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BlkTallFullfig -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/14/2005 11:00:10 PM)
quote: Those aren't real Doms. Are you suggesting a real domina would/should never perform oral on you? [8D] M

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/14/2005 11:02:57 PM)
quote: i have had fantisys and am wondering if a domme would use oral to cause both pain and plesure top a sub Yes a domina would and could do whatever she feels like doing as long as you haven't told her it's a hard limit for you... However, you should ask your specific domina because many dominas do not go down on their subs/slaves as I've been told a few times by submissives who've been in the lifestyle much longer than I have. M

Oumae -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 3:04:35 AM)
Oh yes, what a great way to torment. Oumae

HeavenlyCeleste -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 7:03:20 AM)
Absolutely!

jjjkkk -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 2:37:25 PM)
Quite surprised by some of the responses here. As somewhat of a newbie, I thought it was taboo for a mistress to please her submissive. Must say, I am pleasantly surprised.

jjjkkk -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 2:45:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika quote: ORIGINAL: Misstoyou quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Well Duh. What she said. p.s. I LIKE being able to do whatever I damn well please. [:D] Ditto and ditto! The way I see it, my boy's unit is my toy that I shall play with however I see fit! - LA Love your attitude!!!!!!!!!!!

LadySonelle -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 4:49:43 PM)
I would be open to the idea of going down on a sub, yes. While all My esperiences have been on surface vessels, such as speedboats and ferries, and I hear subs are terribly cramped and can be dangerous, I would not... oh, never mind, I HAVE doe! Once at Disneyland. It was the Lagoon ride! .. but I was 12 at the time. Does that cout? It was a D ticket I remember. Ah, nostalgia... remember when they had lettered tickets to the Magic Kingdom? What? Lady Sonelle

thetammyjo -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 5:51:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jjjkkk Quite surprised by some of the responses here. As somewhat of a newbie, I thought it was taboo for a mistress to please her submissive. Must say, I am pleasantly surprised. I think a dominant, especially if she is an owner, may do whatever she wishes as long as it falls within the negotiated relationship limits. As to weather or not oral sex would please every submissive, you'd have to ask every submissive. There are probably some who would hate to receive oral sex from their dominant because in the submissive's mind that would be "wrong"; some who thinks it a cool treat; some who think its a reward; and even some who expect it.

Jacques1000 -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 6:21:31 PM)
everything is possible....or everything that is conceivable is possible...err..YES.

LadyAngelika -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 6:24:20 PM)
quote: some who thinks it a cool treat Well to make it a cool treat, suck on icecubes first or even better, chew a few wintergreen altoids ;-) - LA

LadyHibiscus -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 7:50:22 PM)
But don't use wintergreen OIL! Because that makes it extra HOT!

Sensualips -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/15/2005 9:33:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Beatmehrdr Domme's love spaghetti? Damn. Another fantasy of mine shattered by reality. Wow, that is so weird. Because one of my fantasies is to be spattered by spaghetti!

AlderTheKitty -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 7:26:52 AM)
i love the idea of being bound and sucked to the edge and held there mercylessly the only part i don't enjoy about it is if she was to kneel i find that discrace ful but being tied to the bead gaged and blindfolded hell yeah i would love that the feeling of vunerability -shudders with exitment-

Tempestspet -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 7:34:47 AM)
Yes, but only if they enjoy it. And of course along with the standard when, how, where, etc. The bottom has no choice in the matter, laughs, you can beg though. That turns most on... Tempest's pet jennifer

TiNeedsHouseboy -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 8:15:30 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jjjkkk Quite surprised by some of the responses here. As somewhat of a newbie, I thought it was taboo for a mistress to please her submissive. Must say, I am pleasantly surprised. If you read the thread again, you'll notice that it's not an attempt by a dominant female to please her submissive. (Granted, there can be times when the dominant partner feels the sub has earned a special treat, but that's not the topic at hand.) The dominant partner is doing what she feels pleases her. If the sub enjoys the interaction, that's a spiff for the sub. As a newbie, you'll learn that there are varied perceptions/needs regarding how sex fits into BDSM exchanges. Not all participants consider sexual interactions to be BDSM-related. OTOH, there are participants whose BDSM interactions are limited to what goes on during sex. And to complicate the notion, there's an entire continuum of needs/behaviors that pan out between these two attitudinal/behavioral extremes. There is no such behavior as one size fits all. ~ Ti ~

jjjkkk -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 10:30:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TiNeedsHouseboy quote: ORIGINAL: jjjkkk Quite surprised by some of the responses here. As somewhat of a newbie, I thought it was taboo for a mistress to please her submissive. Must say, I am pleasantly surprised. If you read the thread again, you'll notice that it's not an attempt by a dominant female to please her submissive. (Granted, there can be times when the dominant partner feels the sub has earned a special treat, but that's not the topic at hand.) The dominant partner is doing what she feels pleases her. If the sub enjoys the interaction, that's a spiff for the sub. As a newbie, you'll learn that there are varied perceptions/needs regarding how sex fits into BDSM exchanges. Not all participants consider sexual interactions to be BDSM-related. OTOH, there are participants whose BDSM interactions are limited to what goes on during sex. And to complicate the notion, there's an entire continuum of needs/behaviors that pan out between these two attitudinal/behavioral extremes. There is no such behavior as one size fits all. ~ Ti ~ Thank-you for the explanation. While I can understand how different participants incorporate sex into their bdsm lifestyle, I simply assumed that oral gratification would sexually stimulate the submissive more so than the Dominant. Once again, I would like to thank-you for the clarification.

TiNeedsHouseboy -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 10:59:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: jjjkkk I simply assumed that oral gratification would sexually stimulate the submissive more so than the Dominant. I'd say that's a common misapprehension, which fits into the same boat as women can't possibly enjoy anal sex. quote: ORIGINAL: jjjkkk Once again, I would like to thank-you for the clarification. I guess that with the topic being what it is, the best reply from me would be, "My pleasure!" LMBO ;-) ~ Ti ~

LadyTantalize -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 12:34:34 PM)
Too funny, pollux!! Real Dommes never suck cock! Yeah, right! Real Dommes never take off their thigh-high leather boots! Yeah right! And we are never wrong! Yeah Right!! chuckles Truly, Lady T. Lady Tatiana Tantalize Atlanta's Sadistic Southern Belle http://www.ladytantalize.net "A prayer for the wild at heart, kept in cages." -Tennessee Williams- quote: ORIGINAL: pollux quote: ORIGINAL: nephandi Sure, some Dom`s also drive white cars, go to flea markets and like spagetti. Those aren't real Doms.

LadyAngelika -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 2:12:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyTantalize Too funny, pollux!! Real Dommes never suck cock! Yeah, right! Real Dommes never take off their thigh-high leather boots! Yeah right! And we are never wrong! You forgot a few: We never let our hair and make up get messed up. We never let our boys fuck us up against the wall. We never whimper out of excitement. We never say please (oh gawd that would be akin to begging!) We never give up the remote control. There are so many more.. Man! Real Dommes must be some cold hard bitches! I'm so happy I'm not a Real Domme ;-) - LA

LadyHibiscus -> RE: would a mistress ever go down on a sub (11/16/2005 2:20:09 PM)
Think about it: a woman has your unit in her MOUTH. Between her TEETH. Not too many acts are more empowering than that. Besides, the little noises they make are frikken hilarious. :)Francine

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