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Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 2:56:06 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I am curious to see what fulfills others.  Is it a thank you?  Or praise?  Or simply knowing that you have served well?

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 3:00:41 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I am curious to see what fulfills others.  Is it a thank you?  Or praise?  Or simply knowing that you have served well?

You are not going to like my answer but...

For myself

what fulfilled me in a relationship was knowing that HE was able to release some tension by using me

That's it. Nothing more and nothing less

I sure do miss those beatings

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 3:01:07 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Knowing you are happy does it. A thank you isnt necesary but it can be nice. Praise is good, but knowing how you feel is better.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 3:22:35 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I get my fulfillment from being happy. 
Today I got to see a huge jackrabbit scurrying across a field.  :) I will be happy all day.
For me it only takes seeing a squirrel happily chomping on a nut, a rabbit, a bird in flight, a kid giggling, or a smile from an unexpected source.
Life.. is fullfilling.
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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 3:57:16 PM   
Deliena


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From: Darlington, United Kingdom
Status: offline 		knowing Master is proud of me and feels He chose well in selecting me, but beatings and usage come in close behind...... (we've been apart for a fortnight because of holidays - 2 more sleeps! Getting overexcited now /grins insanely LOTS)

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 4:26:37 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		In a Ds relationship as a submissive, I am control and service oriented.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 4:58:32 PM   
IvyMorgan


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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 5:40:06 PM   
kyraofMists


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Status: offline 		Being in a relationship with other people who allow and encourage me to be who I am is what fulfills me.  The rest of the stuff is icing on the cake.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 5:48:05 PM   
christine1


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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 7:25:41 PM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Surrounding myself with people who understand me and encourage my growth.  Doing work that allows me help others.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 8:05:54 PM   
batshalom


Posts: 1990
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Status: offline 		Psychology and biology, and doing well in both. Getting merit scholarships. Being inducted into university and national honor societies.

In a D/s context, service-oriented things, and managing to submit when I really don't feel like it (but making it seem like I really do).

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 8:06:10 PM   
califsue


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Status: offline 		Within the realm of my M/s relationship it is knowing that I give him great pleasure and joy. Him telling me I am a good girl or a kind word from him, him telling me he loves me, me serving him. 
 
In regular life, fulfillment comes when the old parents thank me for holding their hands as needed, even though at the time they resent the daughter being the parent. thank yous from my siblings for being the one that primarily assists the parents, taking them to the doctors, taking them shopping or just listening. Knowing that I am doing my paid job well and the thank yous from the boss for doing so. 
 
In seeing the beauty and miracles every day brings. Sometimes it is the miracle of seeing the moon and stars, the beauty of the flowers and tree, the hawks along the fences looking for food as I commute 50 miles to work. Hearing from long lost friends and catching up on our lives even if distance does not allow us to see one another on a regular basis. 
 
 
 

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 9:07:34 PM   
chamberqueen


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Status: offline 		I loved the answers!  I don't think there is any right or wrong answer, just what each person feels.  Thanks to everyone who chose to answer this post.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 9:17:21 PM   
DaintyDemure


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Status: offline 		Knowing I have given of myself all I can to make her life more easy, more enjoyable and not being a burden to her. When she cradles me to her chest and I look up in her eyes and see contentment.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/7/2008 9:35:21 PM   
Sandyshores29718


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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

ORIGINAL: chamberqueen

I am curious to see what fulfills others.  Is it a thank you?  Or praise?  Or simply knowing that you have served well?

You are not going to like my answer but...

For myself

what fulfilled me in a relationship was knowing that HE was able to release some tension by using me

That's it. Nothing more and nothing less

I sure do miss those beatings


I agree with you here. There are times I know he needs to release all the stress from the work week and having to put all those men at the shop in their place..so letting him take it out on my body then when he grins and says thanks I feel so much better the fulfillment I get is overflowing.

Or theres a smile they give for a job well done. I love it. Thank you is nice,but sometimes a look says more than those words ever will. IMO

< Message edited by Sandyshores29718 -- 8/7/2008 9:37:18 PM >

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/8/2008 12:14:21 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		One could list over and over but the core and driving force is oneself.
If you are expecting external forces to fulfil on a consistant and constant basis, you'll be let down.
 
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RE: Fulfillment - 8/8/2008 12:44:40 AM   
sillyslaveboy


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Status: offline 		Fulfillment i reach in knowledge that She is happy and satisfied with my servitude, be it just a smile, evil laughter or any other expression. Be there no expression, then it is the knowledge i served and did well.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/8/2008 2:41:51 AM   
silkncarol


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Status: offline 		I agree with on this subject.........I like who and where i am in this journey through life......i'm happy and contented......everything else is icing on the cake!   

Being in a solid D/s relationship, knowing i'm serving someone well...bringing happiness to his life in whatever way i can, and hearing that "good girl"  does make me heart happier too......


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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

One could list over and over but the core and driving force is oneself.
If you are expecting external forces to fulfil on a consistant and constant basis, you'll be let down.
 
the.dark.


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RE: Fulfillment - 8/8/2008 6:06:30 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		knowing there is something between us that will last beyond the moment, and beyond today.

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RE: Fulfillment - 8/8/2008 6:51:32 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		My answer is simple belonging to Master fullfills me.

Matt's littleone

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