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Joined: 5/2/2007 From: Savannah, GA Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: corysub This is where D/s goes from being a lifestyle form where a submissive gives total control over their bodies..and it's not just sex that seems to pre- occupy soo many here. I have been in the scene for only 4 or 5 years and while CBT is fine up to individual limits, I have never heard of a sub male willingly wanting to have his "balls ruptured". This is not only dangerous to the sub but also "legally dangerous" to the Domme. She would be wide open for a felony if, God forbid, the male should have shock reactions or even a heart attack and die! The Domme has total control...and TOTAL responsibility for safe, sane play, and also legal risk that no one seems to discuss here. Maybe it's me...but even should a subbie have extremely edgy limits, the Domme should always be in control of the situation and stop when She thinks it appropriate. Am I wrong in thinking this way?? cory hi cory.. the highlighted part is what I am addressing.. I respectfully disagree.. the onus of responsibility should NOT be all on the domme.. there is such thing as personal accountability.. in other words: if the person (regardless of which side of the slash they stand on) is dead set on doing something that is physically, legally or psychologically (I'm sure I've left out some of the '-ally's' here) detrimental to the other person... then the person at risk should be responsible for speaking up and saying "OH HELL NO" (or something to that effect....) JMNSHO..YMMV
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