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kineticsub -> The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 1:18:51 PM)

Hello out there.

I'll just cut to the question here since I don't want to bore anybody with useless background information. Basically just want to know if anybody has used or had any experience with the strapless strap-on the 'feeldoe'. My Domme and I like it because it is strapless so we think it looks better, plus we believe it'd give her more physical pleasure than other alternatives(and it comes purple, and she loves purple). Our concern though is how well it actually is going to stay in place and not, you know, wobble about or anything. Can you actually deliver a decent experience with it, or do you have to be real gentle when using it?

Thanks in advance for any insight.



LaTigresse -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 2:01:16 PM)

I love mine, I've got 3 different ones. But, I did get a harness because I don't always play gently.




kineticsub -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 2:08:31 PM)

Okay, so on it's own you do have to be sorta easy with it. That's all I wanted to know, really.

Thank you!



pixelslave -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 5:07:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: kineticsub

Okay, so on it's own you do have to be sorta easy with it. That's all I wanted to know, really.

Thank you!



In my experience with a former Mistress, they work much better with harness.
 
 - pixel
 



Reigna -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 8:47:17 PM)

There are better doubles than the Feeldoe, but they're all pretty good. I've found I need a harness with any of them, though, except for a couple of positions. To a limited degree, I can get by without a harness when we're lying side by side with me behind him, and I'm not being terrifically aggressive. Another is the one where all I do is flop down on my back, and say, "Sit on it, slut."



subveritas -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 9:44:36 PM)

okay so the curious one here has to ask if anyone can suggest a good harness for the feeldoe. I have one and was thinking that it might be a little more comfortable to use if I had a harness so I wasn't worrying about....... "slippage"



Reigna -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 9:47:45 PM)

Can't help you in the commercial harness department. Mine's custom made. I do know that you want one whose retainer ring rides as low as possible on the pubis. The ring on mine is practically in my crotch, and it works great.



Racquelle -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/6/2008 9:57:10 PM)

Yes, use a harness, unless you have the Kegel muscles of a 17 year old contortionist.  The typical ring style harness is great.  You just want one with good, substantial construction that can be tightened down.  Mr. S has one they designed and manufacture that works quite well.  Stay away from elastic and cheap vinyl.



AllietheKitten -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 12:44:46 AM)

I don't like the Feeldoe at all. Firstly, the angles are all wrong if you are in a Domme/male sub dynamic. It takes a lot of contortion to get it where it needs to go. Also, without a harness it doesn't have enough...how can I say this? There isn't enough force in the thrusts to make anything happen. I have better luck with a traditional strap on or a vibrator/strap on combo.



Lashra -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 8:40:19 AM)

We didn't like the feeldoe at all. It kept slipping and why the hell is the "fucker" end so small and the "fuckee' end so big? I plan to buy another brand and see how that works.

~Lashra



Reigna -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 10:30:23 AM)

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ORIGINAL: AllietheKitten

I don't like the Feeldoe at all. Firstly, the angles are all wrong if you are in a Domme/male sub dynamic.


Yes, that's a real problem with the Feeldoe--it's not flexible enough, and so you have to struggle to get where it needs to go. Once you manage to drive it home, you still don't have enough length to be creative or terribly vigorous.

The Share is more flexible and therefore you can use it in more positions, but it's still not long enough to use in certain positions. Nexus now makes a longer model, which will be the longest among the three types. I'm looking forward to taking it for a test drive.



Lynnxz -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 10:47:08 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

We didn't like the feeldoe at all. It kept slipping and why the hell is the "fucker" end so small and the "fuckee' end so big? I plan to buy another brand and see how that works.

~Lashra



So I'm not the only one who thought they had mistakenly sat on a light bulb?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 10:54:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

We didn't like the feeldoe at all. It kept slipping and why the hell is the "fucker" end so small and the "fuckee' end so big? I plan to buy another brand and see how that works.

~Lashra



So I'm not the only one who thought they had mistakenly sat on a light bulb?



OMG Lynn, I snorked my pepsi!!

I am a fan of the nexus, and after reading this thread, I think I will stay that way.  My harness is one that I made, from a modified control top thong panty.  (Yes, a control top thong.  WHY would such a thing exist except for this purpose??)   A few rubber O-rings and judicious snipping, and I have a harness that fits me, holds the freakin dildo in the right position, and doesn't slip or give me peculiar bulges.

The work we go through to please these men, honestly...[8D]



Leatherist -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 10:56:54 AM)

Seriously,I wonder why designers are so amatuerish.

Doesn't anyone really look at how anatomy really works?



LaTigresse -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 11:43:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Reigna

quote:

ORIGINAL: AllietheKitten

I don't like the Feeldoe at all. Firstly, the angles are all wrong if you are in a Domme/male sub dynamic.


Yes, that's a real problem with the Feeldoe--it's not flexible enough, and so you have to struggle to get where it needs to go. Once you manage to drive it home, you still don't have enough length to be creative or terribly vigorous.

The Share is more flexible and therefore you can use it in more positions, but it's still not long enough to use in certain positions. Nexus now makes a longer model, which will be the longest among the three types. I'm looking forward to taking it for a test drive.


The latest big red version is plenty long and wide enough for me....



Lashra -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 7:55:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lashra

We didn't like the feeldoe at all. It kept slipping and why the hell is the "fucker" end so small and the "fuckee' end so big? I plan to buy another brand and see how that works.

~Lashra



So I'm not the only one who thought they had mistakenly sat on a light bulb?


LMAO you are right, thats exactly what it felt like. I think Im going to try the Nexus and see if that is any better.

~Lashra



LadyHibiscus -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 7:57:48 PM)

My only argument with the Nexus is that it's not large enough, or quite stiff enough.  Maybe they will make a larger one, if there is enough demand! [:)]



LaMistressa -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/7/2008 8:59:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

My only argument with the Nexus is that it's not large enough, or quite stiff enough.  Maybe they will make a larger one, if there is enough demand! [:)]


They do make a new larger one now, the Magnus. I have it on my Wish List for my next extra bit of cash, woo hoo! Also it looks to be a prettier color than the marbled ones.

But I do still love my original Nexus and the Terra Firma harness.



DelilahDeb -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/8/2008 4:08:20 AM)

I quite like my Feeldoe. No, it doesn't feel as though I sat on a light bulb. But then, as much as I enjoy "fisting", only one person (with slender fingers, small hand, and the ability to roll that hand) can actually get all of the hand inside, so I appreciate not having a serious bit of crowding to manage. I agree I want a harness for some positions.

Must say, if one wants to cross-dress complete with bulge in the jeans, it's just the ticket. I've also worn it around the house (I keep clothing optional house) just for my own entertainment at times.



pPaul -> RE: The Feeldoe (8/30/2008 7:15:34 AM)

I have a feedoe, doc johnson and a basic O ring harness, as far as the dildo end of it I love the shape and the feel of the feeldow, not sure how it is for the female but maybe I will find a women one year soon that can tell me.



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