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Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:02:48 PM   
ServingYou123


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Status: offline 		Ok, so I know that I am going to get hammered here, but here it goes anyway.  What is up with all these pay to play Dommes, wondering why they are attracting so many weirdoes?  If you were on a “vanilla” classified site, would it not surprise you if you offered a date for cash up front?  I thought that the reason for things like this were to bring together like minded people, looking for mutual beneficial relationships?  I’ll pay attention to you for 200 bucks?  Please!  And before you accuse me, yes I am in a D/s relationship, and no, I don’t pay her up front.  I do nice things for her as I would for any people that are important in my life.  I swear I am not trying to offend.
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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:04:37 PM   
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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:07:08 PM   
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I love that emote. 

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:12:35 PM   
ServingYou123


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Status: offline 		That being said, If both people are getting something that they want out of the action, where does the exchange of money come in?  I mean if you are doing it like a mechanic fixing a car, or a plumber, sure.  But if it is something that is a part of who you are, I am not buying it.

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:13:48 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Serving you, PLEASE.  Do a nice search on pro dommes, or something of that ilk, and go read the arguments that have already been made.

Better yet, if you don't care about pro dominants, why not leave them alone?

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:16:45 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		You are in a relationship... but are irritated because people who are not are dealing with pro dominant's or basic scammers.  What is the problem?  You don't have to deal with them... look... opinionate and walk away. lol  Real life suggest that people are not always nice.  They use one another... they play games and if they can hide behind a big ol truck or a computer monitor, they will be even more ruthless.  Let the lil things in life go or have good death insurance... cause this stuff isn't worth worrying about.  I am sure you can find something better to do with your time...

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:20:53 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ServingYou123

That being said, If both people are getting something that they want out of the action, where does the exchange of money come in?  I mean if you are doing it like a mechanic fixing a car, or a plumber, sure.  But if it is something that is a part of who you are, I am not buying it.


You may have missed this, its understandable as its on the same page.
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1406002/tm.htm

Whats hard to understand here. Some guys just want to get involved with no strings and are prepared to pay for someones time. Yes, just like a mechanic or a plumber. Would a strange mechanic fix your car for free, just because he likes cars ? Most pro dommes spend a fortune on equipment, and renting play space. If you dont like it, dont use it, but for heavens sake, whatever happened to live and let live.

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:32:35 PM   
chiaThePet


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Status: offline 		Well, since you enjoy serving, some of them will accept pie or cake.

Just saying.

But mostly, it's like driving down the street and seeing a couple, him
in a dingy yellowed wife beater, flab lapping over the edge of his
pants yearning to be free, her, sporting a mack truck ass, squeezed
into silver lame' stretch pants with the help of the gardeners spade.

The sight of such captures your attention, but freedom of choice finds
you either honking the horn and whistling in hope of a threeway, or
slamming your foot on the gas as you gulp fresh air in the hope that 
the contents of your stomach might remain there.

As there is a market for wife beater tee shirts.
As there is a market for silver lame' stretch pants.
There shall be a market for that which the consumer demands.

And pie shall remain a great token of your adoration.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:51:47 PM   
Venatrix


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Status: offline 		Chia, that's put me right off my din-dins.  The problem is, I imagined someone wearing a dingy wife-beater *with* silver lame stretch pants.  Nasty.  Just nasty.

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 3:58:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Chia, that's put me right off my din-dins.  The problem is, I imagined someone wearing a dingy wife-beater *with* silver lame stretch pants.  Nasty.  Just nasty.


Oh but yes, tis a market for such also.

Slams closet door and throws self against it.

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 4:08:16 PM   
ServingYou123


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Status: offline 		I just want to point out that my main question was, why are you surprised at the number of wierdoes?  It seems like it should be obvious why.

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 4:08:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

quote:

ORIGINAL: Venatrix

Chia, that's put me right off my din-dins.  The problem is, I imagined someone wearing a dingy wife-beater *with* silver lame stretch pants.  Nasty.  Just nasty.


Oh but yes, tis a market for such also.

Slams closet door and throws self against it.

Cookie?

chia* (the pet)


Not hungry, remember?  But thanks anyway. <walks off clutching stomach.>

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 4:30:46 PM   
chiaThePet


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ORIGINAL: ServingYou123

I just want to point out that my main question was, why are you surprised at the number of wierdoes?  It seems like it should be obvious why.


I'm not sure that the focus of so many of the weirdos are ProDommes.

Many of the Dominant Women and some of the submissive Women also,
are targeted by less that sincere individuals seeking a quick wank, or some
other self-serving motive.

Being a ProDomme certainly doesn't excuse this behavior either. Money
does not get to presume it eclispe's respect at any cost.

Like minded and mutual are no guarantee just because someone whips
out a coin purse.

But pie might just tip the balance.

chia* (the pet)

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RE: Just wondering - 7/21/2008 6:11:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ServingYou123

I just want to point out that my main question was, why are you surprised at the number of wierdoes?  It seems like it should be obvious why.


Okay...thats is just to funny.
Yup I know why I get your so called "weirdos" its because
I have few limits,whats "weird" to some isnt to O/others.

For the record,I have non Pro profiles on different sites.
I still get all kinds of mail.

Doesnt really matter if its a Pro or not still going to get "weirdos".
For all I know you could be a weirdo....

I dont know how many Dommes have posted about people not being able to read a profile and get mail from people who are not what they are looking for.

Like some of the others posters I agree that if you dont like it just move along.

Another thing...sometimes I just like to bitch about something
and the weirdos are just perfect for that

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