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RE: Play Parties - 7/28/2008 8:52:17 AM

MsJssk

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I like a mix.. I like both shadow-parties and brighter, more fun, light parties. I like anonymous parties and homey parties. For me, the common factor is having interesting people and activities that I enjoy.

Oh, and (strictly a bonus) if the party could allow edgeplay (with proper precautions and cleanup)... now that would rock. Even our -edgeplay- SIG parties don't allow my fave forms of edgeplay (even with precautions and cleanup).

Oh well -- such is life.

Calla Firestorm

And what is your fave form of edgeplay? I have yet to say no to any request at my house parties, but the most edgy thing I've had happen is some intense needle play. And I love when the floaty little subbie girl comes out with the sheet apologizing for the blood and asking what they should do with it. It's so cute. Oh, I did tell Travis that he can't fuck the chickens. He can fuck the ducks if he can catch one. hehe. I wager that he can't catch one.

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RE: Play Parties - 7/28/2008 7:14:44 PM

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The Club Pedestal parties in London look fantastic. Have you checked out their site/pics?

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RE: Play Parties - 7/28/2008 7:21:14 PM

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I won't speak so much for fetish parties, as they aren't My thing. As for actual play parties, I really don't mind the darkened lighting. A lot of folks prefer a little less light to get into the proper head space. Any part of the atmosphere that encourages that is a good thing.

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RE: Play Parties - 7/28/2008 7:46:00 PM

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If anyone is bothersome to more than a few people, he gets uninvited quickly.

So that's what has happened to me! ;-)

I enjoy all kinds of parties. I like fetish parties in night clubs. I like parties in places that are dimly lit as long as I am not tripping over people lying on the floor. I like parties in houses. Liking the different types of parties makes me have to miss as many. In between Austin, San Antonio, and Houston, there were three parties this Saturday, and one on Sunday, but none I was able to attend, unfortunately.

People in my community must think I am vanilla or something because they hardly ever see me play. I go to the parties mostly to socialize.

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RE: Play Parties - 7/28/2008 10:27:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: MsJssk
If anyone is bothersome to more than a few people, he gets uninvited quickly.

So that's what has happened to me! ;-)

I enjoy all kinds of parties. I like fetish parties in night clubs. I like parties in places that are dimly lit as long as I am not tripping over people lying on the floor. I like parties in houses. Liking the different types of parties makes me have to miss as many. In between Austin, San Antonio, and Houston, there were three parties this Saturday, and one on Sunday, but none I was able to attend, unfortunately.

People in my community must think I am vanilla or something because they hardly ever see me play. I go to the parties mostly to socialize.

Cheers,

Sea

You are always welcome at my home Sea. In fact, I do hope to see you for the Bash Picnic. Come to think of it, I don't know if you've been to my place yet. That is a problem that must be recitified. I've never seen you have an acual session except that one... well... I don't guess I can say here but it was yummy.

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RE: Play Parties - 7/29/2008 5:39:23 AM

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OK people make up your mind. Do I turn my bedroom lights on or not. Im not worried what the women look like. I make them all wear bags over their heads.

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RE: Play Parties - 7/29/2008 6:09:46 AM

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I do hope to see you for the Bash Picnic. Come to think of it, I don't know if you've been to my place yet.

Yes, schedule conflicts kept me from being there. But I look forward to attending the bash picnic there. Thank you for extending your hospitality to me, and to the Austin community in general :)

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RE: Play Parties - 7/29/2008 8:50:19 PM

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the club you attend has a different set of rules than the ones i have been to. the one in Dallas called sanctuary had a well lit dungeon and rules as to how to approach others.the one in Atlanta has reduced lighting when play starts and similar rules on conduct. as far as the type of gathering some are just demo or informational. then there are the ones that involve play.

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RE: Play Parties - 7/29/2008 9:02:50 PM

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Join a private club, there can be upwards of 200+ people on any given night and not just anybody off the street will get in.

I concur.

A place such as my personal favorite and which I am a proud member of:
THE WET SPOT

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RE: Play Parties - 7/30/2008 6:43:14 AM

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ok, slight hijack....OP, you have amazing photos...

now, on to the topic....I don't think I'd like a club or party that is more refined. I believe I feel like I go to play parties for the "dank/darkness" of some of it. To "pretty/refined" will take away from it for me. As for subs who bother a domish type...bah. I can fend for myself fairly well *S*

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RE: Play Parties - 8/3/2008 6:17:46 AM

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I may have been one of the "ten guys" off to the side but bothering a Domme needlessly isn't a desire of mine. I may be one of the straws in the haystack and she may be the needle but if she isn't interested in me, what's the use in bothering her? Asking for her attention once maybe twice at an appropriate time shouldn't be a bother but incessant requests i will avoid as well even if she looks to be the most desirable woman there. Lighting...helps only to see who you are talking with or scening with. I am adding that I contacted a woman about two years ago. We spent time together but lost contact for a while. She showed renewed interest and contacted me. It's really nice that she did, I was encouraged and she made me feel good about it. Ok, maybe it's not all on topic but those ten guys on the side aren't always bad guys either.

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RE: Play Parties - 8/3/2008 10:05:40 PM

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I may have been one of the "ten guys" off to the side but bothering a Domme needlessly isn't a desire of mine. I may be one of the straws in the haystack and she may be the needle but if she isn't interested in me, what's the use in bothering her? Asking for her attention once maybe twice at an appropriate time shouldn't be a bother but incessant requests i will avoid as well even if she looks to be the most desirable woman there. Lighting...helps only to see who you are talking with or scening with. I am adding that I contacted a woman about two years ago. We spent time together but lost contact for a while. She showed renewed interest and contacted me. It's really nice that she did, I was encouraged and she made me feel good about it. Ok, maybe it's not all on topic but those ten guys on the side aren't always bad guys either.

I never said I thought they were "bad guys." But I DO think they have either bad manners or a certain amount of social ineptitude.

In my case, the situation has always been that I'm talking to/playing with my personal submissive or a friend, and a bunch of random guys who want to butt in hover close by, trying to get my attention. Sometimes they'll just drop to their knees in front of me or try to wedge themselve between me and whoever I'm with. Not cool.

The way I see it, if I'm otherwise engaged and there's ALREADY some other guy waiting to ask if he can touch my feet or something, why would ANOTHER nine of them get in line? I'm not a bank teller, I'm a party-goer trying to enjoy a conversation or some play: what's with the queuing up and interrupting?

Also, remember that what was one or two requests for you isn't the same for the domme. There are probably another 30 guys who think that they're not bothering her by coming over once or twice.

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