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RE: in need of some REAL ADVICE.... - 11/21/2005 5:47:13 PM

Dracironsgirl

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ORIGINAL: Blaze2003

I am at alittle URKED for lack of a word. The so called DOM's that think that want to meet right away, that want to hear me say MASTER / SIR when in actually they are MOST likely a man that has no self esteem and has no TRUE meaning of what a TRUE DOMINANT man is. I have actually used the word DOMINATE for DOMINANT and the ones that correct me lol I at least continue to talk to. I have wanted for so long to find the "ONE" for me, yet it seems I find one "SO CALLED" " wanna be" or ISSUES that can not change. Curious where I can go / talk with others in the area, reality is cyber does nothing for me. I want the real hand across my bottom, to feel his touch upon my face as he tells me what a good job I did. Not read the TEXT> you can not feel the breathe from his words on your ear. TRIED yet my headphones are in the way lol ...... (warped humore sorry ..) any suggestions..

well done very well said

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RE: in need of some REAL ADVICE.... - 11/23/2005 10:50:20 AM

Kinkypupper

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There are way to many "wannabes" around.
In my opinion. A "Master" has to earn the right to be called that by their deads and actions. I am speaking about it in a "REAL WORLD" not a facticious fantasy land.
A "submissive/ potential slave" has to have the deire to Give themselves to another.
Freely and completely. To do this ( in my opinion ) It cannot be taken by force.
Any person who wants you to call them "MASTER" at a first meeting is just not getting it.
You should be respectfull and considerate at all times however.

For them to be a "Master" means that you are their "slave" . That is something that you must freely desire and offer them. It is a growth process for all concerned.

Calling them "Sir" is a good respectful thing, Calling them "Master" when they have not yet been offered the gift of yourself is not right.

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RE: in need of some REAL ADVICE.... - 11/23/2005 4:03:36 PM

theRose4U

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Boy, that's a nasty reply isn't it? I get a ride to munches, either from my dominant, or from a friend. If I would like to go and my dominant can't come with me (usually due to work), I'll call a friend (I have a few in my area) to pick me up. A girlfriend of mine doesn't drive either and she always ends up at the munches. Sometimes, she takes the bus or the subway, but people are pretty nice about picking her up on their way.

Glad someone else said something. I read that and immediatly thought humm... you can ride the WAAAAmbulance there. Thought most cities had busses, subways or some kind of transportation.

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RE: in need of some REAL ADVICE.... - 11/23/2005 4:17:15 PM

LadyHibiscus

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I can dig the problem of not having transportation, but I know that I have done my share of driving folks to events, and just being their buddy so they wouldn't have to show up someplace new for the first time.

If you live in a really isolated area, fine, but if you don't have transportation, how will you get to work?

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