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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/5/2008 9:04:07 PM   
laura2161


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Take a book with you - it could be a looooong, slow week....
 
Focus. 


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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/6/2008 1:50:55 AM   
stella41b


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Status: offline 		Okay, here's my suggestion for ways to stimulate creativity...

Take a pen and a piece of paper and write down for one minute everything you know about your assignment, your Master and your relationship with him - one full minute, non-stop. Then put your pen down.

Then look over your writing - looking for symbols or shapes in the letters and words. Then what you do is to try and relate your own persona to the shapes and symbols from your writing which you have identified. This should bring forth inspiration and unmediated sensory phenomena. From this you will find your own creativity.

You can also do this by intensifying your will by examining in reverse chronological order every single event from a point in time back to the time when you first awoke in the morning. This should train your mind to focus and allow for your creativity to flow through.


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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/6/2008 11:20:06 AM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		I'd start on my knees.
I'd start with please Sir accept this submissive as serving you is what I crave.
Then I'd explain why serving him is such a strong desire of mine.
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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/6/2008 12:35:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: notnewnotexp

Hi.  I was hoping to get some help from some other subs.  I've come upon a circumstance where I will be serving a new Dom for a short time. One of my pre-assignments is for me to come up with a hot and creative way for me to beg him to enslave me for the week (in person.)  I do know that his intention for the week is to have total mental control, but I am not sure how much sexual activity he is planning on.  I am not very creative and just can't think of anything that doesn't seem totally stupid.  Does anyone out there have some suggestions for something that would really wow him?

By the way..  This is someone I have known in real life for over a year, so it's not like I am meeting some stranger to enslave me without knowing he is safe.

BTW, if a Dom/Me should come across this and have a suggestion, it would be more than welcome.

Thank you in advance for your help!!



-sigh-

Why is it so hard for people around here to just answer a question as it is posed without having to pick it apart? I mean, if this were  a vanilla guy asking for a creative idea to propose to his girlfriend, people would be like ... Aw, he wants to make it really special! And he'd get a ton of ideas and suggestions.

But around here its like ...

Wait, you want to ask her to marry you and you can't come up with an idea on your own? Pfft, why should she even consider marrying such a lazy, unimaginative man? Oh and how long have you known her? Why do you want to get married to her and not someone else? Did you know that over 60% of marriages end in divorce? Can it really be considered a marriage if it isn't forever? With all those odds against you, maybe you should just dump her and date someone else.

Anyway ...

To the OP:

If it were me, I'd look up some poetry and use that as my theme. Song of Solomon has some pretty HOT visuals, for example and its even more kinky because you would have gotten it from the Bible.

Does he speak a second language? You might learn how to beg him to enslave you in that language. That'd be a hot surprise.

I think the hottest thing I ever read about was in a book called "The Passive Voice" ... The girl submitted to her boyfriend by having a tiny lock placed through her labia piercings and for his birthday she gave him the key without telling him what it was for. Obviously he disovered it later. Probably not feasible for a week long enslavement, unless you already happen to be pierced, though.


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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/6/2008 4:54:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		To me, begging is simply a matter of really, really, really wanting something very badly.  If you really, really, really want something, begging for it is easy and comes very naturally.  You don't have to even think about it.  You just do it.  Nothing is hotter than begging with sincerity.  To me, trying to put on a begging show, when you don't really mean it, just feels and looks phoney and sort of silly.
 
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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/7/2008 5:34:15 PM   
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ORIGINAL: notnewnotexp
Does anyone out there have some suggestions for something that would really wow him?


*looks around craftily to ensure that no other doms are listening*

OK, the coast is clear.  I'm going to let you in on a little dom secret.  Let's turn this question around.  Come up with a boring, unexciting way to beg a man to serve him sexually and any other way for an entire week. 

Really truly, if the guy likes you, then pretty much anything honest and sincere you say is going to work just fine.  I told mine to come up with something to say every time she gets home from work and asks to be collared.  After much worrying on her part, she came up with something short and sweet and genuinely, honestly sincere about why she wants the collar.  She needn't have worried.  It melts my heart every time I hear it.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/11/2008 7:15:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		Free asociation works for me. i just start writing. i write and write and write and write until i can't write any more. Then i set all of it aside for a day. Then i really go over it, crossing off the impractical (ocean sailing with a band of pirates) and circle the really good stuff. i add and subtract things, and eventually i've got a pretty good idea of what i truely want. Works everytime for me. Good luck with it, dear.
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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/12/2008 5:42:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I really like your second language idea.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/13/2008 3:12:31 PM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		What have you negotiated? Have you both had std scans or do you need to use condoms and dental dams? Make sure you're on the same page here.

Is he thinking about lending you out to all his friends but you don't do that? Better sit down and set up ground rules.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/13/2008 5:35:46 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		Well rats, i was gonna toss in some chicken, pasta and lima beans into the mix..

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PS to the OP -- sometimes the more stupid sounding it is to you, the better it sounds to him.. good luck

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Greetings not,

But honey, this ain't no submissive soup kitchen.

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good luck,
sunshine


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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/14/2008 1:03:14 PM   
lizcgirl


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Status: offline 		Every one is different, what works for one doesn't necessarily work for another. My Master loves for me to beg, it all depends on the situation what that includes. The way I 'wow' Him is to pay attention to His fantasies. He told once about one of His fantasies, which was a pretty simple one. He wanted to come home and find hhis girl naked and in submission waiting by the door with dinner on the table fresh out of the oven. A few weeks later He came over and I did just that with a few variations. I had candles lit every where, I had found out what His favorite food was which I had ready, and not only was I in submission but I also told Him I was there to serve Him and went on to tell Him in detail how and why I wanted to serve Him that night. He didn't mind that because He was 3 hours later the food had been reheated, it was the fact that I paid attention and did my very best to please Him. So maybe you should look at the things you know He likes, fantasies about, and incorporate them into your speech. There's one position of submission that my Master likes the best, so that's what I used, certain phrases that turn Him on that I put in my speech, and so on. It worked out really well for me, it was an amazing night and He raved about it for months.

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RE: Can my sub sisters please help? - 8/14/2008 6:18:28 PM   
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ORIGINAL: opposingtwilight

Why is it so hard for people around here to just answer a question as it is posed without having to pick it apart? I mean, if this were  a vanilla guy asking for a creative idea to propose to his girlfriend, people would be like ... Aw, he wants to make it really special! And he'd get a ton of ideas and suggestions.



Hi opposing twilight,
I just want to tell you that I disagree with you.  I've been in this same situation where a man asked me that very question - a couple of men in fact.  And with them I did the exact same thing I did with the OP.  That is, I suggested ways for HIM to find his own answer.  When they get married, I don't want his great idea to have come from me, I want it to be THEIRS... as it should be in my opinion. 

And you know what?  One guy did what I suggested.  He put on "their" music, he held the ring in his hand, and he thought about all the dreams she had talked to him about.  And then he came up with an amazing way to propose.  He was incredibly proud of that... He did run it by me... what do you think about this?  And I told him what I thought.  And he tweaked things a bit based on a couple of bits of reality but it was HIS idea.  And they are amazingly happy.  You should see her face light up when she says "I couldn't believe he made my dream come true.  He was the only person in the world I told about that."


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