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sexyslaveboy27 -> are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 5:50:11 PM)

many mistresses that i ve messaged here always mentioned about the money first they didnt ask any single question about me or didnt bring up anything about themselves except the money!i m quite new in here and i m not quite sure who to trust!
thanks[8|]




Cloudz -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 6:04:44 PM)

Money? You can make money? lol. You said you are new..sounds like you are paying attention <grin>. If someone strikes you as wrong for you or starts off with something that raises a red flag. Pay attention.Trust your instincts, keep asking questions. You are on the right track.

Good luck!




michaelMI -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 6:29:49 PM)

where else can you tie someone down, beat the crap out of them and make money...besides the MOB...LOL




mnottertail -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 7:16:46 PM)

I have read your profile........

It is a hard, cold cruel world out there, pal. This is not uncommon that the 'country hick' comes to the 'big city' and is immediately fleeced by the hucksters and ne'er-do-wells.

There are alotta people on ALL sides of the fence that face this.
There are wonderful Masters on this site. I have corresponded with some of them off and on........

Pro Dommes do exist and have clientele, there is a demand for it. Nothing wrong with it, if that's what you desire, make a good deal.

So, you must review yourself.
Do you want to be a do-me guy?
Do you want to get off on your perverted little kink?
Do you offer such absolute subservience that you are unmatched in all the world?
All acceptable.

Or do you want to develop a relationship, find a meeting of ideals and ideas, and connect with a human that fulfills you, AS YOU DO HER?

That takes work. Otherwise; someone would be happily sitting on your face as I write this.

BDSM is NOT a fucking lifestyle. (send the hate mail to my inbox, don't bother sending it here......)

BDSM is a part of an overall relationship, a happy part, but not a foundation........

Foundations you stand on, you anchor in........
That takes a MIGHTY building.
Everything else is sand. Nothing else is mortar. Build the strong foundation.



Hope I was not too obtuse.

Ron
(LOL (cause I am an evil son-of-a-bitch) .... Have at him Ladies........




onceburned -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 7:23:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyslaveboy27
many mistresses that i ve messaged here always mentioned about the money first they didnt ask any single question about me or didnt bring up anything about themselves except the money!


Yes, and some women will charge just for reading message threads that you start. So watch out who you contact! [;)]




thetammyjo -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 7:44:59 PM)

You might want to evaluate how you are chosing the women you contact.

Is there a pattern to what attracts you?

If its a fancy photo then maybe you should try the less fancy group.
If its a certain type of language maybe try someone who uses a different type of language.

Pro dominants probably write profiles that use specific language and images to get clients. If you are attracted to those types of images and language, you may find yourself writing again and again to those people who are certainly going to ask about money first and foremost.




LadyAngelika -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 9:06:29 PM)

quote:

i m quite new in here and i m not quite sure who to trust!


Your instincts.

- LA




orfunboi -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/17/2005 10:23:44 PM)

None of the Mistresses that have written me, have mentioned cash. Of course none of them have been in the same state either, but hey, at least i get mail. i did have a male write and mention cash, but he also didn't make sense so i pretty much ignored that one.

i can't tell ya who to trust except for 3 off the top of my head, but i wouldn't go paypalling cash to anyone on here unless you know exactly who your dealing with and what you will get in return.

good luck in your search and don't be afraid to ask questions.

calli




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 12:39:40 AM)

Yes, are you giving away some? M




MsSonnetMarwood -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 5:34:44 AM)

I have a theory that it's just one person who posts about the Dommes/cash issue....he just creates a new screen name every week so it can "look" like someone new.

[:D]




UtopianRanger -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 5:57:30 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

I have a theory that it's just one person who posts about the Dommes/cash issue....he just creates a new screen name every week so it can "look" like someone new.

[:D]



I think your theory is on the money. Someone really has a problem when they just don't seem to have the ability to disassociate the ladies here from having been taken for a ride during a previous entanglement.


- The Ranger




MistressLeona2u -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 6:03:02 AM)

I'm just looking for a Paul Walker lookalike (from the fast and the furious :)
anyone see that person let me know . *big grin*




Oumae -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 6:38:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: UtopianRanger

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsSonnetMarwood

I have a theory that it's just one person who posts about the Dommes/cash issue....he just creates a new screen name every week so it can "look" like someone new.

[:D]



I think your theory is on the money. Someone really has a problem when they just don't seem to have the ability to disassociate the ladies here from having been taken for a ride during a previous entanglement.


- The Ranger


I'm with you two on this!

At least if someone mails and mentions money up front they are being honest and all you have to do is click on the delete button if it is not your thing.
There are plenty of places to go in London where you can meet people not out for money.

Oumae




LadyHibiscus -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 9:10:35 AM)

But hey, as I have said elsewhere, gifts are freely accepted! And what better gift is there than cash?

<sorry, just having a frivolous moment!>

:)Francine




tasha_tart -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 12:51:34 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sexyslaveboy27

many mistresses that i ve messaged here always mentioned about the money first they didnt ask any single question about me or didnt bring up anything about themselves except the money!i m quite new in here and i m not quite sure who to trust!
thanks[8|]



Hey, at least it was brought up right away...then you can decide whether you're interested or not. It isn't a matter of trust...they were honest right from the start.

It seems to me that Dommes looking for "financial slaves" generally make that clear, or at least hint strongly at it, in their profiles. If it isn't your thing, don't write them.

Tasha




subaltern1 -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 2:12:11 PM)


The Master's credit card number is...




youbelongtome -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 2:47:10 PM)

Since when could you make money....damn I knew I was missing somthing. For some ladies it is about the cash and for others. (like myself) The pleasure. You just have to chat with them first before jumping into something. Always feel comfortable...if you're nervous or something doesn't seem right, then axe out.
It's kind of like shopping....you have to look around before you buy.
[:D]That's my advice.




BlueAngelSub -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 3:51:25 PM)

a little tongue and cheek..lol I am a switch if there's pay in this does this mean I give a discount or get one?LMAO any who.. There are many great pro domina out there and so many more sleazy one. Just click and ignore the ones that hold no interest.

P.S. There's also no such thing as a free lunch you might want to ask what the payment is for.




MissDiandSirHugh -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/18/2005 4:35:58 PM)

One other thing to look out for if they take cards just watch out where they swip it if you are tied and naked.




Kasia -> RE: are some of the mistresses here just for cash? (11/19/2005 12:32:19 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

Yes, are you giving away some? M

Can I stand in line behind you M?




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