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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/4/2008 7:29:26 PM   
OriginalStuff


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Status: offline 		So glad to hear You have nothing better to do with  Your time then to answer emails.for fools who dont bother to even read the profile of the person they are writing to.....which way did he go george? hmmmmmmmm

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/5/2008 8:11:00 AM   
shivermetimbers


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Status: offline 		When I received unsolicited CMails from Dommes, my response back to them depended on what was written in the initial contact. Those who sent the "I need to marry someone soon, I can promise you the world if you would do this for me before the end of December" types never received a response back from me.  Those that sent genuine interest, I would at least give back a courtesy reply, even after reading their profile and knowing we were not ever going to be compatable.  I'm just me, so I hardly feel myself alone constitutes a representative sample.

You are looking for a female submissive, and from what I have garnered from the threads, they are inundated with offers.  Perhaps yours isn't standing out in any particular way.  Perhaps they are shy.  Perhaps they just get a jolt of high self esteem getting offers, when they have no intention of actually following through. Who really knows.  In the long run, probably better to just move on to the next submissive lady you are seeking, and not worry about those who won't give you the time of day, regardless of the time you put into reading their profile, and initiating contact.  Eventually, you will find many who are interested, or at least have the courtesy of responding back. 

Good luck to you, I'm sure if you are willing to keep investing the time, you will find what you seek.

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/5/2008 9:24:10 AM   
MasterHermes


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Status: offline 		Yes one can spend time and effort for writing a long, thoughtful and well mannered message and not even get a short response. They dont have to respond, and nobody can force them doing so. But there is a flip side of the coin. Then also people shouldnt get bothered when they recieve many one line or copy paste messages . How long do you really expect people to pay attention your profile or send you sincere messages if their efforts are never being recognized?

The one who wants to live in a good world should encourage it.  

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/5/2008 11:06:07 AM   
LadyJenasighd


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Status: offline 		Again thanks for all the replys, but I relize that alot of people are repeating eachother. Yes I know people use email filters, and I dont that the Dominant can be aggersive on meeting, but this has nothing to do with my question. The reason I posted this question was....when you get sent a link saying " This person matches you profile" I took the time to read it, consider what she/he wrote and replied. Its not like I was expecting a reply, like come on this is the internet for heaven sakes. But I thought the whole point of filling out the many questions and boi about yourself you would at least try and take the time to at LEAST look at you has sent you email, you never know who you could be deleting.
But I think this post is turning into something it isnt and when I was just looking for some POSTIVE answers Im getting told to " get over myself" or " why are you so worthy".
Thanks to those who gave postive feed back, and to others......meh not wasting my time now..................

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/5/2008 11:12:32 AM   
LadyJenasighd


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Status: offline 		PS.

To the smart asses who think I dont have better things to do with MY time then sit and read/reply to emails your pretty wrong. I just take it apon myself to MAKE time for the things I enjoy in life, and this happens to be a big part of my life.
I thought Id add that in for the very judgemental ones.

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/5/2008 11:19:39 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		just because they have a profile doesn't mean they're looking

perhaps in a roundabout way you should ask first before assuming someone's looking

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/10/2008 9:46:52 PM   
PrincessJ77


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Status: offline 		I received close to 300 unsolicited emails the first week.  After politely resonding to the first third that were couples, switches,  wanted a 3some, or were so far away, I found the filter helped.  many didn't want to take no for an answer and were downright rude.  I received two identical "cookie cutter" emails from different profiles.  Same identical long drawn out "I moved to LA from St Louis" and referred to a dog licking his girlfriend.  I sent the same response... ewww gross.  I actually had IMed with a very nice guy, and thought this could work, when he dropped the"I'm married, does that make a differece?" bomb.  Nah, just let her know I want a spouse and the 24/7 thing.  She won't mind me trotting around in pony gear, will she?

How about a Twue dom with a set of 113 rules he set forth in the email?  I was supposed to memorize them and pack up and go to Texas for consideration??  No, for some like that, the polite refusal translates to she's unworthy.

I just blocked what seemed like a pleasant man after he went off on me for refusing to tell him my son's name.  First he wants me to try hypnosis, then my child's name?  And he said I have hostility issues. 

Good luck, and use the party invite rule of thumb:  If you want 10 to attend, invite 30.

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RE: Am I wasting my time??? - 8/11/2008 5:58:34 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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From: Chicago, IL
Status: offline 		i had one "master" over the weekend looking to train me in mind control and see where "our" relationship would take us. after telling the man that i'm no mindless slave and wasn't looking (this is the short version of my reply back), he responded with "too long winded ...that's the first thing to go".  i guess he was looking for a mindless slave who doesn't talk/express herself - oh well, he rightly so joins my growing list of blocked "dominants".

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