Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way?

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AAkasha -> Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/4/2008 11:31:52 AM)
What do male subs think of the stereotypical "cocktease" - did you encounter these in your youth and find them sexy and alluring because of their attitude? Did you fall for the ladies that liked to make you want them, only to deny you, and almost laugh at you about it? Did this evolve into any cuckold fantasies for some? Akasha

littlesarbonn -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/4/2008 3:45:09 PM)
Yeah.

Politesub53 -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/4/2008 4:30:00 PM)
"Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way?" If it is meant to tantalise and entice, yes its sexy. If its a just a ruse to use you for other means, its deception. The act of teasing, done correctly appeals on many levels. To me, the fun is in the game, just as much as the happy ending. That said, there is a point were a turn on becomes a turn off. Like most good things it is possible to overdo it and turn the attraction into distain.

sillyslaveboy -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/4/2008 6:14:21 PM)
Umm... is cocktease when Female stimulates a male in what ever way to have him reach the edge of orgasm, and then retreat, denying him the orgasm? i wonder if mine was a 'stereotypical cocktease' but oh yes, i love that beautiful aches between legs, and all the silliness of my face as i watch the Mistress' Finger forbidding me to even think of bringing the orgasm to an end. If She start laughing too early, i could just fail Her in this, without touching anything myself. :) i've never fell for a Lady particularly because of this. But it was standard to assortment of things to-do. Cuckold fantasy: not working for me. i would never resist, but it does not turn me on.

slaveinstockings -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/21/2008 11:44:29 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha What do male subs think of the stereotypical "cocktease" - did you encounter these in your youth and find them sexy and alluring because of their attitude? Did you fall for the ladies that liked to make you want them, only to deny you, and almost laugh at you about it? Did this evolve into any cuckold fantasies for some? Akasha When I was 18 years old and in college for the first time I had a really close female friend that lived in my building. We started by being just friends, and as we got closer I became more and more attracted to her and she became a HUGE cocktease as we began flirting more and more in our day to day lives. As I started flirting with her more she became more sexually suggestive with me. Simple things like talking dirty in the elevator on the way back into our building, or grab my crotch as she went into her dorm room alone (sending my home for the night). We were really close friends so we saw each other every day and I believe that had I been more forward with her in the beginning it wouldn't have been teasing and it would have turned into sex. But when she realized I was too shy/nervous/whatever to ever make a serious move on her I think she just kept the cockteasing up because I think she enjoyed the power it had over me. After a year of this we both left the school and never really saw each other much after that. However, about a year later there were 2 or 3 occasions where we were both back on the old campus to visit mutual friends. On of all these occasions as soon as I saw her she began flirting and cockteasing me even heavier than she had when we were in school together, and I thought, that after the seperation and now being back with her I'd have an actual chance in bed with her. I remember the first time back seeing her she took it to a whole new level. We'd spend all the time hanging out with groups of friends but nomatter where we went she'd always be leading me around by the hand. She'd stop away from the group with me and do things like grab my crotch and whisper very diry things in my ear. I thought I was a lock to get laid. The first night together we shared a sleeping bag at a friends apartment which started with some pretty good foreplay. Letting me at her boobs while she played with my cock, but she kept drawing it out longer and longer and every time I tried to get on top of her or get into a better position to move things forward she'd always push it away while still keeping the teasing and foreplay going. The first night ended with her going down on me until I was just about to cum when she abruptly stopped, rolled over, and told me she was going to sleep. The next day her nickname for me was "blueballs" and she thought it was the greatest thing in the world. Every night we were visiting went the same way. The days would be full of her teasing the hell out of me, then the nights would be spent sleeping next to each other with her getting me so close to an orgasm and then just stopping completely. It drove me absolutely insane but it was one of the hottest experience I've had prior to meeting my current girlfriend who I am absolutely in love with. BTW, AAkasha. You don't know me and I don't know you but your website was one of the first sites of this theme that I ever visited way back when I first got the internet over ten years ago. When I saw your username here I immediately remembered your site, then clicked your profile and realized it was actually you. Great work over the years.

tulitukka -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 11:12:17 AM)
It used to bring out submissive fantasies in me (though not cuckolding). Nowadays, such girls bring out the dominant side in me. I guess it's all in the interpretation. I used to interpret those through my own lense of need, whereas nowadays I am much more likely to see them as people in need of...me. :)

Misstoyou -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 11:18:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tulitukka It used to bring out submissive fantasies in me (though not cuckolding). Nowadays, such girls bring out the dominant side in me. I guess it's all in the interpretation. I used to interpret those through my own lense of need, whereas nowadays I am much more likely to see them as people in need of...me. :) That was interesting!

pinnipedster -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 1:03:36 PM)
I'm not sure I've ever encountered a stereotypical "cocktease." In general I've heard it used as a pejorative by men to mean something like "hot woman who won't sleep with me." What I think it's supposed to mean is a woman who gets off on causing men to get excited, and then frustrating them. Yes, this can be sexy in a femdom way, if it's done in a deliberate, individualized fashion. I love the "teasing and denial" dynamic. A woman who went out of her way to get me excited frequently but only allowed me to actually cum rarely could probably get me to do just about anything. :) On the other hand, if she played the game of letting me believe she was interested in me sexually and that fulfillment was just around the corner in order to get me to spend money on her or do her favors, with no real intention of ever following through -- that I would consider unethical behavior, and I think the term "cocktease" in the negative sense would apply. (She's also be in for a major disappointment, given the state of my bank account...) It may seem tricky to define the difference, but I guess for me there's a consensual aspect to it. In the first example, the woman doing the teasing-and-denial is actually fulfilling one of my fantasies, so even if I never actually orgasm, there is gratification of a sort. In the second, she's just using me. It's sorf of like the difference between consensual S&M and spousal abuse: either can involve beating a partner, but there's a world of difference between them. Does that make sense?

pinnipedster -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 1:13:32 PM)
Oh, as for the "cuckold" thing -- that's not precisely a fantasy of mine as such, but I have some forms of it. Being kept as a maid, in chastity, by a dominant couple (preferably lesbian, possibly straight) is definitely a favorite image. In that scenario, though, I'm not so much deliberately teased -- it's just made clear that my sexual needs are irrelevant. (Whether I am used or not to fulfill any of their own sexual needs.) The particular scenario I love to imagine is one where I am kept in a chastity device that keeps me "tucked" and only 'released' when bound and blindfolded, so that I never get to touch or even see my own genitals; this is done regularly for hygeine and I am occasionally 'milked' for health purposes, but orgasms would be just frequent enough to keep my hopes up....

mimkyodar -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 4:43:48 PM)
No. Cocktease = bad. The whole point of getting aroused is, from a biological level, to climax. Or maybe i'm one of the odd ones out here who thinks that pain is a bad thing. (shakes head)

mimkyodar -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 4:44:52 PM)
Although, granted, it is sexy while They're doing it.

TermsConditions -> RE: Is a 'cocktease' sexy in a femdom way? (8/22/2008 6:33:46 PM)
I could tell you a story but you'd call me a pervert (again) and the thread would get pulled. Short answers: "Yes I did" and "I'm here aren't I?" quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha What do male subs think of the stereotypical "cocktease" - did you encounter these in your youth and find them sexy and alluring because of their attitude? Did you fall for the ladies that liked to make you want them, only to deny you, and almost laugh at you about it? Did this evolve into any cuckold fantasies for some? Akasha

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