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ownedgirlie -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 2:27:53 PM)

Yes, but I had to work up to that.  The first time he put me in a similar situation (with an added element that was rather awful for me), I freaked out about it.  But that was about 3 years ago.  And yet, it changed things for me, in a good way.



Leatherist -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 2:34:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Yes, but I had to work up to that.  The first time he put me in a similar situation (with an added element that was rather awful for me), I freaked out about it.  But that was about 3 years ago.  And yet, it changed things for me, in a good way.


It's interesting to see the struggle girls can go through when you place them in something as simple as physical restriction-that is not just intended for fucking or sm  play.

And leave them alone to deal with it-and themselves.

What caused the "freaking out?"



Prinsexx -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 2:42:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsJssk

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx


Bliss: no teens, no neighbour's cat to feed, no ironing, no dog walking, no lecturing, no writing, no clients, no cooking, bread-making, no decision-making.
A nice lay down and an inner journey: Guides to keep me company and probably a few psychic connections. Even better some sensory deprivation to get the firworks and the cinema going inside my head.
When and where and i will ask permission..........
PS is there a bucket or will you provide a nappie?



OH, and this one taunts us. I think she will need more than a few hours.

MsJ

For bliss the longer the better....those who imprison my body only free my heart.



ownedgirlie -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 2:43:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

Yes, but I had to work up to that.  The first time he put me in a similar situation (with an added element that was rather awful for me), I freaked out about it.  But that was about 3 years ago.  And yet, it changed things for me, in a good way.


It's interesting to see the struggle girls can go through when you place them in something as simple as physical restriction-that is not just intended for fucking or sm  play.

And leave them alone to deal with it-and themselves.

What caused the "freaking out?"


My freaking out was not due to being confined.  I'll share it in an email so as not to derail this thread.



OnlyHisLovebug -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 2:45:12 PM)

Hi Leatherist...I have a question or three, if I may? 

Doesn't the struggle really depend on the relationship- and the girl?  If trust and vulneribility is what it's all about- then, does it not stand to reason that the struggle would be reduced, at least if she really knows the person she allowed to lock her up?  For me, the reason it works, is because I have willingly put myself under His control.  While it may not only be intended for "fucking or sm  play", being left alone to contemplate myself, and my place in the relationship, is anything but cause for struggle... 



Lockit -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 2:58:35 PM)

I have a different times in life been alone. I mean alone.  No online... but had a computer, no phone, no other person except maybe once a month.  Part of it was study and no part of it included the result of criminal activity! lol  I went through every emotion one could in it all, but I also learned a lot about myself and strengths.  I often watch Castaway for a reminder of that isolation.

After the escape of all things, life in general... after the nap... after the wondering... is that where you are going Leatherist?  What happens to the mind and emotions, when totally isolated?



Leatherist -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 3:24:51 PM)

When you have that connection, all that remains to struggle with is your own inhibition.



Leatherist -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 3:26:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

I have a different times in life been alone. I mean alone.  No online... but had a computer, no phone, no other person except maybe once a month.  Part of it was study and no part of it included the result of criminal activity! lol  I went through every emotion one could in it all, but I also learned a lot about myself and strengths.  I often watch Castaway for a reminder of that isolation.

After the escape of all things, life in general... after the nap... after the wondering... is that where you are going Leatherist?  What happens to the mind and emotions, when totally isolated?


When you are alone, you look at where you were when you were not.
 
And the scales fall from your eyes.



Prinsessan -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 3:35:27 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

So we take a sub,and we strip her naked. Put her in a room with nothing else in it- and locking padded bondage mittens-really inescapable ones, with hard leather gauntlets cuffs that go almost to the elbows. The door knob has a childproof plastic cap on it.

How do you imagine a few hours of that would play out?


Honestly? If it was me I would freak out... After about 20 minutes I would be starting to feel scared and pretty soon after that I would completly panic.

I have been in a situation like that, I was tied down and left alone for a couple of hours. Just faintly hearing someone in the hall. It was the worst play I have ever been in.

People have different limits and this is mine... I can´t be left alone and helpless.



Leatherist -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 3:41:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Prinsessan

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

So we take a sub,and we strip her naked. Put her in a room with nothing else in it- and locking padded bondage mittens-really inescapable ones, with hard leather gauntlets cuffs that go almost to the elbows. The door knob has a childproof plastic cap on it.

How do you imagine a few hours of that would play out?


Honestly? If it was me I would freak out... After about 20 minutes I would be starting to feel scared and pretty soon after that I would completly panic.

I have been in a situation like that, I was tied down and left alone for a couple of hours. Just faintly hearing someone in the hall. It was the worst play I have ever been in.

People have different limits and this is mine... I can´t be left alone and helpless.



Understood, I could not have dealt with it either.



petdave -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 3:47:33 PM)

i'm going to go ahead and assume that hypothetical sub enjoys bondage (seems like a shame to waste the scene on someone who doesn't), and say that step 1 is masturbate, step 2 is take a nap.

While i've never seen a childproof doorknob cap, unless the door was actually locked, i'd wager i could open it in well under five minutes. Need to at least lock the mittens to a collar, and tie the ankles together (preferably with slippery, buckled-on high heels) if you want to make it a challenge...



Leatherist -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 4:14:38 PM)

I logging chain wrapped around the neck, the other to a welded ring bolt in concrete works too. Fastened with ace style padlocks.



Prinsexx -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 6:05:53 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

I logging chain wrapped around the neck, the other to a welded ring bolt in concrete works too. Fastened with ace style padlocks.

You really need to get out more love honest........unto the sunlight or the rain or a forest....log cabin.....waterfall...........anywhere without metal.



Leatherist -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 6:18:52 PM)

I live out in the sticks, with freaking trees and annoying animals everywhere. Miles and miles and miles from fun, supplies, and sales. I need to get back to the CITY. I am so not the redneck woodsman.



Surrenderwithin -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 6:21:59 PM)

My submissive self would be thrilled to be forced to take a time out and I would consider it a well deserved and needed nap!
Maggi



missturbation -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 6:34:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

So we take a sub,and we strip her naked. Put her in a room with nothing else in it- and locking padded bondage mittens-really inescapable ones, with hard leather gauntlets cuffs that go almost to the elbows. The door knob has a childproof plastic cap on it.

How do you imagine a few hours of that would play out?



I'd be bored and zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzing [:D]



Twicehappy2x -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 6:51:55 PM)

 
Lmao....this is easy; i am very shortly bored, lay down on padded floor and take a nap!



lally3 -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 6:58:35 PM)

i think that after a while i would be really really craving for you to come and get me... the whole separation thing, being cold, helpless and alone (though normally i have no problem with my own company atall) under such circs, hearing you moving about beyond somewhere would make me need your warmth more than ever.

i think id probably become seriously needy - which is odd for me, cos im not like that atall, needy that is.

hmm, interesting when you put your head in that space.



Aylee -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 7:07:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Leatherist

So we take a sub,and we strip her naked. Put her in a room with nothing else in it- and locking padded bondage mittens-really inescapable ones, with hard leather gauntlets cuffs that go almost to the elbows. The door knob has a childproof plastic cap on it.

How do you imagine a few hours of that would play out?


Stand in front of the door.
Drop to knees.
Roll to side.
Roll to back.
Scootch butt up against door.
Raise legs.
Use feet to press against the sides of the knob.
Twist with feet.
Push door the rest of the way open.
Bring legs down.
Curl in fetal possition.
Use arms as leverage.
Push yourself to knees.
Stand.
Walk out of room.



raveonette -> RE: Trapped. (8/1/2008 7:22:18 PM)

I would probably serenade my "captor" with Journey's greatest hits sung at the top of my lungs. As terrible a singer I am, I'm sure he'd enjoy my spirit!

If my vocal cords were intact after that, I'd probably nap.



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