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jamesthehumanrug -> RE: Scene preparations (11/16/2005 10:06:54 PM)
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everything's saturation ,or deprivation ,in principle,
if you are saturated, by a stimulus
you must find a bridge ,to, that stimuli, to come ;like something on the way... make a space, and, fill it back, to the object
a toe, to a foot
a leg ,to a shoe
the bridge being whatever's ,inbetween you, and, the actual object you are supposed to focus ,on, and, come, to...
,if you are saturated,and, you don't ever want, to ,become saturated ,with anyone ,or thing ,or you can't come!
you can reinforce the focus ,or stimulus ,so, if you're getting ,into being hurt ,and ,dominated
; you do it ,to yourself ,in your head, and, help the dom. ,by doing it even more ,to yourself first;(self-talk, increasing the degree, of dominance coming , from the ,inside, to help the degree ,of dominance coming, from the ,outside person,)
if you depive yourself ;you come a lot quicker;
which can be a problem, too, if you have, to last longer.
drugs are an option, and, a certain privillage ,if they are recommended,
but ,to focus ,on many doms
you simply have ,to continue,in your place,without any fluctuations ;the dom is in charge,that's all you have,to remember....,not your newspaper ,not the guy next, to you ,not you gotta go ,to the bathroom,stop: whatever you're doing ;concentrate,on the top,or your place.remember what ever's stopping you, from coming, and,making yourself happy ;will ,also stop everyone else, from being happy.
The principle here is,
only, if :
you make yourself happy,
then the,other's are free ,to do the same.
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