shadowcd -> RE: has your Dominant set perimeters yet?? (7/31/2008 7:54:09 AM)
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
I've been around for a bit, and this holds true for me as well, shadow..
(love the new pic, btw :) )
Thanks :) And glad to know I'm not alone in my thinking's or approach :)
sondraD -> RE: has your Dominant set perimeters yet?? (7/31/2008 8:14:04 AM)
There was never a consideration phase, unless dating is considered such. Perimeters were set once submission was given. Before that time, I always wanted to find ways to make him smile, but nothing more then that.
With the relationship very well established now, those perimeters are still there but not vocalized on unless one of them is broken.
sondra
graceadieu -> RE: has your Dominant set perimeters yet?? (8/1/2008 11:23:14 PM)
Eh, I'm not into the protocol thing at all, so I don't have any experience with "consideration". Things develop as they develop and you negotiate the relationship or play partner-ship. That's probably not very helpful, though, lol.