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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:23:22 AM

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I personally hate the taste the smell and the after taste of milk and won't drink it.

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Hmm, isn't D/s without kissing kind of like eating chocolate chip cookies without a glass of milk? Sure, cookies are very good by themselves, but add a glass of milk and it takes things to a whole new level of bliss.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:34:22 AM

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I have only kissed one sub. I guess I would allow another to kiss me but he would definittely wait until I grant him permission, It would be when I am comfortable with it and if I am ever comfrtable with it

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:40:29 AM

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I love kissing. I always have, no matter whether I was involved with a vanilla girl or a submissive girl. Yes, it is intimate...mouth to mouth, touching parts together that are used for communication in a way of communicating without words, parts that are used to satisfy hunger and thirst in a way that satisfies an inner hunger and thirst that have more to do with the needs of physicality and the soul rather than just basic need. As someone noted, it is one more way of controlling what is mine...which is every part of her...and doing so in a way that allows for the exploration of the person behind those eyes, behind that face which is a mask even when not being used as one. To feel as well as hear those whimpers as my hands are busy elsewhere, to see the pain in her eyes while also seeing the longing, to feel that intake of breath and taste the sighs and screams.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:45:13 AM

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six sylable words????? I would love to look them up what are they?

*husky whisper, warm breeze over your ear* Just as a sample... here's an 12-syllable to pique your interest... antidisestablishmentarianism. ... and a 19-syllable one to grow on... pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis. Of course, you'll have to beg for the definitions. *Wicked grin*

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:51:00 AM

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I cannot give up kissing. Just cannot. I wrote a journal entry about it a while back...

Kisses. Sigh. I love kissing.

It starts as a tingle, an ever-so-slight tingle, around the edges of my mouth. When I am with one, and I feel the tingle, it grows and builds and becomes an all-consuming urge. An urge I must act on.

I reach up with my hands, on either side of his face. Slowly sliding them down his cheeks, the darkness starts to creep into the edges of my vision, until I can see nothing but him. I feel the pulse quicken in my throat as I part my lips. They tremble slightly and I cannot help the low moan that escapes me as I gently brush across his mouth. A slight taste of the tongue, then a gentle sucking on his lower lip. Then more, harder, my pulse races, the heat builds, I lose all track of time.

Sigh. I love that. BIG SIGH.

And there is another type of kiss, in the midst of rough, primal, raw passion, that is hard and fast and frenetic and... bruising. That one is especially delicious for entirely different reasons.

Oh and the "after kisses". How could I forget about those? The hot lips pressed to glistening skin, every touch a reminder of the sensations imprinted there. And the soft exhale that follows, flowing over the back of my neck like cool water, sliding over the hills and settling into the valleys.

I had a thought about this, I'm sure I did. Where was I? Oh yeah. LOL. I have heard that some people do not kiss, as it interferes with their dynamic. I have found that my desire to kiss someone is a direct barometer of my true feelings for them. If I just want to "throw down" without even thinking about kissing them, well, hmmm, does it really matter who they even are?

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:56:12 AM

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Dagnabbit, Cali! No fair getting me all agitated when my lust object is too far away!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/11/2008 11:57:07 AM

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Doesn't it make a difference as to how one is kissed? The grabbing of the hair. Having ones head wrenched back to expose the throat. Feeling His teeth close down over your jugular and airpipe and knowing that if he clenches them it will cut off the supply of air to your lungs . Listening to him growl when his teeth sink into the skin of your neck. Then , after he releases you from the bite, to have your head pushed down with his eyes just inches from yours and your noses almost touching as you feel his hot breath on your face . The look he gives you when his head pushes closer and his eyes demand a kiss from your lips.. but he doesn't let you move your head closer as he retains control of you by your hair.

Ahh... Is raping ones lips a crime?

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 11:57:47 AM

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Miss H? I have references....

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 12:00:16 PM

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Dagnabbit, Cali! No fair getting me all agitated when my lust object is too far away!

I'm right here, Lady...and am I REALLY that far away?

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 12:01:19 PM

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Miss H? I have references....

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/11/2008 12:16:33 PM

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Ahh... Is raping ones lips a crime?

Why, yes it is. And if You'd be so kind as to follow me into my small remote office in the "sub basement" we can file a full report!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 12:24:51 PM

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:D I know that if there was no kissing. I'd be on my own.
Everyone needs Teh kisses!! :)

IMO - It's nice to tease, licking your partners lips and they are not react. Until permitted.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/11/2008 12:40:50 PM

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If I'm in a d/s relationship then that means I'm in a relationship with that person for the long haul...period...so that includes everything, even kissing. It then becomes one of my requirements to be in a relationship with that person. No kissing to me means he just really isn't into me and he sees us as nothing more than casual players and that's really not what I'm seeking at all.

Ditto here. I have got to have the kissing mmmmmmmmm. Tongue wrestling and all, oh yummmmmy.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 8:08:27 PM

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kissing is not only a wondeful feeling but its an interface ( no pun intended..or maybe it was...) to D/s play. I look forward to it...lips, lips or otherwise

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 10:27:02 PM

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So my question is this:
How many others in D/s relationships kiss?

We are kissers in this family... snugglers too

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/11/2008 10:33:41 PM

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(first post here, forgive me for the sloppiness)

First off, I'm a kisser. Boy/girl, public/private...if we're attracted to eachother and the mood is right, I'm all for it. It's an attraction thing for me but also says, "I like you and I want to be close to you."

I've recently met a young man here and we're doing very nicely at laying the foundation for a great friendship as well as a D/s relationship. I would primarily be his Domme though my desire to be Dommed by him will be fulfilled as well. :) Anyway, he's much younger than I and fairly inexperienced but for a 3 yr realtionship. After a fantasy IM, he'd mentioned that he wasn't sure about kissing, that perhaps it should be reserved for a "dating" relationship. I understand his implication of intimacy but, for me, there's an AMAZING amount of intimacy in D/s. I also understand that this perception is probably due to his lack of experience in all arenas and he'll figure it out as he learns more. We've spent time together in RL, have alot of fun and are getting quite comfortable with each other. I won't press the issue, it's not that important but it's something I'll miss. My idea is to let him call that shots as far as the lip service goes. He's MORE than willing to go forth with many other edgy & kinktastic scenarios. =)

So my question is this:
How many others in D/s relationships kiss?

chuckypet...I haven't looked at your profile and don't even know or care what sex you are...but if someone said that to me I'd be very inclined to think 'He's just not that into me' and act accordingly. I'd need some solid reassurance that an attraction to me did exist after such a comment...just my reaction.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/11/2008 11:35:32 PM

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Ditto here. I have got to have the kissing mmmmmmmmm. Tongue wrestling and all, oh yummmmmy.

Darn, I haven't heard the term "tongue wrestling" in a coon's age. Back in the day, a certain sorority used to do a "Tongue Wrestling Competition" as a fundraiser. <grin> Now, where did I put my 3rd place trophy?

Kisses... some come lightly as dancing with a butterfly. Some come with teeth, and bruises to remind of passions entwined.

Valentine Michael Smith had the right idea with kissing.

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RE: Kissing in a D/s realationship? - 8/12/2008 1:12:26 AM

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Another keen kisser here! However, Master is a bit claustrophobic, so we don't get into long deep kisses here, but lots of shorter ones instead. However, every now and then He will grab my hair and give me a longer, really passionate kiss and that about knocks me off my feet! *feeling tingly down my back just thinking of it!*

As far as subs go, I will kiss the cheek or forehead of even a relatively casual partner if I feel I want to do so. However, I would hold back on passionate kissing until they are clearly Mine in an ongoing relationship. I also love having them kneel and kiss My feet ... they get told off if they land it on the shoe! I love to feel soft lips on My flesh!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/12/2008 7:09:52 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chuckypet

(first post here, forgive me for the sloppiness)

First off, I'm a kisser. Boy/girl, public/private...if we're attracted to eachother and the mood is right, I'm all for it. It's an attraction thing for me but also says, "I like you and I want to be close to you."

I've recently met a young man here and we're doing very nicely at laying the foundation for a great friendship as well as a D/s relationship. I would primarily be his Domme though my desire to be Dommed by him will be fulfilled as well. :) Anyway, he's much younger than I and fairly inexperienced but for a 3 yr realtionship. After a fantasy IM, he'd mentioned that he wasn't sure about kissing, that perhaps it should be reserved for a "dating" relationship. I understand his implication of intimacy but, for me, there's an AMAZING amount of intimacy in D/s. I also understand that this perception is probably due to his lack of experience in all arenas and he'll figure it out as he learns more. We've spent time together in RL, have alot of fun and are getting quite comfortable with each other. I won't press the issue, it's not that important but it's something I'll miss. My idea is to let him call that shots as far as the lip service goes. He's MORE than willing to go forth with many other edgy & kinktastic scenarios. =)

So my question is this:
How many others in D/s relationships kiss?

pet,

The kiss is an essencial point in any D/s relationship as the tongue is just as vibrant an invasion as a cock!

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RE: Kissing in a D/s relationship? - 8/12/2008 7:39:56 AM

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I love kissing. I don't kiss everyone tho, it depends on the dynamics of the situation.

A sloppy, wet, drooling kiss where the other persons slobber is running into my mouth or all over my face will kill it quick for me tho. *shudder*

I assure you, if I kiss you and it's good... there will be many more kisses!

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