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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 4:53:28 PM

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lol it's not about confidence. i actually had that as the original comment but before posting i felt that maybe i shouldn't be mean. So i changed it to "I guess tone doesn't carry online". But people apparently don't have a problem with being sarcastic and making what I assume is a racial comment (the whole seeing my name had lee in it and assuming i'm Asian and then typing rotsa ruck).. maybe i'm wrong, just my opinion. so I decided to edit it to how i was originally going to post it.

Absolutely not. I apologize. I was doing Astro from the Jetsons....

and you're right: I'm old!

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:06:50 PM

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actually i meant this to be a serious question. however people decided to reply back with sarcasm and racial insults(i very much doubt subtee has a speech impetiment online, and i also am guessing that she's not trying to talk like scooby. it's a popular stereotype that about mixing up l's and r's). so i decided to change my comment to something more along the lines of what i was originally going to put. brnaughtyangel is the only one who has seriously answered my question. and christine must have not understood that i was trying to take the blame on myself for not making myself clearer. but as any intelligent person (which i'm assuming most of you are) knows of course tone doesn't carry online! this should lead one to believe that "oh i see, i know tone doesn't carry online and i don't think there is anyone that doesn't know that. so maybe i should look at the subtext."

as for the youth comment... is anyone actually insulted about being young/having youth? i don't know too many people that would pick "old age", if you will, over youth. so anyway if you would please feel free to scroll up and see that i did not start the insults and if you can't take it you shouldn't dish it.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:08:26 PM

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funny.. I wouldnt have thought that needed explaining, Tee..Astro IMMEDIATELY popped in to my head...

of course, I'm old too

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:15:08 PM

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i love astro! but yes, as i said it was just the impression i got/was my opinion and i was explaining why. my apologies but i felt that it was perhaps meant to be insulting. and truth be told my dad's 70 so i don't think of you as old (just have to know what hits people below the belt in order to insult them). also i don't find old women attractive and yet i find you attractive... so yeah... not old. thanks for clearing things up :)

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:16:07 PM

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Wow...Way to make an impression in a first post!

Assuming something that happens in a clearly fictional context can happen in real BDSM. People on here are touchy about that sort of thing because there are young "dominants" who believe that things they see on TV can happen in real life. Then they try and make it happen without regards to their submissive's well-being. In hentai, the submissive is frequently an unwilling victim. Because all of us here is real-life are willing victims, very, very rarely will one of us allow ourselves to be given to someone against our will.

Yes...people in hentai occasionally do things normal humans do. However, in regards to relationships-how many relationships from even regular anime could really exist exactly the same in real-life? Yes, I met my boyfriend while he and I were fighting crime together. And he has little, furry ears. Oh, yeah, we also pussy-footed around us going out for 6 fucking seasons.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:21:41 PM

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Lots of people are making an impression here, and they're not good ones. Settle down, folks.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:24:32 PM

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to answer OP's question - if He was to get bored or upgrade to a newer model, i wouldn't be His daughter or wearing His collar ...more importantly, i wouldn't be in a relationship with Daddy.

i'm collared for life ...til death do Daddy and i part type of ownership.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:33:09 PM

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lol it's not about confidence. i actually had that as the original comment but before posting i felt that maybe i shouldn't be mean. So i changed it to "I guess tone doesn't carry online". But people apparently don't have a problem with being sarcastic and making what I assume is a racial comment (the whole seeing my name had lee in it and assuming i'm Asian and then typing rotsa ruck).. maybe i'm wrong, just my opinion. so I decided to edit it to how i was originally going to post it.

If you avoid continuing the confrontation, then the animosity will likely die down. It happens. Until a person is familiar with the particular message board, sarcasm can be a big mistake to use. I had thought your question was genuine personally.

On your OP, I've listened to folks talk about being shared out to strangers but as to being given fully away?
Not super likely.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:34:46 PM

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No just saw it in a bdsm hentai.

DominantJenny, I rest my case.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:40:19 PM

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first off let me just say im not angry or mad i'm just replying in order to give my motivations and to reply to those who are typing things which are illogical. and 2nd of all... i think this will be my last reply due to just seeing the moderators post and assuming it means play nice and no name calling.

ah ok, well my apologies to you too then. i must have misunderstood what you meant by "ya..what happens in anime porn happens in real life...just like them hentai's with weird creatures that have tentacles and such...happens in real life.... " i must have somehow thought "what happens in anime porn" meant events/verbs that happen in anime porn rather than, as you have clarified, meaning hentai all together. i thought that's what u meant seeing that we were talking about bondage and seeing that bondage happens in real life. obviously not everything happens in real life that has happened in an anime. i'd elaborate but no need.

as for katies comment. not knowing real life from anime. bondage does happen in real life and i'm not talking about genuine real cruelty and saying everything happens in anime, my question was simply is this ONE thing in anime known to happen in life. that one thing i was asking about was slaves being given by their masters to another slave owner nothing extreme and exaggerated as everyone makes my question seem. i'm not asking if people have rabit ears in real life or fight crime together, i was simply remarking that that is where i got the non-far fetched idea and i wanted to see if anyone here has participated. now of course there are news reports of it happening illegally. i was just curious if it happens to those who live the lifestyle voluntarily. and according to a comment left, it HAS happened in real life volunatarily. so my question was answered. never asked anything about monster tentacles or anime ears or poke balls having sexy make out bondage battle time. anyway thanks brnaughtyangel for answering the question. i apologize to anyone who felt my question came off as insincere and if my making a joke made it seem such and that there was a misinterpretation of what i was saying. i should have clarified more

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:43:32 PM

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ok NOT my last post lol. thanks for the reply samba and camille! i don't wanna give away a slave ever. just curious what different people were into and if that idea is appealing to anyone. as for being fully given away i figured it'd be a voluntary slavery also. kind of a do you want to go with him or not. i coudn't see myself doing that especially not after all the bonding/connections that have developed.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:46:06 PM

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to answer the OP question....

when i was 18, i was taking college classes with a woman in her mid 20's named "ramona."
we both wore collars, figured out pretty quickly we were both slaves, and one day she told me the following story...i have no idea as to the accuracy, but she seemed fairly sane, so i took it at face value:

ramona was collared to a man. he had a very close friend who fell head-over-heels in love with her at first sight. the friend told the owner, "I want her as mine." the owner agreed to sell her (it was his friend, so i assume that he knew she would be treated well). the new owner came over, paid for her, put her on the back of his bike, took her to vegas, and married her.

by the time i met her, they had been married for four years, were happy parents, and she seemed to be an extremely joyful slave.

there may have been more to the story that was never told to me, or it could have been total bs. but the way she told the story was very sweet and with a lot of love.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:46:25 PM

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In reply to the OP:

Of my own knowledge (don't be fooled by the vanilla cone), I have never read or heard of a Master giving away his property to someone unknown. Most people in the community have that kink, but in order to keep it safe, sane and within the trust boundaries they have complete previous knowledge of who the future Master is. They usually give away their posessions to others for a scene or a weekend. Rarely forever.

But, I won't deny that it might have happened outside the BDSM community. Even if the slave agrees to be given away to someone random, that doesn't fit the "sane" and "safe" basis... (if this was a better world completely, this would be my number 2 fantasy

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 5:51:02 PM

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oh wow. do a lot of slaves tend to marry their masters? and what have your experiences with your masters been as far as emotional attachment goes?

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 6:00:45 PM

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number 2 fantasy? i'm guessing number one is to be owned? lol anyway, i agree, there are too many sketch people out there. when i meet women face to face, i would always require to meet in a place with a lot of people. anyway thanks for the answer!

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 6:05:08 PM

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oh wow. do a lot of slaves tend to marry their masters? and what have your experiences with your masters been as far as emotional attachment goes?

I think you will find the answer to marriage question to be greatly varied... some do, some don't. A good number of M/s relationships here in the forums are husband and wife. There are just as many singles, too. I would imagine quite a bit rests on personal relationship goals and whether the master wants to marry his or her slave... presuming the master is the one who makes the final decisions in the relationship, that is.

As far as emotional attachment, again that varies. However, while not a scientific polling by any stretch of the imagination, the impression I've gotten from the regular posters here is that the majority either require or highly prefer to have some type of emotional attachment in their relationships. That's not an overwhelming majority, but clearly more than half.

Does that surprise you?

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 6:05:12 PM

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oh wow. do a lot of slaves tend to marry their masters? and what have your experiences with your masters been as far as emotional attachment goes?

Jameslee, Amazing is it not? There's a wide range of diversity in BDSM land. I believe you have a lot of mental stereotype deprogramming to under go in your mind.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 6:10:38 PM

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oh of course there's so much to learn. i've done bondage stuff before and had a slave for an agreed upon week only. i enjoyed it so much i searched online for other people like me. so far this is the best community i have found. it's the one with the most people, most knowledge, etc. i'm hoping this will become an active part of my life.

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 7:10:48 PM

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Has any slave here been given away by your master to be owned by some random person?

I take pride of ownership in the things that I call mine. From my personal possessions to my slave. Why would I give away something that I had valued enough to want to own, to some random person?

Not many people can objectify themselves to that extent where they could handle being given away like a casual toy. Some of the ones that I've seen who can, are mentally unhealthy and need to seek psychotherapy. The others are few and far between. CD

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RE: Hand me downs - 7/22/2008 7:21:00 PM

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I have known slaves to be given permanently to another- but never to a random person.

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