Sundowner -> RE: Meeting CollarMe regulars (7/22/2008 4:56:04 PM)
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ORIGINAL: camille65 ... a strong emphasis on people being validated through public play that those (like me) who aren't into that are almost relegated to an entirely different BDSM world... I think I know what you mean camille - I'm not really into group scenes, so clubs and public play are not immediately attractive and one can feel rather untwue and unweal when others (whom one admires) clearly have so much fun. But I've met a few ppl from CM (regular posters) in the last few months, almost by accident it seems - with delightful results. 2 from the US and 4 now from the UK (and a couple from the other side). As one might expect, people one respects on the boards command the same respect in r/l (and are the same good fun). Of course it's easier to meet them just as friends, rather than as potential life partners on a date; but I didn't feel "wow you're that famous person", more "hey, how good to see you at last" and it makes seeing them post now a touch more warm and fuzzy. None of them was scary ... apart from thingy. And maybe wotsit. (You know who you are!). [sm=smile.gif]
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