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polydomfamily -> RE: Me too (8/10/2008 7:06:54 PM)
Oh we did we talked 5 times in that drive and all was great.

polydomfamily -> RE: Me too (8/10/2008 7:16:20 PM)
We have always told who ever we are interested in we will come get you if you dont have a car, or will give you gas money when you get here to help with travel. Then after 3 months if you are not happy or this just isnt working we will take you where you want to go. We did get to see some great things and made a mini vacation out of it after I calmed down and relaxed a bit.

LadyIce -> RE: Anyone else have something like this happen? (8/10/2008 7:20:34 PM)
I have had many online go "poof" and normally they just change their screen names and eventually resurface. I have been fortunate enough to not have them go "poof" when it is time to meet. Think of it this way, what if you actually met her and helped her relocate, and put in more time and money, and then she went poof? It really could have been a lot worse. Be glad you were spared wasting more time with or on her.

KatyLied -> RE: Anyone else have something like this happen? (8/10/2008 7:34:38 PM)
You were picking up a stranger to come and live with you?

yourMissTress -> RE: Anyone else have something like this happen? (8/10/2008 7:49:15 PM)
She could afford a hotel room but not a bus ticket? And why would you spend all that time driving, as well as the money on gas. Why not send her a plane ticket? Can't have been too far a difference in the two. Wait, you had never met but she was coming to stay for 3 months????? Wow...wow...uhmmm, yeah wow.

AllietheKitten -> RE: Anyone else have something like this happen? (8/10/2008 10:45:38 PM)
My very first experience in D/s-a Dom did the same thing. We were talking online, he'd agreed to make me his sub and I was very deeply emotionally involved and then he disappeared. Course, this was after we met in person and he tried to have sex with me w/o protection and I refused...I suspect that had something to do with it. Still, I was devastated until I realized that he was just a jackass player. And it scared we away from D/s for a long time.

Madame4a -> RE: Me too (8/11/2008 8:25:08 AM)
I'm sorry this happened to you but perhaps you should take a bit more time getting to know someone. I see several red flags -- someone is willing to move to you, almost immediately on the strength of "we'll pick you up"? A person without ties, a place to live, and willing to do that is probably not someone I want to get involved with. She was "staying" somewhere, but she was in a hotel? All very odd to me.. and would really send me running. You might want to get to know people a bit better before putting out all that effort and money. I wouldn't do it.

everhope -> RE: Me too (8/11/2008 10:43:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact No, this hasn't happened to Me yet. Please be aware that I use the word "yet." Anytime I'm meeting anyone, I plan it around some type of BDSM related event that I am already planning on attending. That way, if they don't pan out, I still go and have a great time. i flew to Fort Lauderdale, Florida for my first meet with a Dominant in the flesh. there also so happened to be an event going on, so figured no matter what..it would be all good. he instructed me to call him when my plane landed, as he was only 10 minutes away and would be right there to pick me up. i was so nervous...excited and um flustered that i went straight out the doors of the airport not even thinking or paying attention that it was the departure level. i called him and waited...and waited...and waited....2 hours later...10 or more phone calls with me describing where i was waiting...what i was wearing....him driving around and around the arrival area. finally, i broke down into tears on the phone and said ...ok fucking cool jokes on me...great mind fuck...thanks, but i am getting a taxi and going to my hotel. i walked back outside and asked the porter where all the taxis were and he kindly said, "downstairs in arrivals, Maam". i was omggggggg....did i mess this up. i ran downstairs and there he was the car coming towards me. he quickly parked...jumped out of his car...bent down and whispered in my ear..with his make my cunt wet, Barbados accent...hello, my darlin brenda, i really have the mind to put you over the hood of my car and spank your ass so raw that you will not be sitting down the whole time you visit the great state of Florida." what patience that man had and i so deserved everything i got...the sunburn i got on that trip did not begin to compare to the um...discomfort my ass felt. what a man... what a man... what a man...what a mighty fine man! since, then i have tempered my excitement and i am able to keep my head clear enough to not be in the wrong place, when i am meeting a Dominant.

Prinsexx -> RE: Anyone else have something like this happen? (8/11/2008 11:26:18 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: polydomfamily Well I got burned,in the 8 years we have been in the lifestyle I have never had this happen, and it was my own fault.We had been talking to this and I use this word lightly (lady) in AZ for a awhile and talked on the phone and yahoo IM just about every day. we all got along fine she asked if she could come stay and see if this was what she wanted and we said YES of course. Well we drove 15 hours and with gas you can see what we spend just in money to go get her. We arrived at the place she wanted us to meet her and guess what she was not there. had been, but checked out of the hotel. I called the cell and no answer. she had given me the house address of the people she was staying with and we drove there and noone would answer the door. To this day she has not been lady enough to at least say I got cold feet or kiss my ass. I will not make this mistake again. I'm sorry this happened. But it's relatively better than having had net her, or had her spend a week in toyr house (or having lived in theirs so to speak).

MaamJay -> RE: Anyone else have something like this happen? (8/12/2008 1:52:02 AM)
I've had local no shows. But any time considerable travel has been involved, there's been enough groundwork done and they've turned up. While it seems the OP might have been a bit premature in her plans, no show sucks! Maam Jay aka violet[A]

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