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Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 5:44:08 PM

stephandragon

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as a kajirus of 12 years... and one who prefers Masters... what would be the best way to attract a good one who is more then some sort of predator (bad experiences with former Masters)

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 6:20:04 PM

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there's a gor forum here

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 6:30:34 PM

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there's a gor forum here

i dont really think Gor, or a Master/Mistress per se comes into the equation here. It`s all about getting to know someone before getting too involved. Get to know the person before getting in too deep, anything else is risking trouble.

This applies to any submissive looking for any Dominant, and vice versa.

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 6:33:04 PM

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kajirus is what I assumed was the clue.. I thought it a form of kajira ...

and then again, perhaps I'm wrong

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 6:38:32 PM

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kajirus is what I assumed was the clue.. I thought it a form of kajira ...

You are correct Ma`am, but isnt the basic premise of finding a suitable partner, play or otherwise, the same for all of us ?

My point was that predators come from all corners of the lifestyle, and therefore we should look before we leap, at least to a degree.

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 6:39:11 PM

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kajira - female slave
kajirus - male slave

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 10:36:25 PM

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ORIGINAL: stephandragon

as a kajirus of 12 years... and one who prefers Masters... what would be the best way to attract a good one who is more then some sort of predator (bad experiences with former Masters)

How do I say this nicely? Let me put it this way, most of the respected dominants on this board do not follow gor, many of the respected dominants on this board are well known in real world BDSM groups and the have respect of their peers. Many of those same dominants have long term healthy and rewarding relationships, even with their ex partners. Few of them post regularly in the Gor section and few of the those who post in Gor post in any other forum.

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/25/2008 10:53:57 PM

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How do I say this nicely?

you ok michael??

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/26/2008 1:51:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: stephandragon

as a kajirus of 12 years... and one who prefers Masters... what would be the best way to attract a good one who is more then some sort of predator (bad experiences with former Masters)

I can give you a bit of advice. First you are claiming to be kajiru here, yet your profile states TG submissive. A couple of simple things, if you are expecting the use of the label kajiru to open up any doors for you on this side, you would be better off banging your head against the wall. Next, are you post op F2M? While I won't rule it out, I personally cannot think of any Gorean men, that are homosexual or bisexual, which would kind of narrow your chances over on that side. I won't get into the semantics about sub or slave, it doesn't seem to matter either way in this instance.

If you are looking to find somebody that fills your needs, perhaps elaborating a bit more in your profile would help. Also I would seriously think about which label (such as kajiru) you start throwing around. Be open and honest, and with some luck, patience, and activity you just might find what you are seeking. Or they may even find you.

Good luck in your search,
Thadius

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RE: Kajirus and Masters - 7/26/2008 6:23:53 AM

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Michael is correct, apples do not taste like oranges and oranges do not look like apples.

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ORIGINAL: stephandragon

as a kajirus of 12 years... and one who prefers Masters... what would be the best way to attract a good one who is more then some sort of predator (bad experiences with former Masters)

How do I say this nicely? Let me put it this way, most of the respected dominants on this board do not follow gor, many of the respected dominants on this board are well known in real world BDSM groups and the have respect of their peers. Many of those same dominants have long term healthy and rewarding relationships, even with their ex partners. Few of them post regularly in the Gor section and few of the those who post in Gor post in any other forum.

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