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Mercnbeth -> RE: How were you "found" by your Master? (7/29/2008 1:38:34 PM)
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I was wondering how sub's were found, entered the relationship with their Dom?
Were you attracted to the Dom, did he/she make the first move or did you?
Do these online sites work or have you met elsewhere then come here?
this slave was found, amidst quite a few folk, by way of the internet. He found this slave's profile on a BDSM personals site...not CM, the first week it was there.
this slave identified as a lonely submissive, brand-new to this particular alternative lifestyle---this slave had never engaged in an intimate, specifically D/s or M/s relationship, even though the expression of her sexuality and personality has always been (since she can remember) cultivated and satisfied submitting to another.
the decision to leap, without a net, was much harder than the easy tasks of filling out a checklist, writing a short paragraph and posting it on a free BDSM personals site. this slave contacted no-one...merely put the ad out there and waited.
Master had been hanging out at the site for a few months, and had decades of experience with the concepts, practical realities, various relationship structures/sexual orientations enjoyed and expressed within this lifestyle. He wrote to this slave, in response to her profile, along with 50 others that week.
this slave turned the profile off, narrowed the 50 down to the 10 most appealing, then down to a top 3. starting with #1 on the list, she wrote back, with an interest in talking on the phone, IM, e-mail, web-cam and meeting ASAP.
We corresponded, utilizing all of the above methods, and met within 2 weeks. It has been increasingly difficult, if not impossible, to be away from Him, ever since...5 years later.[:)]
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