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Viridana -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:21:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

to meet in real person if it was only for online fun i wouldnt be getting my knickers in  a twist i was only chatting to them online to get to know a bit about them first and they were quite happy for me to cam for them but when they were asked to cam for me and my master they refused!


Which in my opinion I find totally understandable. I personally would never ever cam with a stranger. If I were in the position of trying to be a 3rd in a 3some or being a part of the couple, I would like to meet with the person at least once before for coffee before even discussing sexual things



SirMIkeSD -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:21:54 AM)

I suggest you get to know them some before asking that.  Hell you may be talking to men for all you know and that's why they won't cam.  Not that I would turn on my cam anyway until I got a feel for someone in the first place.  If I even turn it on after that all I want to see is there face and that's all they will see from me.

Mike



akisha -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:22:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

arrg i never said any of the other woman i had found were subs! if they were then the master/slave relationship would never have blody freaked them out!


First off why would you go to Nilla's to join you and your master in a 3some?? error #1

Easy fix for your problem... Hire a professional. Done deal, everyone gets what they want. 



darkangelslave -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:22:57 AM)

what is your problem?



Missokyst -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:24:12 AM)

Ok... so they werent subs.  But they were people, right?  Believe it or not, even though you were willing to cam with this supposed "master", that doesnt mean everyone has that desire.  It is not even a matter of desire, in my opinion.  People ask me to cam and I have to laugh.  Sheesh.  Why would I want to?  LOL to get some guy off?  I can masturbate without a cam handy. 
So.. why would I want to cam to help some guy I dont know and couldnt give a rip about, get off? 

You state that you could get people to cam for you, after talking to them.  But when you asked if they would cam for your master they refused.. hmm... could it be because your master didnt take the time to lure them as you did?  Is it any wonder why they would refuse?   
Maybe you need to look for people who are desperate for some sort of connection?

Your own connection with this supposed "master" is dependant on something with which you have no control.  You cant make some stranger buy into your fantasy.  The man got you to bite the bait, is his technique so bad he cannot get another to cam?  He is punishing you for his own inability.  You were probably his first success.  Hot as it was to listen to him having sex while you masturbated on a cam for him.. is that all you want from a relationship?
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

arrg i never said any of the other woman i had found were subs! if they were then the master/slave relationship would never have blody freaked them out!



Sub4You4UKOnly -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:25:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SirWAX


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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

to meet in real person if it was only for online fun i wouldnt be getting my knickers in  a twist i was only chatting to them online to get to know a bit about them first and they were quite happy for me to cam for them but when they were asked to cam for me and my master they refused!


so it involves two computers? or three?


i think maybe 6 OMFG I WANT MY MASTER *hides*



darkangelslave -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:26:33 AM)

im only permitted to cam for other people when my master is online and when orderd to show more than my face i comply with my masters instructions



Sub4You4UKOnly -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:27:48 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

what is your problem?


My problem? My problem was stated earlier. You are my problem, you came here, asked a question about something you got asked to do, put down one thing on here, another thing on your profile and keep skirting around things which is dead annoying



Sub4You4UKOnly -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:28:58 AM)

Oh and btw the "OMFG I WANT MY MASTER *hides*" wasn't anything to do with this thread :)



darkangelslave -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:29:29 AM)

im not hiding from anybody this is my problem to sort out i dont go whinghin to my master every time some one decides to give me jip i give as good as i get!



Viridana -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:30:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Sub4You4UKOnly

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

what is your problem?


My problem? My problem was stated earlier. You are my problem, you came here, asked a question about something you got asked to do, put down one thing on here, another thing on your profile and keep skirting around things which is dead annoying


Then stop reading the bloody thread!
Annoying or no, she has no obligations to you or your annoyance factor. How about stop acting like a spoiled child and find other things more to your satisfaction.



SirWAX -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:33:21 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Sub4You4UKOnly

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ORIGINAL: SirWAX


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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

to meet in real person if it was only for online fun i wouldnt be getting my knickers in  a twist i was only chatting to them online to get to know a bit about them first and they were quite happy for me to cam for them but when they were asked to cam for me and my master they refused!


so it involves two computers? or three?


i think maybe 6 OMFG I WANT MY MASTER *hides*
lol. i was being sincere, but honestly i think akisha's idea will help your problem best darkangelslave. save up for that buxom beauty profesh.

Sincerely,
SirWaxaLot





Sub4You4UKOnly -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:34:16 AM)

If you want advice about an order that you got given then the best person to talk to is your Master. Isn't that obvious? I always go to my Master when I am confused about an order he gave me, or can't fulfil an order he gave me. Talk to your Master about the fact you can't find anyone to do a threesome with you both and explain it to him thoroughly. Go to his house and talk to him in person, tell him you really need to talk to him about it and that it can't be helped. Not your fault there is no prostitutes around you



MrRodgers -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:35:10 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

my master is putting so much pressure on me to find a female to join us for a 3some,i would have thought that my master would pick who he wanted to join us but this task has befallen on me  a task that he knows i am realy struggling with,is it common practice for the slave to be resposible for choosing a suitable female for her master?

Call me old-school but I cast a cold eye upon any so-called 'master' who needs to use his 'slave' or any 'other' women to get...more women. Any man let alone a 'master' should get his own women. If you both were sincerly considering a poly and I mean a 3 or more-way relationship...that's the only possbile difference.

Furthermore...just how would he describe 'suitable ?' Ready to join in a 3some could be all there is to that. I know, don't tell me...under 30, hot, slim, sexy and a nymphoslut. Am I close here ? Just who would be unsuitable ?

Otherwise, you are 'pimping' for him and he seeks to swing with all of the 'other' women you can procure for him.

Since coming to the kinkosphere...I have seen this quite often and there are many sub/slaves and women in particular NOT living with their dom/master, that have no idea how many other women these men 'have' some of which are 'under consideration.' (meaningless)



darkangelslave -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:35:17 AM)

no i havnt common sence would tell you that because the master/slave relationship freaked out so many people the sensible step to then take would be find a submissive someone more suitable to our needs that knows what to expect in the bedroom,we havnt all got best pals that want to join us for a 3some!!!



MasterDragon1963 -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:38:15 AM)

Please allow me to be the devils advocate for just a moment.

Some Masters appreciate what they have and respect their property, treat their slaves well, and seek the "big picture" in things. And some "masters" who are too lazy and hate rejection, yet crave a lil strange pussy on the side. but in order as not to ruffle the feathers, they send her out to fine someone she will not resent. Dont get me wrong, I am not aiming at open relationships, or poly couples, I am speaking of guys who claim to be masters, who tell some girl what it means to be a slave, and then after a collar, start searching for #2, #3, & #4, yet are not concerned with any of the other respocibilities that go with owning a slave.

And if someone asks a question, who are we to bitch, isnt the purpose of a forum to open communication for exchange of knowledge. And just because she asks a question, its not our place to determine their dynamics. The two edge sword of lifestyle cuts both ways very often, it allows us all to "offer" knowledge, but forbids us to "preach" as law. the "your kink, my kink, no one is wrong", yet this void allows for way too many idiots to run amuck. We drive a road with very few real definitions on the signs.

But for the sake of an honest answer in "my opinion", any one who thinks the world will kiss their ass on the first conversation is setting their goal bar a lil tooooooo high.
The whole deal sounds lame. His "you didnt get me any, so you cant have any, but i am still gonna get mine while i wait for you to get me some more" tactic falls way short of the target of being honorable. Too many guys think that joining a lifestyle will increase the number of times they get laid, and if they work the gears just the right way, that might be try for a lil while. A slave may be property, but that doesnt make them garbage, and just because he has a dick, doesnt mean he has to think with it.

Master Dragon



Sub4You4UKOnly -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:43:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

no i havnt common sence would tell you that because the master/slave relationship freaked out so many people the sensible step to then take would be find a submissive someone more suitable to our needs that knows what to expect in the bedroom,we havnt all got best pals that want to join us for a 3some!!!


On the serach thing on the home page enter what sex, age, orientation and so on in and it also has a box where you can select what they are looking for, select "A poly household" then press enter. Might find someone.

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ORIGINAL: Viridana

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ORIGINAL: Sub4You4UKOnly

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ORIGINAL: darkangelslave

what is your problem?


My problem? My problem was stated earlier. You are my problem, you came here, asked a question about something you got asked to do, put down one thing on here, another thing on your profile and keep skirting around things which is dead annoying


Then stop reading the bloody thread!
Annoying or no, she has no obligations to you or your annoyance factor. How about stop acting like a spoiled child and find other things more to your satisfaction.



And Im not a spoiled child :) Children are UM and im not an UM thanks



SirWAX -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:51:32 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Sub4You4UKOnly

On the serach thing on the home page enter what sex, age, orientation and so on in and it also has a box where you can select what they are looking for, select "A poly household" then press enter. Might find someone.


Is 'swinging' considered a 'poly household'? I don't presume to know i'm just asking.

On the topic, she is obviously happy being her Master's.

YOUR OPTIONS:

1/ Keep trying to find swingers that won't freak out, it may take more than 5 months

2/ Hire an escort who will perform additional services

3/ Prostitute it

Now go out there and make your Master happy!! Yah!!

Sincerely,
SirWaxaLot



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:52:14 AM)

Master Dragon, you perfectly described the reason why i left my former 2 yrs ago.

we had a "relationship" (if you could call it that) in which he wanted me to find not only another but miss #3, miss #4 etc to add to his growing stable. this was something i wasn't too cool about doing and even told my concerns. yet they fell on deaf ears every time. i too would be punished for failing to complete the task on time ...plus commanded that i join this site to find others. then one day, i decided to walk away since he wasn't going to take my concerns into consideration (and the fact i didn't like being forced into bi).



darkangelslave -> RE: if a master desires a 3some is it normaly a slaves job to find a suitable person? (7/29/2008 9:52:41 AM)

the reason im getting so upset is because the 3some is mainly for my benifit not my masters im not going into great detail but there are certain sexual acts some men even masters for reason dont enjoy,i have been serving my master for 2 years and i have been quite happy to go without a certain sexual pleasure i extremley enjoy and although my master has never told me the 3some is for my benifit more than his it became obviouse to me a long time ago,all i wanted was an opinion without being to personel about my master but maybe now iv explained it in great detail people will learn not to jump to conclusions about the nature of my masters order for me to find a female!



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