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Playing devils advocate here, so please bear with me okay? I had a similar conversation like this about a week ago at a local munch that I was attending. The conversation revolved around Dommes who seek out alpha male submissives. The Domme I was talking to about this is someone I had seen around a few times and we started up a conversation in which this peculiar topic came forth.
Now this Domme is 31 years old, very, very hefty, did not take particular pride in her words or inflection, had stains on her clothing and looked overall like she had just woken up from a bad dream. She started to lament (quite arrogantly actually) the fact that women like her cannot find a true alpha male submissive and that she had just about given up hope on ever finding one. I asked her bluntly about what exactly it is that she is looking for in an alpha male submissive.
Her response was that an alpha male submissive was the type of guy who was take charge, career driven, goal oriented, took great care of himself physically and mentally and who could submit to her and only her. I gave that some thought while she stared at me, almost challenging me to dispute this. Finally after a few moments I asked her if she would not mind me playing devils advocate here. She smirked and said that she did not mind at all.
So I asked her: "What do YOU have to offer someone like that?" She asked me what I meant by that and replied back that if a male is take charge, career driven, goal oriented, physically and mentally well to do and climbing the corporate ladder, then what did she have to offer him in return? She said that she did not understand what I was saying by that because she did not have to offer him anything. She was a Dominant after all and did not need to offer anyone anything, let alone a mere male.
I let that thought linger for a minute, then I asked her to bear in mind with me that I was still playing devils advocate here and not looking to make her mad or angry. She nodded that she understood. I then said that: "Fine, you are a Dominant woman and that should be enough, right?" And she said yes, that should be enough. Then I replied again and said: "So let me get this straight, a man who has all these things going for him, who is on top of the world right now, should give all that to a lady who is obviously very much overwieght, arrogant, condescending and in general unpleasant with her demeanor?" At this point she just glared daggers at me and I shrugged at it, sipped my drink and waited a few more moments before continuing.
Finally I said to her: "Why would a man who does all those things, has all those things, give them to someone like you when he could simply hire a 20 year old blonde bimbo, see a beautiful professional Dominatrix or in general be very selective about who he chooses to be with? Why would he give that all up to someone who is unappealing to his type of personality in so many ways simply because she expects that with her self-title of domme?"
After that, I thanked her for the conversation politely and went about my way for the rest of the evening. She did not deign to speak with me anymore that night though. *shrugs* But it is no loss though.
So now the questions are posed to all the dommes on here: "What do you have to offer to an alpha type male submissive who has all these wonderful things going for him? How can you justify even thinking that you are good enough for a male submissive who does all those things and more and who can pretty much be discriminitory in his choice of women? Especially if you are nowhere near his class, are not goal driven, career oriented, take care of yourselves both mentally and physically? What possesses you to be so unrealistic with yourselves and your expectations in having an 'alpha' male submissive when most of you are out of that persons league to start with?"
Bear in mind finally that I am simply playing devils advocate here and not looking to incite flame wars, hate mail or anything of the ilk. I simply am asking that the Dommes on here do some very serious soul searching, self-reflection and self-actualization before passing over very loving, kind, caring and hard working 'beta' submissives.
< Message edited by lightscribe -- 8/1/2008 4:31:32 PM >
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