ElanSubdued -> RE: anal virgins (8/1/2008 10:48:22 PM)
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stan39, quote:
to the Dommes if you know a sub if a bit interested,and know is a anal virgin, If know you dont want him do you try and take his virginity Translating... I think what you're asking is: to the Dommes, if you know a sub is a bit interested and know the sub is an anal virgin, if you want him, do you try to take his virginity? Here's my answer (albeit, I'm not a Domina). I think most Dominas, within reason, take what they want regardless of whether the submissive is interested or not. Note, the key aspect in consensual BDSM relationships is the phrase "within reason". If the submissive indicates anal sex is a hard limit, any Domina I know wouldn't cross this limit and I dare say any responsible Domina wouldn't cross this limit. Keep in mind that loving partners usually do things for each other so given that there are no limits involved, a lot depends on how much enjoyment each person derives from anal sex. Some Dominas might do this just to please their partner, regardless of their own interest in anal play. Other Dominas, if not interested, might not touch it. The ideal situation, of course, is if both people find this a turn-on and enjoyable, in which case the answer to your question is probably "yes". :-) Elan.
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