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SlavHeart321 -> Before R/T 24/7 (8/9/2008 12:24:51 PM)

I'm highly considering taking on a Real Time, 24/7 relationship in the next few months as a slave. Any suggestions? Anything at all? [:D] Thanks.



SlavHeart321 -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/9/2008 12:30:15 PM)

I think I should of posted this under General BDSM. I think I'll post in there instead. My bad... 



CelticPrince -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/9/2008 12:43:09 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SlavHeart321

I'm highly considering taking on a Real Time, 24/7 relationship in the next few months as a slave. Any suggestions? Anything at all? [:D] Thanks.



heart,

how much time have you spent on line with this "D"?

CP



WizardOfDelphi -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/9/2008 2:04:54 PM)

Do you have previous experience in BDSM?  It always surprises and shocks me when I see someone who admits to being a novice looking for extremes like 24/7.  I'm not implying you are a novice, I don't know.

What I consider to be good general advice for anyone that is a novice is to take baby steps.  I particularly endorse becoming active in your local BDSM community.  Go out to social events, meet people, talk to them, attend educational events. etc.  Its amazing how much a person's perspective can change in just a month or two after they become active in a BDSM real-time (face-to-face) community.  I have yet to meet a novice who's opinions did not change at all once they began to truly learn about and understand BDSM.

If you do have experience in BDSM and feel that you understand what M/s and being a slave truly is, then give it a try if you think that may be what you're looking for.  Just be honest with any dominants you approach, tell them what your experience is and what your intentions / goals are in seeking such a relationship.



antipode -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/10/2008 9:37:28 AM)

Another "disappeared" profile..



Nitefalls1000 -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/10/2008 9:39:24 AM)

wonder if we will be seeing you on a milk carton????



daddysliloneds -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/10/2008 12:00:16 PM)

go stay with them on a trial basis for a week or two before making any kind of a committement or pulling up your life and your roots to jump into the frying pan.



Cdub2U -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/10/2008 6:11:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: WizardOfDelphi

Do you have previous experience in BDSM?  It always surprises and shocks me when I see someone who admits to being a novice looking for extremes like 24/7.  I'm not implying you are a novice, I don't know.

What I consider to be good general advice for anyone that is a novice is to take baby steps.  I particularly endorse becoming active in your local BDSM community.  Go out to social events, meet people, talk to them, attend educational events. etc.  Its amazing how much a person's perspective can change in just a month or two after they become active in a BDSM real-time (face-to-face) community.  I have yet to meet a novice who's opinions did not change at all once they began to truly learn about and understand BDSM.

If you do have experience in BDSM and feel that you understand what M/s and being a slave truly is, then give it a try if you think that may be what you're looking for.  Just be honest with any dominants you approach, tell them what your experience is and what your intentions / goals are in seeking such a relationship.




The noise you hear is both hands clapping!  My advice in at least half of the questions I answer (I don't answer many!) is:"Step Away From The Computer" go out and get involved in your local BDSM community!  -

Internet Dom....  my ass!




randsboy -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/14/2008 12:13:37 PM)

When i decided i needed a 24/7/365 Master, i diid some background work. Also we spoke alot over the phone before a weekend was spent together.  After this it became a week, followed by my moving in with Master.

You need to have a discussion about limits and safe words and never give up your safe word, because there are times it does come in handy. Includeing being loaned out to others for their use. Know what you are freally getting into before you commit fully and see if there are things that are permissable and what is not. Also don't plan on a joint account with money right off the back. keep it separate until you are both comfotable with the consept and know that you will always have available what you will need for daily expences. Expect to pull your fair share, don't expect a sugar daddy. They are far and very few.  hope this helps.

my Master and i have been together for 10 years, so i know it can work even if the chinese 12 year calendar says it won't.



greenearth21 -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/14/2008 1:10:02 PM)

do what makes you happy, but be smart about it.



leadership527 -> RE: Before R/T 24/7 (8/15/2008 7:57:24 AM)

be smart... go slow...  Remember that it may be your intention to be a 24/7 slave and his intention to be a 24/7 master.  But it takes time for those intentions to materialize.  It takes time for trust to develop.  It takes time for the relationship to develop.  Build your foundation slowly with an eye towards the long-term.  Remember there's no prize for "finishing first". 

Have fun.



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