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MsStarlett -> RE: Dommes inundated with messages and never opening their emails (7/30/2008 5:56:04 AM)
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LOL! We do seem to get a lot of male subs who answer in the "Ask a Mistress" section. I've always found that quite charming.
------OK! I'm back from the gym... and have a moment. I just wanted to do a C&P to show you guys what We ladies deal with all the time. Feel free to just read the Bold parts that I pointed out and skip the rest. It's rather dull.
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Hello Maam - Your profile, interests, and beauty have attracted me. Although relatively new to the lifestyle myself, i have had experience with one Mistress. I am very aware of the fact that Your play desires and needs are of utmost importance. However, I do also understand that my inner core is something that is to be learned if I am to be with You and satisfy all Your desires. The complete control of my mind and all related to the internals and externals of my body is key when I am with You. I know of the need to explore me in all ways with many activities, and that my deepest thoughts and body are to be fully provided.
This is not a form letter and was written to respond to Your profile. I like to write and that is why it is comprehensive Maam. I seek a dominant who can be nurturing and who will acknowledge and accept my true submissiveness so She can liberate me. It has been a long time that i have surpressed my true self. I wish One who can shape and mold me so I can be of most value to Her. I need One who can understand my complexity and play it like a fine tuned instrument. I need One who can understand it, and use it to Her best advantage. I seek One who is dominant, intelligent, compassionate, resourceful, caring, witty, knowledgeable, and very sensual. I have a strong cognitive and sensual thirst for servitude, knowledge, and experiences of all types. I need One desirous of a near "virgin" like myself, so She can teach me about her true needs, and so W/we can explore new things together. But, I also know the pleasures I will give Her will derive the pleasures I seek. In addition, this is not something I can turn off but is who I am.
I am a man who is very open minded, flexible, adaptable, and learn very quickly Maam, and want One with very diverse and broad interests. I hope my relative inexeperience can be compensated by my strong enthusiasm, desires, and value I can provide. So please do not let my newness deter a potential journey. I am willing to be pushed as I am moved forward and will do what is necessary to please, for my obedience is not negotiable. It must be provided. Training in many disciplines may be required, and even those that may be very personal in nature (such as bathoom training, ingestion of different fluids, watersports, medical, and enemas) are things that are open and not hard limits if You so desire them and require this obedience.
I hope this has provided You with more insight of me Maam, and has allowed You to enter my mind. I am so eager to chat with You. I truly feel like a school boy who is beside himself.I do hope You were pleased with a more in depth introduction.
respectfully,
XXXXXX
P.S. I have a yahoo id if desired. If You prefer to contact me there for more interactive communication that would be fine Maam, just let me know and i can provide my yahoo id if You wish
First off... I beleive I have received the "Not a Form Letter" from the same person at least two or three times. Just because it says it is "Not a Form Letter" doesn't mean that it hasn't been sent to every Domme on the boards. Maybe it means that he worked really hard to write it, he didn't copy it from "Intros-R-Us" but it sure sounds like he did.
Secondly, it says he found my Profile and my Interests attractive. Don't think so. There is absolutely nothing in this 'not-a-form letter' that mentions one thing that is a shared interest from my profile. Just a whole lot of "I Need... I Need... I Need." followed by "Train Me." and IM me on Yahoo. If he read my oh-so-attractive Profile, he must have missed the part that plainly states: "2. Don't beg for phone calls or IM's. That is 'one on one' time and it must be earned. If I want to talk to you, I will invite you. See point #1."
*shrug* I'm not doing this to be mean to the guy who sent the note. He might just be a very nice, honest guy. He just isn't making a good first impression. I'm just trying to show an example of what Dommes get every day in the mail and why we get a little pissy around the edges about it.
My favorites are the men who just TALK to me like a human being, not concentrate totally on their kinky needs. I NEED to connect with a man on a human / friendly level before moving into the kink. I can't get excited about spending any kind of time with a person that can't carry on a normal conversation. As some one else so eloquently said soon after I started here, "I am not a life support system for my toy bag." Wish I could remember who said that! That statement just totally sums up my attitude.
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