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Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 11:01:10 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I found this very interesting.  The other day i was in Starbucks (gettin my chai latte mmm) but i digress.  A guy walked in and i was drawn to him he was so Dom.   Don't get me wrong i am madly in love with my Master.  I did not want this man i only want Master, but i felt drawn to him.

Has tihs ever happened ?you love your Master/Dom/Daddy and don't want anyone else, but you felt drawn to a very Dom personallity?

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 11:38:43 AM   
pixidustpet


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Status: offline 		yep, sometimes there's that delicious combo of voice, presence, and phermones that makes me perk up and take notice in the most drool-worthy fashion....

and then i get to go home and TheEngineer reaps the benefits *giggling*

kitten

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 11:57:48 AM   
Mercnbeth


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quote:

Has tihs ever happened ?you love your Master/Dom/Daddy and don't want anyone else, but you felt drawn to a very Dom personallity?


yes, before being owned by Master, but this slave has never thought it had anything to do with them having a "very" Dom personality and everything to do with her having a very submissive personality.
this slave has also felt "drawn" to submit to submissives, switches and vanillas for the same reason.

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 12:12:42 PM   
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< Message edited by RavenMuse -- 8/7/2008 12:14:17 PM >

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 12:15:20 PM   
metalmiss


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Status: offline 		Yes, not only can it be delicious.. But also made all the more sweet by being a good girl and not acting on it.
There's no shame in a feeling..

*grumbles at the log out button.. sorry originally posted this as Raven*


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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 12:38:20 PM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		nope, but i've been drawn to people because they have 'a' personality.

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 1:22:20 PM   
Shawn1066


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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 1:34:57 PM   
subeos


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Status: offline 		i have always been drawn to men who were Dominate. Up until 5 yrs ago i finally realized i was submissive. And, have always been that way. All my life. Drawn to men in that fashion. i do like older men ( i have my kink) but, i am so drawn to a Dom who you can just tell.
i think we are sensitive in that way. Or, i shall say i am
slave eos

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 2:10:05 PM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		Hell, I've had this happen to me.  Just reverse the orientations.

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 4:27:15 PM   
katie978


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Status: offline 		I've never really met someone briefly and known they were dominant. There were a few cases pre-boyfriend where I had a crush on someone because they had a dominant personality, that I knew from work or class.

I'm unclear as how you can meet someone in Starbucks and sense that they're dom rather than just an asshole?


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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 4:27:40 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		In polyamory, this is usually known as "about to ask someone on a date"

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 4:29:16 PM   
christine1


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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 5:07:05 PM   
wordstoponder


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Status: offline 		Hiya,

I have felt drawn to many people, simple attraction and lust, or intellectual sexiness.  However, I have also felt the urge to give in to those who push.  In past experiences, I have given in to this urge.  In recent months, I gave in to one who was not into the Lifestyle at all.. I just couldn't keep my legs shut, even with Master's collar around my neck, and my bringing Him up in conversation...

Yes, there is nothing wrong with feeling drawn to someone.  As metalmiss mentioned, "there is no shame in feeling," and as long as one remains a good sub and doesn't act on those feelings, all is well.  I am still learning how to not give in.

Does anyone have any advice on how to remain strong?

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 8:17:01 PM   
batshalom


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Status: offline 		A bit of arrogance and a smidge of brashness draws me, especially if it's combined with a little gentility.

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/7/2008 8:43:41 PM   
smilingjaguar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: littleone35
Has tihs ever happened ?you love your Master/Dom/Daddy and don't want anyone else, but you felt drawn to a very Dom personallity?


Oh yeah...that's how Sir and I met, actually, but I digress.  There was this German gentleman I had to pick up at the airport for my construction company and OMG he was gorgeous, smelled good, had that beautiful accent and just carried himself in a way that wasn't overtly dominant but it was clear that he knew in no uncertain terms how he liked things done and that things would be done his way.  I found myself almost instantly attracted and tended to act very submissive around him.  Sir worked in the field with him and found it entertaining that there was more than one man on the planet I would be submissive to and even told me I had damn good taste in men.  He tells me now that I would never cheat on him because if I didn't with that man it just wasn't possible for me.  Now had he given me permission....

Edited to clarify that I was not with someone else when I met Sir...I just had that "drawn" feeling with him as well.


< Message edited by smilingjaguar -- 8/7/2008 8:56:32 PM >

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RE: Feeling Drawn? - 8/8/2008 7:08:38 PM   
Huntertn


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Status: offline 		I took a friend to a mall once..and then..I opened what I call my privacy fence..that bubble we americans call our person space.letting that part of me come out that I just plain hide from others ..anyway my friend was amazed how many ladies smiled and came up to me..using Sir ..and soforth..what freaked him out even more was went I "put the privacy fence back up" and walked away no one noticed me after that..he asked my I didn't do that as a teenager..LOL..like I understood How then..

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