softness
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Joined: 8/1/2006 From: Leeds, UK Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: Racquelle quote:
ORIGINAL: softness No one has said they like to suck dick out of pure altruism... You're right. And that's pretty much my point. The OPs gripe seems to be against Mdoms who expect cock-sucking as an altruistic act. NONE of us suck cock as an altruistic act, though the "givingness" of it can be very much part of our pleasure as the giver. (And this is coming from an Fdom who doesn't suck cock until it's earned.) see what I got from the OP .. and many others .. was that she said there was no please alone in sucking a dick, and that a submissive would only want to suck dick if she was being pleasured in other ways. quote:
As a sub, I get numerous emails from Doms believing that somehow i will get some kind of pleasure alone from sucking their dicks. I just want to say that if a Dom believes that a sub lives to suck dick, and a Dom is not willing to pleasure a sub in a manner that she needs to be pleasured, she really has no desire to suck dick. She seems to refuse there is a possibility that a submissive can get the pleasure she needs from sucking dick alone. That may be true for her, it is not so for the majority of people who posted here. Sure many wouldn't be in a relationship where all we *ever* got to do was suck dick, but neither would many be happy in a relationship where it was tit for tat. I scratch your back because you scratched mine. That smacks of tally keeping, and is not something positive to be doing in a relationship.
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