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taziesubguy -> Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 5:56:17 AM)

I believe, we all have some latent feelings in us which makes us a dom or a sub and it comes out in open when a certain event takes place in our lives.. in my case, one of the few such incidents were in  my school days, when we guys lost to the girls team in the usual boys vs girls sports tussles ..after the defeat the usual bragging by the girls continued and we guys were badly teased and humiliated every time we lost to the girls (at that certain age the girls are stronger then the guys and they tend to win quite a lots).. this had a lasting effect on me.. even till date i just love to watch wherever some kind of a battle of sexes is on, whether it is on a sports field or in a work place or in a reality tv show ..as a sub i don't mind when girls beat the guys rather i love it  .. My questions to the forum are-- (1) Do most dommes and male subs  enjoy Battle of the sexes .. (2) Have you ever watched one or been part of Battle of the sexes.. (3) I think most male subs and female dommes would love the girls to win, but do female subs too cheer for the girls.. (4) Do female dommes dont mind subs competing against them  and win against them ..(5)were the subs spanked more if they tried to show any kind of superiority towards thier dommes(6) And finally did any such real life event happened with you and would you like to share the same here .. Thanks.. Tazie .



Allondra -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female supremacy in real life.. (7/27/2008 6:09:09 AM)

My goodness, what a lot of questions....

I assume by "female supremacy" you don't mean the philosophy of matriarchy, women being naturally superior to men, and all that, but rather "female dominance"?

To answer most of your questions in one fell swoop: I don't care for battling with people, whether they're male or female.  My life isn't about superiority.



taziesubguy -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female supremacy in real life.. (7/27/2008 6:15:39 AM)

Thanks for the reply Maam but all those questions relate to one single subject and that is how do dommes and subs feel when their is a male vs female event in a real life     siuation..                                                                        




MsJssk -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female supremacy in real life.. (7/27/2008 6:42:35 AM)

Personally, I tend to cheer for the underdog. Perhaps because I love to challenge traditional gender roles. If it's a battle of physical strength when the boys are the expected winner, like a sporting event, then my fanfare is with the girls. This does not matter if the girls in question are sub or dom. I love when  man can outdo a girl in a sexy walk or sewing or some other task that the female is expected to excede in.

MsJ



Allondra -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female supremacy in real life.. (7/27/2008 6:46:30 AM)

Ok, then my answer is: not particularly interested.



bobipanti -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 8:39:18 AM)

I enjoy Female Supremacy in all facets of life. Dominant intelligent women are good for the work place, politics, and for private life.



Lockit -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 1:32:37 PM)

I don't see sports as real life so I thought this thread was different.  It is basically the same as your other thread in General.  Hummm, dude you will get your answers, believe me...lol... but real life dominance... yes it is real and happens even when people don't realize the dynamic's and use them purposefully. 



MsJssk -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 1:55:59 PM)

How are sports not real life? I mean, with the exception of the Wii and that thing where they make up their perfect team and then play the stats against other made up teams, I've never seen anything virtual about sports. What's more real than kicking a ball around with your friends or paying too much money to watch other people kick a ball better than you ever could. It is the epitome of where real life happens. Okay, maybe that's too much. But really, how much in life is more real and honest? Let's see, at the water cooler, we all pretend that we go home to normal sweet lives. At the PTA meetings we pretend that our life revolves around our children. At the grocery store we make pleasant conversation about shit we don't' care about. Sports are definitely real life in my book.

MsJ



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 2:12:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: taziesubguy
(1) Do most dommes and male subs  enjoy Battle of the sexes .. (2) Have you ever watched one or been part of Battle of the sexes.. (3) I think most male subs and female dommes would love the girls to win, but do female subs too cheer for the girls.. (4) Do female dommes dont mind subs competing against them  and win against them ..(5)were the subs spanked more if they tried to show any kind of superiority towards thier dommes(6) And finally did any such real life event happened with you and would you like to share the same here .. Thanks.. Tazie .


The closest I have come is arranging to play the "Battle of the Sexes" board game at a couple of Domme/sub events.  As I recall, the Dommes won and the subs had to endure being paddled a certain number of times, or something like that.  I think if the subs had won they would have had "bragging rights."  In either case, since I arranged the games, there were no negative consequences to the Dommes either way.   It is SO fun to set the rules.  [:)]
 
While female subs were welcome at these events, I don't think any were in attendance.  Had they been, they would have completed on the same side as the male subs.
 
Would we have minded if the subs won?  Probably not.  They would have gotten their "bragging rights" and no one would have been the worse off.  I think our egos could have handled it.  Had they gotten too obnoxious with their bragging, we could always have gagged them.
 
Lady Topaz



Lockit -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 2:32:53 PM)

I guess I should have made that more clear. lol  I didn't mean that sports or games are not real life... just that real life is full of much more than those things and I thought the thread was different. lol



HeavansKeeper -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 2:56:19 PM)

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If anyone wants further reading on this post, read here.

That said, I've found this interest of female supremacy is most common in submissive men. It'd be a dreamworld, where it was Planet of the Dommes and men are used and discarded as the master gender saw fit.

This post makes me think of MTV footage of "Who can explode a condom with a foot pump by riding it, men or women?" or "Who can wipe whipped cream off the 'judges' windshield with their chest faster, men or women?" Cheap TV that's less satisfying than GGG Bukakke scenes.

I find the "gender difference" exploitation to be little more than a chance to have some ritual that will probably lead to tequila induced sex. Not that there's anything wrong with that [:D].



MsJssk -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 2:58:08 PM)

I think that sports are just the easiest example of real life competitions.

MsJ



LadyPact -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 3:15:43 PM)

Yes, HK, I caught the cross post as well.

I really don't have anything to add, except to say that I'm sure at least one of the posts will be pulled by the mods.



SaraZeal -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 6:11:33 PM)

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(2) Have you ever watched one or been part of Battle of the sexes.. (3) I think most male subs and female dommes would love the girls to win, but do female subs too cheer for the girls..


2: Yes, often. Especially when I was at school. I would often take both sides at once.

3: I cheer for both. I want both to win, none to lose. I still want my Dom to dominate me, but I don't want him to 'win', or me 'win' over him. It makes no sense to me.



DominaSusan -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 6:41:47 PM)

Once on a vanilla date, my date told me that it is not polite to beat a man at a game-video in this case. This was our last date; despite his wealth and good looks what Domina want to be sub to any man. I enjoy beating men fair and square and if I lose that’s ok too. I like to play to win.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 7:00:08 PM)

real life is the ONLY life.




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/27/2008 7:19:20 PM)

I find this question trivial, and greet it with impatience that's borne of a lot of other, in my perception, trivial threads on the Mistress boards in the past month or so.

I understand that people are new and go through learning phases, that everything won't appeal to me, but I sorely miss the rich, thought-provoking exchange of ideas we had going.  Can we quit it with the bullshit threads?

End complaining.

Mss



seababy -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/28/2008 7:26:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MySweetSubmssive

I find this question trivial, and greet it with impatience that's borne of a lot of other, in my perception, trivial threads on the Mistress boards in the past month or so.

I understand that people are new and go through learning phases, that everything won't appeal to me, but I sorely miss the rich, thought-provoking exchange of ideas we had going.  Can we quit it with the bullshit threads?

End complaining.

Mss

Guess its up to you.
The only thing comes to my mind is maybe an OP on navel lint. Would that do?



taziesubguy -> RE: Do dommes/male subs enjoy female domination in real life.. (7/31/2008 11:34:05 PM)

Yes thats what i was looking for.. so your sub also wants women to win like me..



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