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ashwolfe -> Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 7:31:46 AM)

I am quite befuddled by this. It seems like its only men who want transexual submissves for owner ship. But I know for a fact that not all transexual women who are pretty and passable want cock.. some are disgusted by cock due to the fact that they are getting theirs removed. So really, why would they want one in there face or inside them when they clearly do not want one on them. I do know there are some Straight transexual women who do like men and they are awesome and lovely people. But for those of us who do not like men, what are we to do? Are we not wanted by women? I am 19 years of age and it is hard for me to date girls due to the fact that even though I tell them that I am transexual up front, They end up not beleiving me and thinking I am joking and fully expecting a pussy  where.. my more than normal size clit is. and when we make out they grab down there and I have a I told you so kind of expression and I get dumped.

I do not know, I have a wonderful adopted family whom I love both very much, just not interested sexualy with men.



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 7:49:16 AM)

Any one have any thoughts on this?

Questions?

Experiences?



Mercnbeth -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 7:55:13 AM)

ash,
We are big fans of the 'LOGO' channel.  They have a lot of alternative lifestyle programing. Do you have access to that? Anyway...

The situation you describe was the subject of a documentary. They used a term we'd hadn't encountered before 'Gender Queer'. It was defined as a person who desired gender reassessment but was attracted to the gender they wanted to become. Here's a link to the show: http://www.logoonline.com/shows/dyn/gender_rebel/series.jhtml 

I think this falls outside the usual no-consensus discussion about self applied representative labels. It seems to be another distinction along the lines of Trans-Gendered and Trans-Sexual; they represent clearly. I think Gender-Queer is the same. I doubt it is a new phenomena; however it seems to be rarely discussed and addressed. Perhaps getting some more information and doing some research would help. If your are fortunate enough to be in a metropolitan are you may consider involving yourself with a local group.

When we watched the show, it was interesting to see how the dynamic changed between the partners before and after the surgical procedure. Like any real life situation - some worked out some didn't.

Good luck!




ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 7:58:13 AM)

Thanks for the repley ^^ it was Very literate and well thought out. I guess I am just sad because of the utter lack of female attention because I come accross as a straight girl * I have noooo clue why or how!* but I also used to watch Logo behind my parents back like a mad woman!



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 8:01:25 AM)

i hadnt heard of gender queer until several years ago when i got into the lesbian community.  it was used by alot of butch who call themselve tg butch.  they are male id'd that do not wish to transition.  they often only date other butch.

i had not seen it used with the mtf community.



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 8:03:23 AM)

Ive seen it with the gay-boys alot. Although transexual or transgenders that aspire to live fully as women *some call them shemales* tend to shy away from gender queer due to the fact that they wish to be women and not have social stigma.



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 8:10:47 AM)

So are there women out there who prefer transexual girls like me?



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 8:21:32 AM)

Also I am interested in thoughts of Sissies, Drag queens, or other non-op transgenders or genderqueers. Plus I would like to hear what men want to say about this as well.

Also any mistresses own a Female or TGirl slave?



samaraqzetax -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:08:06 AM)

I am also a TS who likes only other women. I seem to have the same problems as you do. However, I have found that when with the "right" group of individuals, I have had amazingly better luck with finding partners. However it is still not nearly as easy as it should be.



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:09:46 AM)

I wish it was easier because I beleive us TS girls get lonlier than others due to our unique situations and we also long for love that we may have been denied when coming out to loved ones.



samaraqzetax -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:11:34 AM)

I can SO relate to you there. But don't dispair, you will find what you are looking for, it may however help for you to "quit looking" and let them find you. Just make yourself known!



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:13:35 AM)

hihih what do you think this thread is for luv?
So girls like us can find someone!!



samaraqzetax -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:18:28 AM)

I havent had much luck on CM at all. So Im going to go to
Denver Bound in October. I am going with my BFF (a/k/a "part-time" Mistress) to try to find some others to play with. I personally am open to other TS women who pass, but only those who are passable. So maybe with any luck.....



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:21:44 AM)

I think I pass and am fairly pretty.. I havent been clocked in... a year or two



samaraqzetax -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:28:37 AM)

Same here. I've only ever been "clocked" twice in my life, least that I know about. And ya, your pretty hot! :)



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:38:41 AM)

Thanks !! <3 I bet you are tooo... If I could see you



faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:43:04 AM)

neither of you should be concerned about passing.  rather that you should be only concerned about being yourselves.  it will make you feel better.  as you can not stop what other's will think nor can you stop others from looking/staring as someone will always find something.

be yourselves.  if passing still lingers in your mind you will always question yourself and that causes stress and other issues.



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 9:48:45 AM)

That is very true.. thanks for that ^^



samaraqzetax -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 10:08:25 AM)

I agree to a point



ashwolfe -> RE: Transexual ownership. (8/6/2008 10:11:59 AM)

part of the problem is that transexual girls tend to be over emotional just like I am right now.



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