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Najakcharmer -> RE: what are you looking for in an introduction letter (8/7/2008 9:23:14 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Slavesun
I'm not successful, hung like a horse, good looking and stupid...nor do I have a fat wallet therefore it doesn't matter what I include in my introduction.
Not meaning to offend anybody but that is the collective impression I got from reading a stack of Domme profiles.
They expect you to jump through hoops and offer little in return. If I had the personal qualities and attributes they are collectively seeking I'd be chasing the stunning supermodel type rather than waste time grovelling to middle aged women with average looks.
There is so much wrong with that attitude I don't even know where to start. If you're that hung up on the idea of supermodel looks being the most important thing someone can offer, or the idea that a stunning young supermodel would have more to offer as a domme than an ordinary looking middle aged woman with extensive and serious experience, then you're probably looking for a shallow "Stand & Model" experience rather than dominance and submission. There are men and women out there who are that shallow, as evidenced by the "gold digger" domme profiles out there, and all of them are best avoided.
But hey, since we already know you would much rather be with a young supermodel if you felt you could get one, and us non-supermodel ladies in your own age group are a poor second best that you might settle for since you don't regard yourself a much of a catch either, why in the world would we want to be with you either? After all we'd just be a waste of time if only you were richer, and should you ever become successful we could count on being instantly dumped so you could chase younger, prettier women.
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Pro Dommes are a better option....you get exactly what you want, odds are stacked in favor of the fact that they know what they are doing and how to use equipment safely plus you avoid the possibility of finding yourself in the hands of a psycho Domme (they are out there from what I've been told.)
For you, I heartily agree, since you've just made it perfectly clear that you're horrible relationship material. Not because of your penis size or your wallet size, but because you have stated that you would immediately go chasing pretty young women if you were only rich enough, and you regard the worth of a woman and a domme not as being based on her life experience or personality or seriousness, but age and appearance. That is a total and complete deal breaker for me, and I doubt I'm alone in that boat. Not that age and appearance should be totally disregarded - if there is no attraction or compatibility it's not going to work - but if you're thinking primarily on the shallow end, that makes you very, very bad relationship material in the eyes of most dommes regardless of how old they are or how they look.
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