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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 10:49:44 AM

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When I was in school they had Parents' Day one time and I was irrationally aroused by one of the mothers' ears. They were just fucking huge and meaty and almost looked like fleshy vaginas. I had fantasies for days about coming in that woman's ear.

I guess that's not what the OP meant by aural sex though.

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 10:53:15 AM

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Why do I have an image of a Dom with a bullwhip standing there and shouting "Can you hear me now?"

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 3:19:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: WRogers57

I've schooled a few new people to the pleasures found in being very vocal in what they are doing, experiencing or providing in order to increase their Other's pleasure. Learning to describe...to talk....to be vocal, in such a way to increase the scene intensity, is worth learning.

Specific practice by the sub/slave is sometimes new to them, but feedback indicates it pays off in Dom/Owner satisfaction.

Who has had experience in this?

'Round my house, we just call it "dirty talk."
It's pretty simple... kind of like madlibs: I am [gerund] your [noun]. It feels [adverb] [adjective.]

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 3:22:08 PM

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ORIGINAL: Coupleofwhats
'Round my house, we just call it "dirty talk."
It's pretty simple... kind of like madlibs: I am [gerund] your [noun]. It feels [adverb] [adjective.]

Okay, that does it. Now I really do think you're hot.

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 3:24:44 PM

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It works for some and not for others. If he wants me describing stuff to him, I can do it. But, it's a nonsexual service from my pov. I won't be turned on in the least and I might as well be reading from an index card. When I'm enjoying what we do, then I'm not verbal. And no matter how much he tells me he wants to be otherwise, I'm just not wired that way. Same as if he told me how much he wanted me to be poly, ain't gonna happen.

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 3:48:31 PM

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My Master loves it when I call things out during a scene, like "I need it", "feed me", "I love it when you do that", etc. "More" and "harder"go over quite well, also. Finishing with a gasped, "that was incredible" is always a hit. : )

I also enjoy it. He may ask me roughly who I belong to, or tell me to cum for Daddy. The verbalization definitely heightens the excitement. I am more likely to orgasm over something said to me than because of the action itself - especially if it seems to break new grounds of intimacy. The last time we were together my Master called one of His body parts mine, and that idea of Him considering me the "owner" of any part of Him was enough to send me flying. Without it being said aloud during a session I would never have guessed at His feelings. It only makes sense - after all, the increased communication and the accompanying trust were what drew me to the lifestyle. Why not communicate appropriately and evocatively during a session?

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 4:28:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: WRogers57

I've schooled a few new people to the pleasures found in being very vocal in what they are doing, experiencing or providing in order to increase their Other's pleasure. Learning to describe...to talk....to be vocal, in such a way to increase the scene intensity, is worth learning.

Specific practice by the sub/slave is sometimes new to them, but feedback indicates it pays off in Dom/Owner satisfaction.

Who has had experience in this?

oh yes i am high in my aural modality. i simple love listening to my Master...therefore it's one of the pleasures of being blindfolde...and expecially masturbation....wow that's hot.
i love the sound of His voice, change of breathing.
i have to be encouraged to speak louder when obeying. if He is really impatient i find i am asked to repeat what i am feeling and the response yes Master. When i am asked do i belong it's hot. And when i am asked to beg well.......words fail me here at least lol.
When pain hits a particular threshold although i have no limits i am allowed to express how i feel. i cn usually hear it in my own voice when i reach a point where i need the scene to finish. There's a certain animal quality to real tears and cries isn't there?
Edited to add: when i first really got into telephone sex i was fascinated by what coud be creatively done with the voice. The novelty of that has worn off though.

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 4:44:08 PM

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At one time I would have stifled my sounds of joy and pain, much less the words. But I have learned to to express these things somewhat. Partners of both sexes have enjoyed this in my experience. A simple "fuck me," or "oh God, baby" are signs that you aren't in bed with a corpse, and expression of such feelings are one more inhibition/wall to be tumbled. "Cum for me," "go crazy, do anything" or "hurt me" can certainly set the wheels churning faster.

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 4:48:42 PM

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for a minute there i thought we were going to have a chat about tantric sex or flip off onto some psychic trip... ah well.....

an aura is a field of energy that radiates out in a wonderful variety of colours - i think you might mean oral.

hell thats why it caught my eye.. now I feel gyped.. *pouts*

and yes feedback is always positive as long as the 2 partners are very open to communication.. and what mind blowing sex does not have open communication?

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/29/2008 4:57:30 PM

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But I have to say, I AM disappointed how many saw AURAL and only read ORAL...

.. for a brief moment.. I thought ...."what now.. EAR FUCKING?!?!?!"

hehe - i thought it was going to be a TINY penis thread!

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RE: Aural Sex - 7/30/2008 3:25:30 AM

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lol... Most men I know would have made the same connection. In fact, most I know would say, "Fuck talk, woman. Shut up and suck my dick." <http://www.collarchat.com/image/s4.gif>

TK,

Life is such a pleasure you lucky girl.

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