YourhandMyAss -> RE: "The" cock! (8/10/2008 3:51:25 PM)
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If their focal point is sex, than nothing wrong with that, and that IS what it's about FOR THEM. You can't speak for an entire group of people and tell an entire group of people what D/s is or isn't or what there is or isn't to be had. For the very simple fact because it's all about what THEY want it to be, not what you say it's about. and if THEY want it to be about sex IT IS ABOUT SEX. No matter what you say or feel.quote:
ORIGINAL: SirEbonyPhoenix Well think of it like this: For some people, whether male or female, sex seems to be the focal point of a D/s relationship. But the truth is that it is not. As I shared with someone today, there so much more to BDSM than whips, chains or sex. If there is no substance to a person in terms of what they have to offer (besides their physical attraction, both inside and out), then chances are, the relationship will die. And as a Dom, if a prospective submissive/slave can't offer anything other than how big their boobs are, then as they say in Hollywood, "Next!" I hope this was insightful to you.
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