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Reigna -> EEEK! Seeking advice on 24/7 (7/28/2008 4:54:53 PM)
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My sub's moving in with me in two weeks. After two full years of managing a cross-town relationship, we will be full-time. EEEEK!!
Like us, this relationship is in many ways fairly ordinary by vanilla standards. We have houses, cars, 401Ks, insurance, furniture, children from previous marriages, etc. Suffice to say, he won't be kept in a latex catsuit and hood 24/7, nor will he be spending his off-hours in a steamer trunk. But over time, we've moved closer toward a genuine FLR. Happily, I'm making a LOT of the decisions nowadays, and I can foresee the day when I make most or all of them.
For those of you who can relate from this brief description to the kind of life we'll be living--how would you do it? I'm sex-obsessed--sue me--and my first concerns are how we'll manage that with kids around. Until now, we've mostly gotten together when UMs were with their friends or other parents. But now the children will be living across the hall from us; and we make a lot of noise, even when I use a gag. Having been married before, I'm vaguely aware that there is more to domestic life than sex, but right at the moment I'm stressing over how I'm going to manage our sex life, my sex life, and his. (I get to come every day. He gets a fair amount of chastity, but too much of this particular good thing screws up his response, which I then view as a Bad Thing.)
I'll probably be fine once I get over the "it's getting close" panic, which probably is much the same as prenuptial jitters. Meantime, I'd appreciate any pointers and ideas from either side of the kneel.
Thanks in advance.
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