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RE: How to make him suffer? - 11/26/2005 3:18:26 PM

Laura

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Simple things like having him walk behind you when you are out. He opens every door, with a slight bow as you walk through. If you're out for fast food he brings the tray, fetches the straws, creamers, ketchup, etc.

Doing something in public can be more effective than what you do in your own home. It doesn't have to be dramatic but it should be consistent.

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RE: How to make him suffer? - 11/26/2005 3:24:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: MissSweet

I have been topping my husband for about a year now. He is obedient most of the time, but does need to be corrected from time to time. My question is what are some non standard punishments/humiliations (other than spanking, CBT, bondage) that will leave a lasting impression in his mind. Normal punishments work for a while, but I think I need to find some more intense punishments that do nont need to be repeated as often.

Thanks

If he is sincere about wanting to please you and it isn't a game for him, then the mere thought of knowing he let you down should be enough to straighten him out. Use phrases like, "I'm disappointed in you," or "You made me upset because..." or "This kind of behavior isn't acceptable." Follow it up by making him spend time alone and instead of giving him stimulation/attention through punishment, make him reflect on his own actions.

If it is more of a game between you, then you need to find out what physical sensations hurt more than others and apply as needed. Keep in mind that you'll reinforce the bad behavior more than correct it.

As always, good communication is your friend.

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RE: How to make him suffer? - 11/26/2005 4:54:46 PM

LaMalinche

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ORIGINAL: RealmOfSenses

Buy the latest Ashlee SImpson CD and strap headphones to his head and make sure it's electricity powered so the batteries don't run out and lock him in a dark room for 4 hours.