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barebicub -> Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 4:02:53 PM)

I've been into being bound up pretty much every other weekend or so for almost the last two years, and have been in a lot of different situations, intense bondage, overnight/weekend sessions, discipline, had some experience with various fetishes (electro, tickle torture, leather, etc.) but most experiences have always just been very causal.

I got an e-mail about 2 weeks ago in response to a generic "tie me up" ad I threw up from a Master who said he'd been noticing my posts from time to time, asked what it thought about slaves. I've always been curious about experiencing the diff. from just regular sub stuff, so we've been talking back & forth he sent some pics of his slaves tied in his dungeon, and I decided to take up his invitation to be "trained for slavery," and I've just been reading over the instructions and stuff he sent with the rest of the info.

More or less, here's what he's outlined:

>>This friday morning at 8 I'm going to be parking nearby and be blindfolded & driven in by one of his "boys", and was told to plan to be there until sunday afternoon.

>>Once I'm inside, i'll be hooded (experienced that several times) & frisked, stripped, & collared.

>>Tied spread eagle to a table & have a cokc ring put on and "inspected", body shaved smooth, then showered, & douched.

>>Then retied to "a device that can't be revealed just yet" and get started. We setup a safeword & signal system, but I'm only gonna use it in an emergency, I think, but he did say it was going to be very intense and I'd get like only about a 10 minute breaks once ever 1-2 hours, left alone for 6 hours around noonish or so to sleep "as best as I can."

I'm keenly interested in it, and I've been reading up on slave etiquette & stuff, but just wanted to ask for any advice & recommendations you all might have from experience for me, and anything I can do during the week to help prepare (masturb. habits, diet, sleep schedule, etc.)






Usako -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 4:10:22 PM)

I'm assuming you met this person first and chatted in person face to face before agreeing to let random people blind fold you and stay somewhere a whole weekend...right?

I mean it all sounds fun and all for the slave fantasy experience but seems a bit unsafe to do with a random stranger.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 4:29:03 PM)

fast reply

mho, sounds like someone was reading literotica before he messaged you



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 4:29:50 PM)

Sounds like a passive kinky vacation weekend to me.  If it's what you want and you feel good about getting into this situation, then go for it.

Exactly how is this slave training?  Most slaves I know wake up and first worry about coffee, laundry and breakfast, seven days a week. 



barebicub -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 4:31:15 PM)

lol yah we've met up for coffee twice and talked for quite a while. Of course sociopaths are good at lying and I could end up putting the effing lotion in the basket (silence of the lambs reference) but I'm very good at reading people's intentions, though I'm no precog.

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ORIGINAL: Usako

I'm assuming you met this person first and chatted in person face to face before agreeing to let random people blind fold you and stay somewhere a whole weekend...right?

I mean it all sounds fun and all for the slave fantasy experience but seems a bit unsafe to do with a random stranger.




silkncarol -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 4:54:38 PM)

If you feel comfortable putting yourself in the situation......i know i've followed my intuition where others thought differently and had wonderful experiences........the only thing i'd be concerned about is not being able to let anyone know where i'd be......


quote:

ORIGINAL: barebicub

lol yah we've met up for coffee twice and talked for quite a while. Of course sociopaths are good at lying and I could end up putting the effing lotion in the basket (silence of the lambs reference) but I'm very good at reading people's intentions, though I'm no precog.

quote:

ORIGINAL: Usako

I'm assuming you met this person first and chatted in person face to face before agreeing to let random people blind fold you and stay somewhere a whole weekend...right?

I mean it all sounds fun and all for the slave fantasy experience but seems a bit unsafe to do with a random stranger.





apiercedkitty -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 5:43:10 PM)

~FR~
Well, i don't consider myself a slave but this doesn't sound much like the kind of slave training i think of... i think more of learning how he (or she) likes coffee in the morning... does he expect a fantastic bj in the morning... how does he like his underwear folded, etc. as slave training. This sounds like being tied up (somewhere where you can't even let a friend know you are for your safety) and being used as he sees fit. If that's ok in your book - have fun but i don't think you need any special preparation.
 
*note* i thought a douche was a woman thing...



mignoette -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 5:50:05 PM)

I'm being trained right now and its NOTHING like what You've described. Perhaps I'm mistaken ,it sounds more like a Fantasy weekend. That said IF its going to be intense treat it like an athletic event and prepare the same way, lots of water, rest and electrolytes before hand.......



katie978 -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 6:11:32 PM)

   Not knowing more details about the situation, it's hard to explain how to prepare.

  If you're not going to be allowed to use a restroom for extended periods, eat lightly.

  If you're not going to be fed, eat a lot.

  Set any safety nets you can...make sure someone knows where you are, make sure you can call out at various points.   I can see this being a fun time with someone you've played with before and trust. With someone I've only met once or twice, I can see this being nerve-wracking...although that can be fun.

    ^_^ You should have extended the quotation marks around the "slave training" part of your question as well, what you describe is more fun sexual roleplaying than the types of useful training actual slaves can expect.



Leatherist -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 6:51:58 PM)

Does he have any refferences from past play partners? It would be sort of dissapointing if he turned out to be a nilla with delusions of granduer.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 6:58:00 PM)

And of course references would prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that he's real!



Leatherist -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 7:30:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

And of course references would prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that he's real!


Face to face even.



nwcutie102 -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/27/2008 8:16:18 PM)

little like "story of O"



BigBaby -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/30/2008 11:16:54 AM)

sounds kinda scary to me, like to know where I am in case of problems, I would be very nervous...but thats just me.



LadyPact -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/30/2008 1:46:44 PM)

Just a few thoughts......

I'm surprised this person is going to shave you there.  If it were Me, you'd be coming after having shaved yourself.  (Do I look like anyone's personal groomer?)

It doesn't sound much like 'slave training' to Me. Sounds more like bottom fantasy fulfillment.

What the heck does a cock ring have to do with it?  If someone's taking you to use you, I'm betting the last thing that's going to be 'used' is *your* cock. 

Left alone for six hours, eh?  Yeah.  Good luck with that.  Put your personal information somewhere so someone can figure out who you are when they find the body.

Oh, and please, have some shots taken of your "weekend".  I don't happen to have a pic of a big, steaming pile of crap for My collection.



Viridana -> RE: Any Advice on preparing for "extensive" slave training? (7/30/2008 3:26:06 PM)

If this is something you want to do then by all means do it. But remember that reality is often much harsher than the fantasy. 



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