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shandra -> need some advice (11/19/2005 2:16:16 PM)

i havent posted here before i dont know anywhere else on web to ask about this. ok i have a rl Mistress she was my best friend for years and i have been her slave about 2 weeks. anyway this is not a sexual M/s relationship and part of my service is to drive and help out when Miss is picking up boytoys. Anyhow we ended up at a boytoys house when this slave started to weaken from tiredness and hunger (was 7am after all night and day awake) so was exused by Miss to leave her there - i assume she is having fun but almost 2 hours later and all i am is worried, feel like i shouldnt have left Miss in some boy's house and i dont think she can hear her mobile phone. i'm not sure how much is rational but i feel like a bad slave for leaving her and am now just waiting on edge for her to call or answer her phone. am i a bad sub for leaving her, i have a feeling she would have preferred me to stay but is a nice mistress so exused me anyway

- worried slave



mnottertail -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 2:31:53 PM)

Panic is not becoming, you have no profile so I wing it. Do you live with her? No? then no. Does that slave have a car? then no. Your service is service? Then stand by the phone make sure it is charged and you are available to be reached, I assume she knows the number. You were excused........no matter why.

uuuuuuuhhhhh, can't go on with this, enough.
Ron



jamesthehumanrug -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 2:55:25 PM)

tin-soldier story man...she won't know you're waiting ,then, if she ever returns ,if she don't know, now....you should stay like a fixture .ask ,to sleep ,if you have ,to ,or show discipline(how do you spell ,that thing again?) stand at ease ,as long ,as possible.



fastlane -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 3:07:44 PM)

Next time this happens...and it will....have Mistress confirm you are on her speed dial.

Now, get some sleep! She's fine...you're a friken wreck!



slavejali -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 4:02:27 PM)

You obeyed, your a good subbie.



Delvin -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 4:29:32 PM)

Trust your Mistress, trust yourself, you were obedient, you were told to leave, you did,.

Now rest and be ready to safely drive there and her back home again.

D



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 4:43:53 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Delvin

Trust your Mistress, trust yourself, you were obedient, you were told to leave, you did,.

Now rest and be ready to safely drive there and her back home again.

D


Sounds excellent to me.

I would add- when there is time, communicate how you felt with her and perhaps next time she can relay a "reasonable time limit" of when she may likely need your services again to avoid miscommunication and unnecessary worry on any side.



anopheles -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 5:09:40 PM)

You did what you were told, which is all that you were "supposed" to do, so nothing for you to feel guilty about.

You should have a conversation with your Mistress solely on the basis of maintaining her safety. I think a reasonable compromise is to make sure that your Mistress has a way to communicate with you in case of a problem arising (flat tire or ax murderer), so that you can come to your aid if need be.

I require my sub to be able to do as such, so that I can make sure she is safe, and a responsible Mistress would be happy to appease you.


Best of luck,
Anopheles



shandra -> RE: need some advice (11/19/2005 5:51:51 PM)

thank you for your replies
yes i obeyed and there is nothing more i can do, still worried and will be until i know she is safe
adjusting to service can be so confusing
as to my profile, it is currently deactivated due mistress' request
i know panic isnt exactly attractive in a servant , i think i was mostly panicking because am still uncertain of my ability to serve Miss well
thank you all again for your replies
- still slightly woried but rested slave




imtempting -> RE: need some advice (11/20/2005 3:13:22 AM)

Agrees with the others. get some sleep



Dracironsgirl -> RE: need some advice (11/21/2005 5:10:51 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: shandra

i havent posted here before i dont know anywhere else on web to ask about this. ok i have a rl Mistress she was my best friend for years and i have been her slave about 2 weeks. anyway this is not a sexual M/s relationship and part of my service is to drive and help out when Miss is picking up boytoys. Anyhow we ended up at a boytoys house when this slave started to weaken from tiredness and hunger (was 7am after all night and day awake) so was exused by Miss to leave her there - i assume she is having fun but almost 2 hours later and all i am is worried, feel like i shouldnt have left Miss in some boy's house and i dont think she can hear her mobile phone. i'm not sure how much is rational but i feel like a bad slave for leaving her and am now just waiting on edge for her to call or answer her phone. am i a bad sub for leaving her, i have a feeling she would have preferred me to stay but is a nice mistress so exused me anyway

- worried slave


i don't believe you're a bad slave more like a caring one for feeling this way but my opinion is to discuss this concern with Mistress to get the resolve you need, a million can say what one can only convince as such.
good luck
~kristin



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