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Cochise475 -> Please Help me to get started......... (7/29/2004 12:49:40 PM)
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This is difficult! I have had to travel across the pond from the UK to ask advice from my American cousins(can't find UK site to ask myinnocent questions) perhaps you guys know of one, if you do please let me know asap.
My Problem?
I played with BDS&M many years ago at a very basic and simple level with a girl friend. We both enjoyed the sessions but we were so lacking in the knowledge of how to manage what we were doing and perhaps more importantly, how to get hold of whips, restraints, equipment etc. (It wasn't available to the amateur 40 years ago), that we just ran out of ideas. The relationship ended.
I then I was married and had a fantastic 37 straight years with a beautiful wife who sadly died 2 years ago. Throughout my married years I never lost mt curiosity for BDS&M.
Now I am alone I have the freedom explore my feelings, to experiment, I hope you experts will understand that I dont even understand the abbreviations you guys use, because I really am a novice and I will not rest until I either accept that this what I want, or, after some contact and education from the experts, I then can lay the ghost of all those those years ago to rest.
Please believe me, I need your help. You are enjoying this world that I want to learn about and maybe will become a part of but I don't know how to get started.
Your advice, anything at all, would be so much appreciated.
Thanks for reading this cry for assisstance
Cochise475
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