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RE: Stress and telling the truth - 8/8/2008 12:18:45 AM

Dusty15

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Just want to thank everyone who responded to my post. Let you all know as of today I am no longer collared to her. Part of is do to the fact that she has some things going on in her own personal life and yes part of it is me. One thing I do do know what she has taught me will be very helpful to the next Mistress that I would be with.

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RE: Stress and telling the truth - 8/8/2008 7:01:37 AM

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This is a two part question and I am seeking some answers.
My Mistress has me writing down what I eat so that I am in better health. Went to the doctor and had a complete exam and the only thing that they saw was my surgar level was a little high and that is all. Well in this food journal I have been writing down what I have been having and My Mistress was up set that I have been eating to much junk food but yet I am in could health. I could have lied to her but did not. I know that I went against her in what she want me to do. What are your thoughts and how should I handle it.

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I know my Mistress is under some stress from some personal things that are going on and I think it is affecting us and I think she is taking it out on me. When you are under stress do you take it out on you sub's/slave?

Your sugar level was a little high and you eat a lot of junk food, so I wouldn't call that 'good health' necessarily. Listen to her and do what she says if you want to be her sub. Almost everyone is 'under a lot of stress these days' and if I need to take it out on someone I can call my pain-slut masochistic slave. Otherwise, no I don't take it out on someone who isn't submissive to me. That's one of the most beautiful things about D/s in my book: Being who you are in a powerful way, knowing what you want and need and finding partners that feed off of that dynamic.

Talk to her, openly, and yes: Be honest, always. Lying will get you the boot faster than you can say "I'm sorry."

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RE: Stress and telling the truth - 8/8/2008 7:19:22 AM

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I know I'm not a Mistress...so not going to touch the second half of your inquiry. But, as somebody with high blood sugar, and a fellow submissive- I really felt a need to address the first half.

There are a few things happening here, if I read your post right:
1) Your blood sugar was elevated at a doctors exam
2) Your Mistress responded to the health concern by restricting certain foods and having you keep a journal about what you are eating
3) You ate things that were on the "no-no" list
4) Your Mistress was displeased with you because you ate foods that were no good for you AND that she had restricted on account of it
5) You think that, perhaps, the best way to handle this in the future is to be less accurate in your admissions to dietary slip-ups

Hmmmmm....okay...I KNOW how hard it can be to eat properly. Making dietary changes is never easy. BUT, it would seem to be necessary in your case. Even when blood sugar is slightly elevated- it can be an issue. It means that, for some reason, at least some of the time- your body is not properly able to respond to the carbohydrates you are eating. This can often be a sign of insulin resistance or pre-diabetes. As somebody with a family history of diabetes- I can assure you that this is NOT something to take lightly or mess around with.

Now, from a 'lifestyle' perspective: you have a Mistress. Someone you have decided is worthy of following- so, I am assuming you respect her authority? She has, wisely, decided that- with your health being compromised- that you need to make some changes. She has required that you keep a journal so she can ensure you are following through. When she found out that you were not- she had every right to be upset. You were not only disobedient, but were jeopardizing the health of a person that she cares enough about to have accepted as HER sub.

Hiding the truth is in no way the right direction here. Change the behavior, and in the meantime, own up to the fact that what you did was unhealthy AND went against her wishes. And...consider yourself lucky to have a Mistress that cares enough to look after your well being.

< Message edited by OnlyHisLovebug -- 8/8/2008 7:21:27 AM >

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RE: Stress and telling the truth - 8/8/2008 8:25:01 AM

MissEnchanted

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ORIGINAL: Dusty15

Just want to thank everyone who responded to my post. Let you all know as of today I am no longer collared to her. Part of is do to the fact that she has some things going on in her own personal life and yes part of it is me. One thing I do do know what she has taught me will be very helpful to the next Mistress that I would be with.

Excellent Dusty! Good luck out there.

Always learning: that's my motto.

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