MissHarlet
Posts: 2728
Joined: 9/11/2005 From: El Paso , TX US Status: offline
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I have been in this lifestlye for close to 20 years now. I started as a submissive and everyone I talked to asked " are you sure you are not a dominant??you would make a great one!" .. after many years and some wonderful and some not so wonderful experiences ... I decided to stop shareing my evil ideas with Dominant friends and to take the step. I had mentored many newbie submissives over the years and felt that what most wanted and were not finding was training that helped them live there vanilla life to the fullest as well as there DS life. I talked to many submissives and finally accepted one. It was an exhilerating experience. I found I loved training in formal protocol and in allowing the sadistic side of myself flourish. I also found that I was very good ( or so I was told LOL , and we all know the dominant ego ) at inspireing others to achieve more than they thought they could. In addition .. I was able to allow my love of blades to run wild and to allow myself to recieve the trust that enabled that play. I have had other submissives and never fail to appreciate and be in awe of the trust they place in me. Im an older Dominant Woman who loves the lifestyle and the honor of it and abhors the lies and games that so many seem to think is the only way to exist. This is an honorable and spiritual lifestyle in my opinion and I manage to attract people into my world that have the same mindset. I never have to " settle" and dont think anyone should even if they do not agree with me or dont like my mindset <EG>. Thanks for reading my ramblings, Lady Harlett
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