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katie978 -> RE: When looking for a master... (7/22/2008 4:50:05 AM)
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"slaveowner69"
One thing that catches my eye is the name. A rose, by any other name, would smell as sweet. However, if the rose was named 12inchcockmasterwantstofuckyouwith, well...I wouldn't take the time to smell it. If you don't pick a name that means something to you, pick a name that's painfully anonymous (like mine). Also, with a name like yours, you better expect to pay up. Maybe you chose 69 because you're still juvenile and enjoy typing that number into your calculator in pre-algebra. However, due to your name, I would expect that I would be receiving as often as I was giving.
"no bullshit. i DON'T play games, neither should u. "
Another thing that catches my eye in profiles is proper grammar. Like many others of the forums here, I get a little moist for proper punctuation. Internet abbreviations annoy me, and if someone insists on using them in conversation, eventually I will grow annoyed and start to grow contemptuous. If someone wants to get to know me, at least they can take the time to type a few extra letters.
"preferably live in. as a slave, your new clothes will be a leash and collar. i will tie u up when i am go out. if i'm on vacation u may be allowed to go with me, otherwise i will lend u to a friend. "
Something that catches my eye is when a dom talks about their interests outside of BDSM. Although it's easy to rave on and on about their fantasy slave, most of the time I spend with my dom is used participating in normal, non-BDSM activities. Particularly with younger BDSMers (although not exclusively), people like to pretend that they can live in the fantasy of kink literally 24-7. Few people can actually manage this. My profile says I like to play mini-golf. I think that says a lot more about me than 4 pages of an erotic fantasy about how I want to be tied to a bed.
On a similar note, I look for someone who is realistic. I don't know any 25-year-old who can afford to keep a girl at home all the time. Do you expect your slave to work? That's not reflected in your posting. Do you live alone? If you live with roommates/your parents, how is she supposed to be naked all the time? Lending her to your friends: great fantasy, probably not that good of an idea. Although there are many on the forums who have been lent out, it frequently leads to emotional issues. What if your friend abuses her? What if she likes your friend better than you? Are you willing to risk your property so nonchalantly?
"Looking for 18-29 f slave. message me and we will discuss all the terms or email me at slutlover at ymail.com"
Finally, the last thing that caught my eye was someone with similar relationship goals. I believe that many people here are looking for a relationship, like boyfriend/girlfriend, with a D/s dynamic. Significantly fewer are looking for a TPE 24-7 relationship. I think this may be another issue where fantasy has clouded over reality.
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