opposingtwilight -> RE: describe that person (7/26/2008 9:29:46 AM)
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ORIGINAL: xeromoon705 describe the master or slave you wish you had He'll be around my own age, preferably still in his twenties or early thirties; taller than me but not -too- tall. Dark hair, nice eyes that are capable of looking kind as well as steely and cruel. He doesn't post pics of himself with arms folded across chest, grimacing as if he'd like to rip someone's head off; rather he looks like someone you'd actually -want- to approach and try to strike up a conversation with. Intelligence is an absolute must. I am attracted to intellectual men. I find social ineptetude somewhat endearing but don't be a total boob. Self-confidence is hot. Arrogance is NOT. He's comfortable with who he is, even if its REALLY different from everyone else. He doesn't feel any need to brag about past relationships or put down his ex. He's got the sort of personality that simply inspires me to trust him and eventually offer him more and more control. He doesn't have to demand respect or tell others how great he is. He just is. He'll share my faith and respect my personal opinions, even if he doesn't agree 100%. He wants children, eventually. He's not married nor is he divorced. (He might be a widower and thats ok.) He's employed and doesn't need me to support him, can eventually support a family because I'd like to be a stay at home mom someday. (It doesn't really matter whether he can do it alone or not as I've already taken steps to ensure I can can work from home if necessary but you know, its really hot when a man takes the extra initiative.) He's a sadist but he also knows how to be gentle and sweet. He can be romantic without being overbearing. He is fit and active. He takes the time to learn -how- to do something before simply trying out on me like I'm some sort of human guinea pig. He seeks mentors from those who've gone before and isn't afraid to be wrong sometimes. He has interests of his own and doesn't expect me to spend every minute of every day stuck under his thumb. Hehe. This could go on and on ... I have some pretty high standards. :)
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