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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 7/31/2008 8:28:37 AM   
ObediantMan1


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Status: offline 		lol- believe me.  Indoor humiliatioin can get much worse than what you just described.  I have been there.   However, I must admit, public humiliation is the king of all evils!

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/1/2008 1:58:38 AM   
rc4otkVA


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Status: offline 		I like the sense of shame and dependence they are overcome by when doing something to please me, knowing they would never do it under other circumstances. They want and need to make me happy, and they are okay with being humiliated if it keeps them on my good side.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/1/2008 3:46:17 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		Some people like it.  I enjoy getting that 'release' valve opened.  That's why I tend to be rather theatrical about it.  But it's not something I do with out prior, expressed desire from my intended target.

Fun little things that I did to try to embarrass my boy Westie - Like taking him to the adult 'novelty' store and having him buy things.... Nothing.  He doesn't care in the slightest.  I think he got a charge out of the thought of letting people know that we were going to be using those items together. 


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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/1/2008 5:50:01 AM   
stripmymanhood


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Status: offline 		Yes...i'm a humiliation slut...for me...it's more about the aftereffects than the act at the time..at the time of it, i'm honestly horrified...but later....it's what i tend to remember most...more than even the hottest scenes i've been in...and when i'm alone...well, yes...this is what i think of.

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Some people like it.  I enjoy getting that 'release' valve opened.  That's why I tend to be rather theatrical about it.  But it's not something I do with out prior, expressed desire from my intended target.

Fun little things that I did to try to embarrass my boy Westie - Like taking him to the adult 'novelty' store and having him buy things.... Nothing.  He doesn't care in the slightest.  I think he got a charge out of the thought of letting people know that we were going to be using those items together. 


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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/1/2008 4:30:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Like taking him to the adult 'novelty' store and having him buy things.... Nothing.  He doesn't care in the slightest.  I think he got a charge out of the thought of letting people know that we were going to be using those items together. 



I think that can be very hot if done in the right way, such as in a kink friendly environment where you're not imposing your kinks on others.  Having a Mistress discuss with a salesperson the merits of one item vs. another, or how it could best be used with me can quickly cause me to turn 10 shades of red.  LOL! 
 
Things like that truly push my joy buttons; perhaps because I feel totally owned at those particular moments.  The rush they cause is unlike anything else I know; which I can't even quite begin to describe!
 
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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/1/2008 7:54:42 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		Pixel... I think I typed this somewhere... but I've slept since then.

My mentor Dom/me couple took me and my boy Westie to their favorite Adult Novelty store.  (We keep calling it 'The Rubber Dick' Store.)  We were all shopping and looking at things and discussing the uses for items.  Westie never flinched or blushed a single time.  When we got up to the counter, I told the lady that Westie wanted to try the Rimba.  He was holding the big silver attachment and my Dom friend was working the controls.  He turned it up so high that my boy's hand started to twitch uncontrollably.  The Dom asked, "Do you want more?" and my boy - bless his little heart - said "Only if Starlett does it."  Very good for a laugh.  He got high praises all the way around.

< Message edited by MsStarlett -- 8/1/2008 7:55:46 PM >

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 4:15:56 AM   
bplegend07


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Status: offline 		What's the most humiliating thing you've ever done to a slave? (this question is for any mistress)

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 6:28:25 AM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I have lovely humiliation fantasies going with one my on-line boys. He fantasizes about being on the Jerry Springer show with me.  *giggle*  I think that would be dreadfully fun!  It'll never happen, but it's a fun thing to think about.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 7:21:14 AM   
stripmymanhood


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Status: offline 		this reminds me of somethign that happened to me when i was working one time....it was an overnight shift...and we had the TV on...and Springer was on...so...i saw something like, well, you know your life has taken a really bad turn when the Springer show calls and asks you to be on it....she replies, well, I was on the Springer show....well...that was awkward  to say the least.

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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

I have lovely humiliation fantasies going with one my on-line boys. He fantasizes about being on the Jerry Springer show with me.  *giggle*  I think that would be dreadfully fun!  It'll never happen, but it's a fun thing to think about.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 11:57:04 AM   
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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

When we got up to the counter, I told the lady that Westie wanted to try the Rimba.  He was holding the big silver attachment and my Dom friend was working the controls.  He turned it up so high that my boy's hand started to twitch uncontrollably.  The Dom asked, "Do you want more?" and my boy - bless his little heart - said "Only if Starlett does it."  Very good for a laugh.  He got high praises all the way around.


LOL!  That's priceless Ms Starlett! 
 
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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 1:10:21 PM   
MsStarlett


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Status: offline 		I was talking to a young man on here who said his friend had been on the Springer show several times for being violent with his girlfriend.  He was the one who coined the term "Her face ain't pregnant." 

Our fantasy is to have my boy perform tasks to get his collar.  The one he really enjoyed was the thought of having them pull out the infamous wading pool filled with mud (we decided that chocolate pudding would work and be better in line with their Food Fights).  He wants to be thrown into the pool face down and let me walk over him like and absurd Sir Walter Ralegh.  Naturally, I would still get mud/pudding on my shoes... so I could yell at him for not doing it correctly and get in several slaps, kicks, possibly a groin shot before the security 'rescued' him.  This naturally will end with him licking my boots clean.  (This is were the mud would be WAY more fun!)  All of this while the audience boos, groans and cheers in turn.

Of course the part where he is 'forced' to drink my golden nectar could only be on the uncensored tapes!    That should really get some audience reaction! 

< Message edited by MsStarlett -- 8/2/2008 1:11:04 PM >

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 2:30:42 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MsStarlett

Like taking him to the adult 'novelty' store and having him buy things.... Nothing.  He doesn't care in the slightest.  I think he got a charge out of the thought of letting people know that we were going to be using those items together. 


This is pretty much the way it works for clip, too.  There's no humiliation in buying those fun little things that will be getting used on him.  In fact, he's usually chomping at the bit whenever one of these excursions come up because

a)  he's going shopping

b)  he knows something fantastic is going to be done to him with whatever is purchased

c)  he really doesn't care what other people think about the activities he enjoys


Sure, humiliation can be fun and all, but give Me a sub who's confident enough in himself and his own sexuality to put any kind of toy in front of that cashier to purchase, and beam in anticipation.




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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 6:43:43 PM   
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give Me a sub who's confident enough in himself and his own sexuality to put any kind of toy in front of that cashier to purchase, and beam in anticipation.

Humbly me rises a hand. ;)
And after i got used to it, i was doing it also when nobody was actually sending me to do it. It is always a thrilling experience. The more shock you notice on cashier's / seller's face, the better. :)

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 8:23:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: bplegend07

As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humiliating a sub/slave? I am interested in hearing every mistresses opinion on this.


The reaction in him: humorous, frightened, cheerful, aroused.

The humor. Humiliating an xy when you are in a silly mood, can be dangerously funny.

Making someone make YOU laugh is the greatest, lol.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/2/2008 10:01:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm going to paste here from my first post, because I don't think I can say it any better than I did back in February:

"I LIVE to punish, completely humiliate, objectify, and truly OWN my slaveboy. There is nothing that brings me more pleasure than his abject humiliation. The white-hot, exquisite beauty of it is extremely gratifying for me."

I'll take this opportunity to add:

1) he loves it as much as I do, so that's nice. I don't think we'd be a good match, otherwise.

2) I draw a distinction between humiliation and degradation. I never want to degrade My property. his humilation, objectification and his complete enslavement to Me are all designed to lift him up, never to put him down. They are for our mutual pleasure and self-realization.



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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/3/2008 1:39:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'm just not into humiliating My subs. I'm too much the nurturing caring type. I would stir My sub of course, heck I stir Master LOL ... but it's not what I would call humiliating. When I tease I do like that little squirmy reactions that I see, but I wouldn't carry it any further than that. And I don't see acts such as golden showers as humiliating, I see them as incredibly intimate and binding. I certainly wouldn't see shopping in an adult store as humiliating, no way, that's FUN and EXCITING! Ummm and you can ask Master how violet sees it  (remembering the last time when i was like a hyperactive child on heat in there LOL!)

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/3/2008 2:44:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: MistressDolly


quote:

ORIGINAL: bplegend07

As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humiliating a sub/slave? I am interested in hearing every mistresses opinion on this.


The reaction in him: humorous, frightened, cheerful, aroused.

The humor. Humiliating an xy when you are in a silly mood, can be dangerously funny.

Making someone make YOU laugh is the greatest, lol.


I love to make others laugh in the expense of my humiliation. It makes me happy.

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RE: As a mistress, what do you enjoy most about humilia... - 8/3/2008 7:50:13 PM   
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