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girl4you2 -> RE: How far would you compromise????? (11/19/2005 10:43:29 PM)
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ORIGINAL: gentlesurrender
i have talked to many Dominants and everybody is looking for something different,
as subs/slaves we have our own desires, wants and needs,
i recently met a really nice Dom, a quick coffee turned into dinner and 7 hours later we parted company and i came home.
i sat pondering and considering the conversation etc, now if i want to proceed with this Dom, i would have to compromise on going to munches, parties and clubs as its not something he likes doing. He is totally monogamous, so there are certain fantasies/desires that will never be reality (although i dont know if i could do them) the possibility wont be there.
so what would you be willing to compromise on.............................
there is a fine line to be found between settling and compromise. when in initial stages of a relationship, one has to be careful to keep one's own values and ethics in mind, so that one is not taken advantage or, or take advantage of. later one, compromising is a way to work things out between two people, if the meeting of the minds can be done.
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