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sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 5:16:00 AM)

besides the nurturing, tlc and guidance i received from Daddy, there's little notes/cards and tiny gifts just because. however the one thing i enjoy the most is when He shares His favorite music. His eclectic taste from jazz to funk/soul and samba has broaden my music horizons even more. once a month, we have our Daddydaughter dinner dance. we find a restuarant here around town which has live dinner music to dance to. 



breatheasone -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 8:46:12 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MaamJay

From discussions with others into D/d relationships, here are a few ideas (with a disclaimer about NOT making things too obvious in public!):
* fun time in the park (at a time when UMs aren't there) - take your little girl to play, catch her at the bottom of the fun slide, push her on the swings etc
* break some "rules" - go for a walk in the rain and let her jump and splash in all the puddles etc (in the middle of the night if you're concerned about others seeing you!)
* hold her hand when out and about, as you would a little girl, maybe swing arms a little as adults tend to do with children
* fun shopping - go and buy some younger-type clothes, have her try them on in the shop and model them for you etc (good in chain stores where you are less likely to have an over-attentive shop assistant)
* teach her a new skill, something you are good at, something a Dad might teach his daughter (how to change a fuse, hammer a nail etc etc)
* if relative size permits, have her sit on your lap for cuddles etc
* tuck her in at bedtime, could even read her a story, sing a lullaby etc (depending what age you want to play ... and your skills!)
* again, depending on age, could have her talk to you in age-related language eg if a little girl she could ask "to go toily" or wheedle you for something with "awww, Daddy, pweease" (or whatever floats your boat!) ... if a teenager she could use the latest teen slang (whatever that is, it used to be "cool" LOL). Similarly, could adopt age-related gestures to use at home. Little children tend to be very overt eg a little kid is likely to jump up and down and yell "yippee!" when happy, a teenager will try to look blank and say "yeah. cool" - incorporate what suits you both

And for those who are OK with punishment scenes (especially for those who like to role play pretend punishments) there's always the wrongdoing and "bend over, Daddy's got to spank you for that" thing that many love.

Hope these help the OP!
Maam Jay

OMG Maam Jay! This is an awesome post..... i actually found myself SMILING as i read it. i would love stuff  like this. (btw, its nice to "see" you Maam, i hope you have been well)



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 10:50:34 AM)

Just because it's common, doesn't mean all people have to list it in their profile if they're curious about it, or if it's something they're not interested in doing with all people, just their sub.

For instance, assplay and anal sex, lets say, are something I want to do with my partner  I have now and only him, I wouldn't put ass play or anal sex in my profile of likes, because it's not something I want to do with any old person I come across. I am very picky about who I'd do it with, and we can discuss that privatly when I find someone I want fucking my ass or playing with it.

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ORIGINAL: SinCat

You know it brings up an interesting thing. There isn't anything for interest in age play (key word being play) in the bdsm subjects for your profile. I was rather surprised at this considering it is a fairly common aspect of this sub-culture/lifestyle.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 10:59:04 AM)

We don't role play, this is emotionally real to me and isn't a game, it's a part of who I am. However on halloween a few days before, DAddy and I went to pick out a pumpkin and I carved it while he watched to make sure I wasn't doing anything dangerous,  and did not get hurt,  he didn't want to but I insisted and he caves when I insist hehe. then for easter I wanted us to do an egg hunt but didn't get to do that.


And one tiome we went to a free pumpkin farm and wandered about and I saw the anidimals, as I call them, and he payed for me to go through the lil haunted house they had there, and when my quarter dropped and rolled under a lege and I couldnt get it and I was sad he gave me another quarter.

And again like every one else said it depends on the age your sub wants to be.



SimplyMichael -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 11:43:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: NINjohn

Can anyone give me some suggestions, recommendations, links...etc, for a beginner in D/D roleplay? My sub really has an interest in it, and i would like to know more about it.
Anyone care to chime in? Thanks All....NINJohn


The most important thing to find out is what she is looking to get out of it.  For SOME it is about finding the safe place to be a little girl they didn't have when they were young.  For SOME that means that that "little" space is very non sexual.

For others, that isn't quite the case.

It is like saying "little girls like strawberry shortcake" and while that is true for some, it isn't universal.  Figure out WHO that little girl is, find YOUR voice/place/drive in relationship to that, and work out how to bring those two together in a way that nourishes both.




Goddess2002 -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 2:49:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

quote:

ORIGINAL: NINjohn

Can anyone give me some suggestions, recommendations, links...etc, for a beginner in D/D roleplay? My sub really has an interest in it, and i would like to know more about it.
Anyone care to chime in? Thanks All....NINJohn


The most important thing to find out is what she is looking to get out of it.  For SOME it is about finding the safe place to be a little girl they didn't have when they were young.  For SOME that means that that "little" space is very non sexual.

For others, that isn't quite the case.

It is like saying "little girls like strawberry shortcake" and while that is true for some, it isn't universal.  Figure out WHO that little girl is, find YOUR voice/place/drive in relationship to that, and work out how to bring those two together in a way that nourishes both.




That's an interesting point...



softness -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 3:38:25 PM)

Daddy/girl is something I have only ever really explored in the last few months. It was never something that had appealed, or even occured to me until I met Sir. I had a "little" head-space but I never considered it anything more than the need sometimes to be a little silly. It certainly never connected that this could be something explored with a partner. We have never shared a "scene" in that head-space but we do spend that time together ... for example walking home from town he bought his girl and ice-cream ... sometimes when I can't sleep or I have had a hard week he puts his girl to bed and tucks her in. In little space I like to colour, and am getting a growing collection of Disney Princess bits and pieces (most treasured is a snuggly blanket which I drench in his man-fume before I go home for the week) .. that little space is fairly young .. she feels about 5 or 6. My inner teen is there .. and she is a whole different nightmare ... but not yet explored. My little girl isn't sexual, my teen is .. perhaps that is something that will be developed one day.

That space ... the Daddy and his girl space ....is something so utterly special, so precious to me that it doesn't need to be much more than that. I have never *ever* experienced moments like that with another person. The feelings of love and care and above all complete safety and protection are incredible.  I want to cherish every moment of its development ... feel how it grows ... and take it very very slowly. I know I must earn the right to call him Daddy .. just I have earned the right to call him Sir. It is an honour I dream of earning ... and something I will hold tightly too for as long as it is mine.

One thing I would stress however ... if she enters a child's headspace then she should be safeguarded/protected/treated like the child she is. I know people who have become very traumatised by things that in an adult head they could have handled but couldn't cope with in their little space.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 7:21:17 PM)

Again that depends on what the adult little girl wants,  most would want to be protected but not all.


quote:

ORIGINAL: softness


One thing I would stress however ... if she enters a child's headspace then she should be safeguarded/protected/treated like the child she is. I know people who have become very traumatised by things that in an adult head they could have handled but couldn't cope with in their little space.



GoddessTeaze -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/24/2009 11:53:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SirBuff

I am guessing by the title that your interested in Daddy/daughter scenes. These can be rather erotic if done with "The Voice".

One way of getting ideas is to read incest stories.

your Friend
Buff



I thought Daddy daughterplay or Mommy son
play didn't have ANYTHING to do with incest.

Incest is SICK, and not consentual.
That's for sick minds, and the fact you
hand out links like it's just fun...

Gawd, I speak for Me, and maybe for allot of
other people who have been through incest,
that this is discusting, the way it's put.

As if it's fun.

GoddezzT`





kuriouswitch -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 1:12:42 AM)

Master and I do Daddy/Daughter during special times. With us it's nonsexual, I get to be sillier, not so formal. Also Master, when he is Daddy is much more patient, more forgiving and he takes the time to explain things i'm confused about. Master takes me here when it's been a hard week and I need "tender care" or if we're working on taking down another wall, he'll bring me here for several reasons, 1) i'm less guarded as a child and so it's easier for him to get in there and ferret out the next issue we need to work on 2) as a child Daddy is magical and so in his arms, on his lap I'm safe from the monsters and can let him in deeper and 3) as a child I trust Daddy implicily, he's never lied, he can do anything and all I have to do is tell him what he needs to know to make things better. Master also takes this time to teach me things, how to process emotions, how to deal with fear or being  hurt ect.
We play too, I get to tell jokes or he'll bring the tickle monster out. I get tucked in no matter what, it's just a routine but when roleplaying, i get a bedtime story if i've been extra good that week or so and did all my chores without having to be reminded and got them all done on time. Also Master will bathe me, normally I'm to be nude at all times (with exceptions of course) but little girls aren't supposed to be naked and sitting on their Daddy's laps so I have special "jammies" he'll help me put on if i'm little enough or that he'll tell me to go put on before getting to snuggle and spend special time wtih Daddy. I have coloring books and games I'm allowed to play if we're going to be doing age play and he needs to go do something he'll send me to go play for a bit quietly until Daddy is ready. He'll kiss my owies and make them better. and i'm allowed to sleep with the lights on with my teddy bear (i don't like the dark but it's worse as a little)



softness -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 6:33:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

Again that depends on what the adult little girl wants,  most would want to be protected but not all.


quote:

ORIGINAL: softness


One thing I would stress however ... if she enters a child's headspace then she should be safeguarded/protected/treated like the child she is. I know people who have become very traumatised by things that in an adult head they could have handled but couldn't cope with in their little space.



of course I agree ... if that has been discussed or explore previously. If it has not however surely it would be better to approach such things with caution?

... and as I know from personal experience, sometimes little spaces need to be protected from their own desires ... just like a regular UM

different strokes obviously for different folks ... I would always advise though to tread carefully.



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 9:07:57 AM)

If you don't like it stay away then, As the moderators said judging others kinks isn't allowed here. This is not the place to lable someone elses kinks sick or tell them what they're talking about is dusgusting. And the mods have stepped up and posted that publically several times.

And as an aside Daddy daughter play is about what ever any one doing it want it to be and yes some like it to mirror incest.
quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

quote:

ORIGINAL: SirBuff

I am guessing by the title that your interested in Daddy/daughter scenes. These can be rather erotic if done with "The Voice".

One way of getting ideas is to read incest stories.

your Friend
Buff



I thought Daddy daughterplay or Mommy son
play didn't have ANYTHING to do with incest.

Incest is SICK, and not consentual.
That's for sick minds, and the fact you
hand out links like it's just fun...

Gawd, I speak for Me, and maybe for allot of
other people who have been through incest,
that this is discusting, the way it's put.

As if it's fun.

GoddezzT`






sirsholly -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 9:17:50 AM)

quote:

I thought Daddy daughterplay or Mommy son
play didn't have ANYTHING to do with incest.

Incest is SICK, and not consentual.
That's for sick minds, and the fact you
hand out links like it's just fun...

Gawd, I speak for Me, and maybe for allot of
other people who have been through incest,
that this is discusting, the way it's put.

As if it's fun.

GoddezzT`


I have done daddy/little girl role play and loved it. And quite honestly, the thought of actual incest never crossed my mind...or his. 



sirsholly -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 9:21:35 AM)

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One way of getting ideas is to read incest stories. These will give you ideas for the role play scene. I recommend you read these to yourself and then share them with the submissive.

Whoa!!! If a Dom wanted Daddy/little girl role play and proceeded to read actual accounts of real life incest victims, i would walk...no...make that run, and not look back.





YourhandMyAss -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 9:24:23 AM)

Holly the stories he linked are fictitious, and made up for erotica sake. I agree though I'd run far far away from  real incest survivors stories, cause I don't want someone getting off on and re inacting real abuse with me, being abused myself and knowing people who were abused.

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

quote:

One way of getting ideas is to read incest stories. These will give you ideas for the role play scene. I recommend you read these to yourself and then share them with the submissive.

Whoa!!! If a Dom wanted Daddy/little girl role play and proceeded to read actual accounts of real life incest victims, i would walk...no...make that run, and not look back.






marie2 -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 9:28:21 AM)

Incest isn't necessarily "abuse".  Incest can be between two consenting adults.



GoddessTeaze -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 1:23:43 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss

If you don't like it stay away then, As the moderators said judging others kinks isn't allowed here. This is not the place to lable someone elses kinks sick or tell them what they're talking about is dusgusting. And the mods have stepped up and posted that publically several times.

And as an aside Daddy daughter play is about what ever any one doing it want it to be and yes some like it to mirror incest.
quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze
you really should learn to read what I say,
before you judge Me !!!

GoddezzT`



slaveluci -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 1:36:30 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: marie2

Incest isn't necessarily "abuse".  Incest can be between two consenting adults.

My thoughts exactly. It happens and, though illegal, may not necessarily be immoral. All depends on one's own standards. As long as there is consent, who's to determine it's sick and disgusting. The lawmakers apparently[8|].

I have had fantasies as far back as I can remember that involved me personally as a youngster and adults. Some would be considered "incest" fantasies and some would not. I NEVER wanted to have actual sex with actual blood relatives. When I would fantasize, it would be an imaginary/fictitious "family member." Is that sick and disgusting? To some. To me, it was always very erotic and hot. Still is. I still fantasize about me being young and being initiated to sex/used by adults - fictitious adults/family members. Do I thus approve of others actually being used and abused against their will. No fucking way. I made/make my own choices and have my own fantasies but they don't extend to others. Abusing anyone - young or adult - is never acceptable. Neither is determining what's "sick" between consenting adult parties. Just my 2 cents................luci



Zechriel -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 5:24:54 PM)

Good evening!
Role playing is great but sometimes it just feels good to "go backwards". Daddy loves to baby me. Even after we had a huge blowout and I spent 2 days in hell and another begging to stay, he babied me. Instead of a harsh physical punishment and a time of non-communication, he noticed that I was not well when I showed up to beg. I got 5 super hard spankings with a belt and a whole lot of a lecture. Then he put me to bed. Cause I was so tired I couldn't sleep well, he kept coming back to bed and holding me in his arms till I drifted off. Then later he made dinner for both of us so I would eat something. After dinner he wanted to run out a shower for me but I fell back asleep in his arms. So it is just a matter of what you feel deep inside. One can be strict without being mean, tender without being a wimp. What you want to plant is devotion-you want her/him devoted to you. As I am to my Daddy/Master. Good luck!
Love,
Zechriel [sm=couple.gif]



BLGirl -> RE: Daddy/Daughter Roleplay (4/25/2009 6:56:16 PM)

Daddy and I role play when it is the right time for both of us. He knows when I need to be babied and taken care of, as well as when I need a good paddling for being a Bad Little Girl, it is just instinctive for us. Having said that, as I have written on other threads such as this, for us it always has an erotic side by the time it is finished and I tend to use it to regress to a time when that was a normal part of my life. The Daddy side of sexuality does not come naturally for Daddy and it has taken time for him to get comfortable (he has had to stop before because it creeped him out), but as long as we communicate, everything is great.
Good luck with all the Daddy/daughter, experiences.
BLGirl



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