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themischievous1 -> RE: bdsm (11/17/2005 2:30:02 AM)
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Welcome to the boards.
A propensity toward the umbrella acronym of "BDSM" is kind of an erotic drive, I think, primarily. What it is that we do consists of so many variable, inconsistent, differing activities and mindsets while doing them that it's difficult to find a way to lump it all together under just "BDSM" anymore.
Anyway, yeah. There is a lot of frustration, negative emotion, confusion, intensity, hope, and joy expressed in the various member journals on the CM site. Emotions run the gamut here from what I've noticed. I've often wondered why that is myself. Is it possible that those of us who are into what we're into are more passionate in general overall? Do we require more intensity within our "unions" as opposed to our nilla counterparts?
Personally, I like the thrill, the increased eroticism, the stigma, the different kind of intimacy present in actual power exchange, the kink, and most of all the challenge of authentic submission itself. That's why I'm here.
Financial domination doesn't interest me particularly but I think there's a little something here for everyone on this site. What I tend to see the most here (and perhaps its just due to my usually positive outlook) is hope, though some exhibit disillusioned dashed hope, unfortunately. Most are either after that elusive "one" or have already found him or her and are hoping to hang onto em. Some have lost "the one," and some aren't content with just one and are searching for their ones, twos, or threes! lol. Some just want to get a piece of the action. It's all good as far as I'm concerned and rarely do I find any of it boring.
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