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RedMagic1 -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 6:40:45 AM)

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ORIGINAL: bplegend07
A lot of Dommes care more about money more than anything and I'm not saying all of them do. Just a number of them.

How many dommes have you met in real life?  Because that's not my experience at all.  If you mean the profiles that come up on CollarMe when you search for dominant Asian females who are 19 years old and weigh less that 120 pounds, I've got news for you.  Some of those profiles are probably operated by (gasp) scammer men.

The profiles you see online are not a good indication of how women (domme, switch or sub) are like in the real world.



bplegend07 -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 6:44:36 AM)

Alright im sorry you guys got me no more steaks through the heart please lol



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 6:54:27 AM)

i commend you on your eagerness though your profile screams i need to get laid to me.

however you're quite young and attending college - when will you have time to devote to your potential dominant?  also do you really understand what's involved being someone's slave/submissive?  are you mature enough to make a lifelong commiment to any potential dominant? what life experience do you have? - that and more are what a potential dominant will be looking for from you.

if i was looking for another pet (that's what i call my male submissives), i would have to pass you by because of your age (most places i go you have to be 21 or older) and you're in a junction of your life of leaving under your parents' wings.



stef -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 7:16:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Allondra be nice. Op be glad Im giving you my advice for free.

And as usual, it's worth exactly what was paid for it.

~stef



Dnomyar -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 9:06:36 AM)

Oh no now it is stef. Op if you say You Guys one more time I will smack you.



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 9:16:01 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Oh no now it is stef. Op if you say You Guys one more time I will smack you.


you GIRLS need to....um.....



Coupleofwhats -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 10:03:13 AM)

Try being less common.

Being uncommon gets you noticed everywhere you go: take it from a weirdo.



Dnomyar -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 10:19:41 AM)

Can't smack faerys. They are to magical.



LadyPact -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 12:57:49 PM)

Step 1.  Use that computer of yours to look up a TNG group in your area.  (Due to your age, not all BDSM groups willl allow you to attend.)

Step 2.  Shut the computer off, and walk outside your door at the appointed date and time.

Step 3.  Meet real people at real events.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 1:00:55 PM)

Lady Pact, you *spoilsport*!  You mean you can't get weal twue fulfillment on teh internets?  Dagnabbit![8D]



LadyPact -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 1:08:59 PM)

Terribly sorry, dear.  Now turning you back to the regularly scheduled program.......



darchChylde -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 2:03:30 PM)

Find a likely woman (any who wear black leather boots are bound to be dominant), grab her by her hair and yank her roughly to her knees.  Then you should speak in a low, but firm and commanding voice while looking her dead in her eyes.

"You will control me now, BITCH!!!"

*he doffs his Sarcastic Hat as he steps from the room*



LadyHibiscus -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 4:09:09 PM)

Oren makes me laff!!  [:D]  That always gets my attention in a good way!



thetammyjo -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 4:44:27 PM)

No one online has ever caught my attention.

The only partners I have had I met via educational groups or munches.

They impressed me by being intellect, serious, sincere, and fun men and women whom I had a lot of non-kinky things in common with.



bplegend07 -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 5:24:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sambamanslilgirl

i commend you on your eagerness though your profile screams i need to get laid to me.

however you're quite young and attending college - when will you have time to devote to your potential dominant?  also do you really understand what's involved being someone's slave/submissive?  are you mature enough to make a lifelong commiment to any potential dominant? what life experience do you have? - that and more are what a potential dominant will be looking for from you.

if i was looking for another pet (that's what i call my male submissives), i would have to pass you by because of your age (most places i go you have to be 21 or older) and you're in a junction of your life of leaving under your parents' wings.


Actually I will have plenty of time because I can change my schedule at anyime.

And I have been on my own since I was 17  I have my own place right now and I haven't got much help from my parents since I moved out. and no im not looking to get laid because I want to be a full time slave, not just a one time thing. I will edit my profile and change my information thanks for the advice.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 5:42:59 PM)

Mainly, remember you are addressing another person, not a role. Nothing makes me lose interest nearly as fast as feelig like the person talking to me doesnt care about who I am as much as what I will do.
Your hobby is ONE of your passions, not your only one. If it is your only one, the its a competition for your time. Make sure your availability and your desires are known, but also make sure what you offer is as well.
Watch your spelling and grammar.

You should be fine.

DV




DominaSusan -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 6:19:11 PM)

I’m with TammyJo on this one. I would not even consider an on-line sub. Real life meet and greet, munches etc are the ways to actually meet folks. BTW, I would take it a bit slow on the 24/7, it’s quite a BIG step from nothing to full blown service and submission. This is particularly true if you hardly know the person to begin with.   lucky for you, time is on your side.



joyinslavery -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 7:24:26 PM)

Offer cash dude.

Just a thought. 

Have fun.   




LadyPact -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/30/2008 9:56:58 PM)

Or pick up the phone when called.  One or the other.



seababy -> RE: What do I have to do to get a mistresses attention? (7/31/2008 4:19:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Step 1.  Use that computer of yours to look up a TNG group in your area.  (Due to your age, not all BDSM groups willl allow you to attend.)

Step 2.  Shut the computer off, and walk outside your door at the appointed date and time.

Step 3.  Meet real people at real events.




Do all of the above and to really stand out, wear a chicken outfit
I know Id notice someone who did that.

               -----------------------------------------------------
Ok so the Im trying to be serious advice;

Trying to put myself in a Domme mindset here so I could be way off on my advice.

If I was to read someone's profile and they had a shopping list of desires that did not match mine I would probably just pass them by as not suitable.
However if I had got to know that person and really liked them, found a good chemistry there and revisited that list it would change to some extend my feelings about what I would or would not choose to do. So my point is-

Go out and meet people, interact with the community online from a friendship base so some of your personality starts to show.
Allowing others to respond to you as the person you are instead of them identifying you as a walking lists of "do mes" increases the chance of meeting someone compatible.

Heres to making friends, finding fullfiling relationships and maybe getting some spankings in.
Good luck.








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