell me here they're trying to steal your disposable income? How so? The tax paying aspect therefore is important. The money you pay in taxes ceases to be your money once it is paid, but becomes the Government's money. Are you with me so far? I hope so. The government decides who is entitled to SSI and who isn't. Some authority has decided that these people are entitled to SSI. Just as the same authority would decide that you would be entitled to SSI if something happened to you. The money would be there. You are entitled to your opinion of course, but this is your opinion, which is confusing how things ought to be and how things actually are. I'll leave it for you whether you wish to ignore the hypocrisy or not.

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Also, making a leap of assumption from the tubes in the OP's profile pic nose, she would do well to understand that her posting of this thread could easily be taken as part of a conspiracy to commit fraud, tossing her off any assistance as well.


Oh sure, there's always two sides to every story. It was never stated why these people are on SSI, just as it was never stated that these people have actually taken steps to defraud the authorities.

Go back and read the OP carefully.

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I have a question that My bestfriend asked Me and I want to get others input.



I assume that the OP is seeking information.

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So she was thinking about having a wedding that wasnt legal



'Thinking about' to me means 'considering' and not 'I have decided to' or even 'I intend to' I prefer to assume someone is innocent until they are proven guilty. I also feel that a Message Board on a BDSM website is the wrong place to be looking for this sort of information anyway.

But as we can see opinions differ.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:00:01 AM   
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Hey, DA, just wanted to comment that you overspent.

Renting a room can be cheaper than $300/month. And $50/week for food...



Oh I know... I allowed $50 on food so he can get good and fat. I mean if youre gonna play the role ya gotta look the part - when did ya last see a skinny welfare case? $50 a week on food should enable someone to bulk up to at least 350 - 400 pounds. In reality a person can live on far less than $50 in food even dining out... Hell $1 will buy 4 ramen soups, covering 4 lunches. A banquet frozen lasagna is $2.50 which will cover 2 dinners. Canned vegtables are 50 cents a can and a person can get 2 - 3 servings from one. etc.. But that $50 will buy 7 Whopper Juniors a day from the dollar menu, which should enable any properly motivated welfare parasite to get obese enough to develop serious medical conditions that will bring in yet more financial help LOL. 

Edited to add: I just checked the nutrition info on the burgerking web site... That whopper junior loaded is 500 calories. So if we ammend the diet to only six whopper juniors a day and a 2 liter bottle of mountain dew (99 cents), weve got our a $600 a month man on nice healthy  3,880 calorie a day diet... LMFAO Yep that will keep starvation at bay...

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:01:16 AM   
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... And $50/week for food...


Ain't that the truth.  Sheesh... if you ever thought about it, with all the fast food places with 99 cent menus, a person could literally eat for an entire week for $25 to $30.  Of course, it wouldn't exactly be healthy and you couldn't make a pig of yourself, but for example...

Breakfast:   McD's sausage biscuit

Lunch:        W's crispy chicken sandwich & sm. fries

Dinner:       TB's 1/2 pound cheesy bean and rice burrito

There... $4 for the day.   No soda, but water is free. 

lol... DA, you beat me to it.  Yup, on $50 a week, a person could make a pig of themselves.


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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:05:45 AM   
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How many of you would be just as angry if these people weren't living off SSI, but let's say two corporate CEOs trying to do something similar but get out of paying taxes? The sums of money involved would be much greater than what I would assume you get paid for on SSI.
I don't condone or approve of CEOs trying to commit Fraud any more than I do welfare, SSI/SSD, or other Assistance program recipients.  Fraud is Fraud is Fraud.  Period.  Heretic is correct in his statement that it's comparing Apples and Axle Grease, though - as the ceos you use as an example are trying to hold on to money that would go into public coffers - not to gain Extra money From those public coffers.

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And like none of you get any benefits from all these taxes and stuff you pay? 'I work my ass off to pay tax' - great, what a wonderful achievement, give yourselves a round of applause. Maybe when you retire you might get a medal or a pretty looking carriage clock.
  Have I in the past? Yes, as a single parent of a severely handicapped child I was on a couple of assistance programs at one point in time.  I didn't Want the help then, but necessity for the sake of spawn forced me to put aside personal pride for her wellbeing.  Did I commit (or even Need to commit) fraud in order to get that help?  No, and quit associating with those who suggested that I do so in order to increase benefits and make life somewhat easier while the situation was relevant to my life.  Would I take help now?  No, regardless of whether it was legitimate or fraudulent - because I much perfer Self Reliance.

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Here in the UK it would be illegal. But you know the law isn't quite the same as morality and to me morally it shouldn't really make a difference, which I assume is the motivation behind what is described in the OP. It's not as if they're trying to get more money out of the system than what they would have been entitled to if the rules were fairer.
  Here in the US it's illegal as well.  And no, legality and morality are often far removed from each other.  However, I consider FRAUD - or Intended Fraud to be a matter of Ethics and wrong Regardless of whether it's legal or illegal.  The system is a lot more "fair" than many would like folks to believe.  My father is currently on SSD (social security disability - specifically for those who worked all their lives but became physically disabled prior to reaching an age where they could draw the social security they'd paid in through working)  as opposed to SSI (supplimental security insurance - for those who have never worked, or worked very little, prior to becoming disabled, and therefore have not paid anything in to the system TO draw from - which therefore comes directly out of the taxes paid for by Others who have worked or are currently in the workforce.)  Between my father and daughter, I'm considerably more aquainted with the system - how it works, where the money comes from, how it's intended to be spent, and how much is allocated per case based on things such as other income sources and cost of living requirements - than I ever wanted to be.

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Can any of you actually prove what you are saying that your taxes are actually supporting someone on SSI? Or is this just something you've all assumed?
Prove as in provide links that you'll ignore anyway, or prove because we're far to familiar with the system? As for links, I can easily provide the link for the Social Security Administration - part of the federal government, and the specific agency in charge of determining SSI/SSD/SS benefits claims legitimacy.  They give the formula somewhere on that website for how benefits are calculated.

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More to the point, how many of you know why the people in question are actually on SSI, or is it just your assumption, yet again, that these people are lazy? How do you know for example that these people aren't disabled, seriously ill, or unable to get work?
  What I assume is that they are physically disabled in a manner that qualified them for such benefits, after the claim was filed and then investigated for determination of qualification.  Do I know what the specific disabilities are?  No, nor do I need to know such.  What I know is that each claim which is approved, and the person begins to recieve benefits, is thoroughly investigated by the SSA, doctors that it contracts to go over medical records pertaining to the case, and information that the individual applying for benefits provides to prove their case other than medical records. I know this for FACT, because I've been through the process - as the guardian, representative, or power of attorney for 2 seperate cases spread 20 years apart, and the process was the same each time, requiring the same proof to be submitted to the agency, along with signed affadavits stating that everything on the various forms was true and correct under penalty of perjury and potential jail time if incorrect or fraudulent answers were knowingly given.

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The thing is what you do in this case, i.e. work and the fact that you pay tax doesn't make a difference. From what I can gather from the OP these people are on SSI, therefore this isn't anybody else's money but their's, it's money which they're entitled to based on the decision of an authority for whatever reason, and actually what they do with this money isn't any of your business.
It's money which, quite frankly due to it's nature as SSI rather than SSD, is money that they themselves did NOT pay into the system.  It comes out of Tax Coffers - ie, money that OTHERS made, and were required to pay in.  Anyone who is a Taxpayer - someone paying INTO the system, rather than taking out Of the system who has never paid into it in the first place - therefore contributes to their upkeep, and very much so has a Moral Right to be pissed off at FRAUD.  When my children lived with me, and I was providing their support, I had a right - as the Person Ultimately Paying Their Bills - to be pissed if they expected more than that to which they were entitled.  As a person paying into the system, whose money is Ultimately Paying Their Bills, albeit less directly - I STILL feel I have a right to be pissed when they attempt to defraud me (the taxpaying Public) of more than that to which - based on their living arrangements as 1 person in a home, or 2, or 3, or a dozen, they are entitled to recieve.  While they SSA has, indeed, determined that they are each eligible for benefits - the AMOUNT of those benefits Changes, as is clearly stated BY THE SSA both on it's website AND in literature that it sends to those Recieving Benefits - Based On Changes In Circumstances And Living Arrangements.  It also Clearly states in the literature that the SSA sends to recipients that they have a specific amount of time in which to report changes in such - marriage, death in the supported household numbers if other than the recipient themselves, birth of a child are all VERY specifically listed in that literature btw - and it states that Failure to report such changes is Fraud punishable by Jail Time, Large Fine, Loss of Benefits either temporary or Permanent, or other potential punisment items.  Whether they get married, or simply move in together, they will STILL legally have to report to the SSA that there have been changes in living arrangements - period.  If they don't, it's fraud, and they WILL face jail time, a $10,000 to $25,000 fine, partial loss of benefits to repay the overpayment if the SSA determines there has been overpayment, or possible Complete loss of benefits as a result of attempting to defraud the system.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:12:34 AM   
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I'm a little confused,is SSI/SDI living on the public dole or is it a benifit earned from paying into the system during one's working years?

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:25:33 AM   
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      It's nothing to do with my disposable income, Stella.  You seem to think that tax dollars are some sort of bottomless well.  If I needed that money, none of what I received would be 'disposable.'  Not even a very good attempt to strawman.

     Perhaps you should also do a bit of research into when conversation becomes conspiracy.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:30:11 AM   
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Yes, I have tried living on assistance.  I not only managed during that period to pay my rent ($350 a month for a small 2bdroom all bills paid apartment for myself and my handicapped daughter who was quite young physically at the time) - but paid my gas, smokes, diapers, paper products and cleaning supplies that aren't paid for by food stamps - all on less than $500 a month.  Not $600 - $500.  In fact, at that point in time, what my daughter got in SSI as a child disabled from birth was $430 a month, minus money which they withheld after deciding that the first 2 years of her life there had been an overpayment.  Grand total of what the Two of us were living on, as I was a full time college student as well at the time?  $387 a month in SSI, $219 a month in food stamps, perhaps $100 a month in various "stuff" that my parents or grandparents paid for to help out.
 
No need to commit fraud in order to do it.  I wasn't living in a great neighborhood, and I didn't Expect to on a limited fixed income.  We ate healthy, and I never went through All of the foodstamps in any given month.  Family Holiday Dinners (which I did celebrate at the time) were usually on me - because I had so much left over from prior months that I hadn't used I could afford to do so - it was part of my way of paying back my folks and grandfolks for the help They were giving me, and for the fact that it was Their Tax Money that was providing it.  (btw- DA - my weight gain happened After I got off the system, for the most part - that's when I could start Affording junk food and eatting out at fast food places while on the go!  You'd be surprised at how many underweight people I saw in the lines at the dept. of human services offices over those years.)  I didn't have DSL or Cablemodem for an internet connection - but I was able to use my phone for such, or log on from my folks house every few days to check email. 
 
Stella - you're under the assumption here, from comments you've made specifically to refute Heretic, that the government's money is not - in fact - the people's money.  Your assumption is incorrect at it's base.  Under the way American Government is SUPPOSED to work - anything collected in taxes by the government is Still "the people's" (collective's) money - belonging in part to everyone who is a citizen, and perhaps most especially to those who are the ones Providing that money.  The government doesn't make money on it's own.  Taxes aren't the government's equivalant of a Paycheck Earned.  The money in the public coffers came from Elsewhere - from Taxpayers, Wage Earners, etc - it didn't spring into existance out of nowhere.  One of the basics of representational government is that the government is accountable to those governed - in it's policies, in how THEIR money is spent, etc.

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RE: Marrage - 7/20/2008 9:31:22 AM   
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I'm a little confused,is SSI/SDI living on the public dole or is it a benifit earned from paying into the system during one's working years?


SSI is public dole.
 
SSD is benefit earned from paying into the system during one's working years.
 
Social Security is benefit earned from paying into the system during one's working years.

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